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William Wharton, born 7 November 1925, is the pen name of the author Albert Du Aime, an American-born author best known for his first novel Birdy, which was also successful as a film.
Apparently, on the eve of his daughter's wedding, she asked him 'what is love?'. He answered: 'it is passion, admiration and respect. if you have two, you have enough. If you have three, you don't have to die before you go to heaven.'
what do you think?
i think you have to have all three.
I WANT ALL THREE!!!!!!!!!!
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So much for not dying before going to heaven
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Being a man and hence lower life form, I think I need passion first.
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Roxijam: passion isn't enough on it's own either. at some point you will have to hold a conversation with your partner.
I agree, so...
I would say that admiration is a natural byproduct of respect; therefore, my third essential would have to be Communication. And by that, I imply that the communication between the two is grounded in honesty. Open Honest Communication. It should start the relationship, and carry it through till death us do part...
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we scorps don't ask for much do we?
Just the world.
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DYR: YOU FORGOT THE DAMN CHERRY ON THE TOP MAN!!!
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and some chocolate sprinkles with a dollop of whipped cream on the side?
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Hate to break it to ya, Rox, but I took the cherry already!
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oh! and you have to give me the controls to the world's climate. rain will be banned apart from on special occasions or when my begonias need a drink. snow is a no-no from now on. it's far too cold and spooky. grey skies? VERBOTEN!!!
RAUS!! RAUS!! MACHEN SIE SCHNELL DYR!!!
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DYR: I took the cherry already!
you're a low-down, cotton-picking, cherry picker!
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"Being a man and hence lower life form, I think I need passion first."
Naw, I'm right there with ya, with respect second. Don't respect and admiration kind of overlap, though? Just thinking of the few people I respect in this life, I realize I admire them too.
i think love is much more than that....i could be wrong or i could be in heaven already...lol
definitely the three together unconditionally but also consideration, honesty and security, balance/harmony, communication.These could be the branches that grow on top of the ones mentioned by Roxy: passion, admiration and respect!!!!
i thank God for the above every day, and i wish/hope that every person out there will find it one day!!!!