about a scorpio guy, what should I do?
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by balabala on Sunday, July 5, 2015 and has 8 replies.
My question is:
Does he still like me? I want to make it clear. If yes how can I push thing forward? I mean I like him now, but I don??t know what to do.
Or simply I should just need to give up on him; he??s just not that into me?
Long story, but I'll try to make it short as I can.
So this scorp guy told me last year that he wants me to be his gf in an quite direct way (not 100% direct, but I could tell for sure)
At that time I was confused, coz we barely talk to each other except work, and our conversation always short, so for me I can't find any reason that he's into me, so I refused in an indirect way I thought he was kidding (oh I didn't know he's a scorp back then).
We work at the same place, so every he gave me those stares, tried to make himself appeared in front of me as much as he could. As for me I really don't want to have any relationship with anyone at work, it can be a mess sometimes, you know it. Then he transferred to other department. We rarely see each other, only occasionally pumped onto each other at work, casual greeting conversations and that's it.
We chat on facebook sometimes (I don't have his phone number, just facebook). I always have to initiate to chat first then he reply really short (kinda like not into chatting). Conversations kinda boring, as I don't know what to say, and he's the same. But recent month he told me he has problem with his study and work together, really stressful..... so I encourage him, support him and check on him one in couple of days to see how he's doing. Seem like things going well. He opened more with his study, his schedule and his thought.
But I noticed one thing, even he misses chatting with me, he won't text me but just sending out some hint(on fb) for me to message him. If he's mad with watever I said, he will ignore my message and stop chatting with me. I normally leave it like that for couple of days and start chatting again (of course I have to start first) and everything's back to normal. My waiting period is from 2, 3 days to a week.
However recently I'm tired, it seems like I have to do all the work, so from the last time he ignored me till now is more than 2 weeks, and I haven't text him back.
Does he still like me? I want to make it clear. If yes how can I push thing forward? I mean I like him now, but I don??t know what to do.
Or simply I should just need to give up on him; he??s just not that into me?
Long story, but I'll try to make it short as I can.
So this scorp guy told me last year that he wants me to be his gf in an quite direct way (not 100% direct, but I could tell for sure)
At that time I was confused, coz we barely talk to each other except work, and our conversation always short, so for me I can't find any reason that he's into me, so I refused in an indirect way I thought he was kidding (oh I didn't know he's a scorp back then).
We work at the same place, so every he gave me those stares, tried to make himself appeared in front of me as much as he could. As for me I really don't want to have any relationship with anyone at work, it can be a mess sometimes, you know it. Then he transferred to other department. We rarely see each other, only occasionally pumped onto each other at work, casual greeting conversations and that's it.
We chat on facebook sometimes (I don't have his phone number, just facebook). I always have to initiate to chat first then he reply really short (kinda like not into chatting). Conversations kinda boring, as I don't know what to say, and he's the same. But recent month he told me he has problem with his study and work together, really stressful..... so I encourage him, support him and check on him one in couple of days to see how he's doing. Seem like things going well. He opened more with his study, his schedule and his thought.
But I noticed one thing, even he misses chatting with me, he won't text me but just sending out some hint(on fb) for me to message him. If he's mad with watever I said, he will ignore my message and stop chatting with me. I normally leave it like that for couple of days and start chatting again (of course I have to start first) and everything's back to normal. My waiting period is from 2, 3 days to a week.
However recently I'm tired, it seems like I have to do all the work, so from the last time he ignored me till now is more than 2 weeks, and I haven't text him back.
However recently I'm tired, it seems like I have to do all the work, so from the last time he ignored me till now is more than 2 weeks, and I haven't texted him back. From my point of view he seems kinda childish. I know I??m at wrong sometimes too, but I think it supposes to be 2 sides work.
Oh add in 1 more thing, 3 weeks ago, we worked together again, and same thing happens, he tried to stay close to me as he could. if I talked with some other guys, he found an excuse to come close and observed. Keeps calling me by my nickname (I think he likes it, and told it's a secret between me and him, (I don't think it's a secret at all, but that's wat he thinks), and saying that I'm funny.
I did invite him out for a drink 2 months ago but at that time he was so busy with work and study so he couldn??t make it. I could ask him this week again, but I??m tired as I cannot figure out wat he wants, so I stop.
My question is:
Does he still like me? I want to make it clear. If yes how can I push thing forward? I mean I like him now, but I don??t know what to do.
Or simply I should just need to give up on him; he??s just not that into me?
Oh add in 1 more thing, 3 weeks ago, we worked together again, and same thing happens, he tried to stay close to me as he could. if I talked with some other guys, he found an excuse to come close and observed. Keeps calling me by my nickname (I think he likes it, and told it's a secret between me and him, (I don't think it's a secret at all, but that's wat he thinks), and saying that I'm funny.
I did invite him out for a drink 2 months ago but at that time he was so busy with work and study so he couldn??t make it. I could ask him this week again, but I??m tired as I cannot figure out wat he wants, so I stop.
My question is:
Does he still like me? I want to make it clear. If yes how can I push thing forward? I mean I like him now, but I don??t know what to do.
Or simply I should just need to give up on him; he??s just not that into me?
Posted by Binota
Sounds like immature one.
But also I sense he falls in love with you on first sight. Something hits him that he wants to be close to you and suddenly asking you for having relationship.. pretty delusional I say.
But something tells you that you either want to have relationship with him or not. Perhaps he got you since he made a good attention from you that you got in his little details.
yes, you're right, I do think he's immature and I'm not really looking for drama.
oh beside, he was with his ex when we met each other, couple of years ago
then idk, they broke up sometimes around march last year, I guess
and around august last year the told me to be his gf
then idk, they broke up sometimes around march last year, I guess
and around august last year the told me to be his gf
Posted by busyeyes88
@OP. Don't keep instigating contact. If a man is interested enough he will make it known. He will contact you. The more you initiate, you are taking the lead which is a man's role whether it deemed to be old fashioned or not. I am old school, this has always been my way and I have ALWAYS had the men that I WANT ie it has never failed. Let him come to you. If he is still interest he will make it known. If not, then he is not the man for you. Simple as that...
Thank you
That's also one of the things I consider.
Since the beginning, if I didn't initiate any conversation, he wouldn't chat to me at all.
So when he see me, he act differently, has all his focus on me. But when apart, I have to do all the contact if I want to talk to him.
That makes me cannot trust him at all.
Does some scorp guys act like this?
The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Hi Kalin, is it a message,
but I don't know how to read it, I'm new to this site, sorry
if you can tell me how that would be great!
Oh I remember you told me to tell him I like him right?
but I'm not sure about it
will a Scorpio guy still pursue a girl even after he got reject?
I heard that - if a Scorp wants you he will drop everything else and be hot on your heels until you give in, it's either 110% or 0% .
In my case he didn't do anything, so I'm really unsure about his feeling for me
but I'm not sure about it
will a Scorpio guy still pursue a girl even after he got reject?
I heard that - if a Scorp wants you he will drop everything else and be hot on your heels until you give in, it's either 110% or 0% .
In my case he didn't do anything, so I'm really unsure about his feeling for me
Posted by BinotaPosted by balabalaPosted by busyeyes88
@OP. Don't keep instigating contact. If a man is interested enough he will make it known. He will contact you. The more you initiate, you are taking the lead which is a man's role whether it deemed to be old fashioned or not. I am old school, this has always been my way and I have ALWAYS had the men that I WANT ie it has never failed. Let him come to you. If he is still interest he will make it known. If not, then he is not the man for you. Simple as that...
Thank you
That's also one of the things I consider.
Since the beginning, if I didn't initiate any conversation, he wouldn't chat to me at all.
So when he see me, he act differently, has all his focus on me. But when apart, I have to do all the contact if I want to talk to him.
That makes me cannot trust him at all.
Does some scorp guys act like this?
That means he has no interest. Like Busyeyes said, don't chase him.. let him chase you since he was the one who brought up about this situations.click to expand
Thank you Busyeye, and Binta.
I've decided to do like what you said.
Simply I just want to see more proof, that's it.
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