I'm an Aquarius and my Scorpio boyfriend and I have a crazy relationship. He's so intense and I'm really so detached, it's bad. It makes me upset because I can't control it and all I want to do is love him. I feel like I'm the beginning things have happened that created a barrier for life between us. I can't explain it but we're so good together that we're bad. He's clingy and jealous and he watches me. I'm nonchalant and I hate anyone looking at me for too long. I've never felt love like this. The relationship My family has amongst each other is detached so this is the most love I know. When we're bad he does come for me but I do the same. We don't have a bond but we're a big family. I'm 20 1/29 hes 24 11/14
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Mar 15, 2017Comments: 55 · Posts: 942 · Topics: 15
Don't be fooled.
All scorps want is your nature. So if it is your nature to be detached, then don't change anything.
Maybe just need more time to understand deeper.
No we're good together but I'm so detached and he's so clingy and he loves me a lot more and rd starting to drive me up a wall. I just want to cool out lol I think the sex is what's keeping me there to be real. He's so good though but I just feel like we'll never work due to our differences. For example some thing I don't get mad at easily upset him and I never see why, vice Versa. It's just a lot
hmm when he starts ignoring you for days, then I guess that's when you will start to miss him. Usually works that way me thinks. But usually if he starts doing that means.... get ready girl, roller coaster incoming. There's also a solution when that happens. I personally thinks he really loves you though, I wouldn't put up with this crap unless i'm like head over heels for you. Should be fine, don't worry.
then talk to him about it.. Scrops are emotional people, we need to love and feel love in return, what's "clingy" to you, is normal to us, and he's probably being more "clingy" because you're being so detached.
You pull away, and he loves you, so he pulls you back.. It's not clingy, he's trying to show you how much he loves you. But you keep pushing him away.
You also should talk to him about how you feel, we aren't psychic all the time you know.. If it's overwhelming, let him know that...
for the things that don't upset you, but really upset him, maybe try and see it from his perspective as to why it's making him so upset. maybe it's something he deeply cares about, and you not seeing it as a big deal, probably hurts his feelings even more because he does care so much about whatever the issue was..
Differences are what make people, people. you need to learn not to be so distant, If someone loves you so much that it's overwhelming to you, then maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship. When scropio's love, we love HARD. no middle ground. If you cant take the heat, get out of the kitchen.
But you also need to figure out what you want. if Distant is your nature, and you think you man is too "clingy" because he just wants to be with you, then you need to address why you like being distant. and again, Talk to him about it. maybe you can find a middle ground or something reasonable. Communication is key with scorpios. We dont know when we're too much, until someone says so.