Mamma_Roz
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Another Dating a scorpio question
> My scorp talks of the future openly and seemingly confidently, however when it comes down to actually making something happen he becomes all reserved and tries to avoid the subject at all cost.
I think this is just a man thing. They can say everything they want as long as the girl doesn't buy into it ... the moment the girl takes him serious, he freaks out. Especially early on. The best thing to do is say "yes, that would be wonderful!" but don't really take it serious and don't bring it up again.
... them just words baby!
Eventually, he will get use to associating you with his future and start acting on it, but you have to let him do this at his own speed. Watch his actions and just enjoy his words.
Don't worry about his ticket, that is his problem. You want to be his partner/his mate, not his mom. He is a big boy. He can buy the ticket if he wants it. If he has to pay more because he didn't get his ticket, that is his choice and has nothing to do with you what so ever.
Trust me. It is much easier this way ... and it works because you are showing you trust him to get stuff done. 😉
I think this is just a man thing. They can say everything they want as long as the girl doesn't buy into it ... the moment the girl takes him serious, he freaks out. Especially early on. The best thing to do is say "yes, that would be wonderful!" but don't really take it serious and don't bring it up again.
... them just words baby!
Eventually, he will get use to associating you with his future and start acting on it, but you have to let him do this at his own speed. Watch his actions and just enjoy his words.
Don't worry about his ticket, that is his problem. You want to be his partner/his mate, not his mom. He is a big boy. He can buy the ticket if he wants it. If he has to pay more because he didn't get his ticket, that is his choice and has nothing to do with you what so ever.
Trust me. It is much easier this way ... and it works because you are showing you trust him to get stuff done. 😉
Spoken like a true pro there little sparrow!..
Not to put a downer on the situation..but a wise saying:
"women may be able to fake an orgasm, but men can fake a whole relationship"...
Not to put a downer on the situation..but a wise saying:
"women may be able to fake an orgasm, but men can fake a whole relationship"...
You are so right capman. Those words really stand out and must have pissed him off.
Mama Roz, a scorp man is extra HIGh maintenance emotionally and otherwise. You have to give him top priority above every other thing. But do not expect ANYTHING in return...just give, give and give ..and keep on proving that you are loyal, dependable and trustworthy and above all HE COMES FIRST.
But what you said about you having bought your ticket and him having to buy HIS ticket might have been interpreted as lack of attachment or emotional coldness by him...as if he did not matter enough. You should have offered to buy ticket for him and he would have definitely declined saying that he would buy it soon.
That is just my feeling...just as it struck the capman.
Mama Roz, a scorp man is extra HIGh maintenance emotionally and otherwise. You have to give him top priority above every other thing. But do not expect ANYTHING in return...just give, give and give ..and keep on proving that you are loyal, dependable and trustworthy and above all HE COMES FIRST.
But what you said about you having bought your ticket and him having to buy HIS ticket might have been interpreted as lack of attachment or emotional coldness by him...as if he did not matter enough. You should have offered to buy ticket for him and he would have definitely declined saying that he would buy it soon.
That is just my feeling...just as it struck the capman.
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My scorp talks of the future openly and seemingly confidently, however when it comes down to actually making something happen he becomes all reserved and tries to avoid the subject at all cost.
Case in point. I have an upcomming trip to visit one of my best friends. This I s something that is not going to happen untill September so there is plenty of time to make travel plans etc. When we talk about it he seems eager to go and wants to meet my close friend. I purchased my tickets this week locking in an awesome air fare and told him if he was still planning to go he better get his ticket before prices go up. He became extremly silent and avoided any and all conversation regarding travel plans. This ofcourse upset me and I snapped at him and said "if you don't want to go just say so". He still has not responded to the are you going question. The most I got from him is that he "was planning on going". Is this normal for you scorpios. Are you all talk but no action when it comes to being tied down to a plan.