Anxiety causing energy

is there an anxiety causing energy in the air for the past few days? i've been feeling kind of weird towards my relationship. it's like negative thoughts in mind like breaking up and not trusting and feeling like there is no point to it. and then i'm ok and happy again about the situation. don't know what to do? am i developing anxiety or bipolar syndrome or something else? anyone else feeling like that?

i hope it's a residual effect. hate feeling like that. i think i had a slight anxiety attack the other day. thanks for being supportive here

well, there is no arguments involved. it's just confusing that someone is telling you one thing then another. it's like a love you and want to be with you but i'm not ready to be "we" couple and not ready to get married. i don't really know what "we" couple is and i'm not ready to get married right now either. i know he has a business he's working on and doing really well. i'm just anxious when he'll be well off he'll be off to someone else since he's working in public relations and will access to celebrities and become a tv personality himself. pls let it all be just an anxiety and insecurity and not the truth.

thanks for the input jumping elephant. what does it mean to be "we" couple to a man? there is nothing to ask except "when you'll make it big will you dump me for a hotter or celebrity girl?" doesn't it scream insecurity? he hates that in ppl. i like the idea of green tea and probably i'll start smoking. oh, i wish i was more secure. hate feeling like that. i'm not used to insecurities;(

he tells me that i'm his and i never said he's mine. he tells me he loves me and asks me if i told my parents about him and told me that his mom knows about me. but then he says he's not ready to be all the way "we" and not ready to get married. he's the one who's starts all those relationship convos not me. i hate them. to many having those convos is like beginning of the end.

i know they suck and that's why i don't bring them up. just wondering why he brings them up including marriage conversation. i'm the one who says that i'm not in a hurry to get married.

Ariesgirl, i can relate to what you;re going through. I have anxieties. I think my scorpio brought this out in me about a year ago. I "feel" too much and this is something i am still learning to control. I can actually "Feel" my scorpio. I hate it. because this makes me anxious. Both u and i have scorpio men with venus is Sag and with that being reality, ur alittle confused by what he's saying not knowing what to believe and ur anxiuos about it.When its like that for you you have to focus on urself. If your not clear about what he's saying to you, have a nice little talk with him about what you're feeling so you can rid those anxious feeling😉

i know they suck and that's why i don't bring them up. just wondering why he brings them up including marriage conversation. i'm the one who says that i'm not in a hurry to get married.

I think just him bringing the subject up is saying he wants this in his future with you. Sounds like he has alot of things going on right now but in time it could happen. If he brings it up express how you feel but dont Fully express it u know what i mean?,.let him take the lead in the convo and you will know how serious he is. Don't worry just enjoy ur relationship🙂

yes, exactly!!! you get how i feel. i also "feel" my scorp. i know when he's about to come to my place. i know it sounds crazy but sometimes i think of something or situation and he says it out loud later. it's like i'm reading his mind. that's why i'm feeling anxious because i'm imagining him thinking all those thoughts and i'm picking up on it. why can't i think of winning lottery numbers— i'm working hard on focusing on myself and have a full life. anytime i voice something i don't feel comfortable with he calms me down but nothing drastically changes.

"I think just him bringing the subject up is saying he wants this in his future with you." - not sure about that. imo anyone who wants to get married to someone tells them that they want to get married or see that person in the future as a partner. mine says i'm not ready to get married. i think he just let's me know where he stands. i think all of these is because we're hitting 1 year mark. i can't believe it.

hi elena, i know there is something that's not 100% right and i'm not sure what would make it totally right. moving in together or marriage for which we're both not ready. he's working on building his business like crazy and not fully there financially. he volunteered to say that he's not moving in with me and not looking to get married any time soon.
"When scorpio loves you...you HAVE NO DOUBT !!! Come rain or shine...heaven or hell...richer or poorer...sickness or health...lol...wtf—"- that's all very romantic and nice. he tells me loves me and affectionate, and spends most of the night with me but i'm not trusting words that much since ppl talk and do different.
"Why do you think he keeps bringing up the marriage, commitment talk— He KNOWS that even though you're ?saying? you don't mind...you actually DO. " - and that wold achieve what? would give him an opportunity to tell me that he doesn't want any of those things at this time. is he giving me a choice to stay or go?