are venus in scorp people crazy lovers?

I'm a venus in scorp. I get obsessive impulsive want what I can't have am emotionally intense sometimes. I get jealous and insecure sometimes. I'm protective and want to punch men or women in the face if they hurt the guy I'm in love w. I love way too deep I think it's scary to some guys but they seem to like it at the same time. I was just recently told I'm beautiful but I'm fucking crazy haha. anyone else lile this?

I'm beginning to feel the only person who could handle me is another venus in scorp... my first love was an Aries w venus in Pisces. it was really intense but I still think too intense for him. the next was Gemini w venus in cancer. he made me realize I could love someone comparable to my first love but I was still more intense and the last was cancer w venus in cancer. he's the one that told me I'm beautiful but fucking crazy and also I said I'meemotionally messy to him and he told me he likes it. but now he's backing up saying I'm too emotional.

so everevolve. what would u consider crazy

I want to meet a sag w venus in scorp

Posted by libnicole84
I want to meet a sag w venus in scorp

I have Mars in Scorp and I'm a Sag sun 🙂

Yea I'm def not that kind of crazy.

@beautifulsoul. oooolalaaa 😉 do u like the crazy ones haha

I wonder if it's a better placement for a man since women like passion. some men seem scared of emotional intensity

Posted by libnicole84
Yea I'm def not that kind of crazy.

@beautifulsoul. oooolalaaa 😉 do u like the crazy ones haha

Lmao...as long as it is controlled 😉 Everybody has a little crazy in them. My intuition says I'd be able to handle the intensity because I understand it. I have to have an emotional connection anyway.

Posted by libnicole84
I am emotionally intense sometimes. I'm protective. I love way too deep

1+🙂

how do u learn to control it?

To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore, to love is to suffer. Not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy, then, is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be happy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you??re getting this down. ~ Woody Allen

haha I posted it on mine too

Lol crap.

it sure is. I try to avoid it as much as possible but once I trip it's a rocky road I seem to fall down

I avoid it altho I crave it. as well as intimacy. I always feel conflicted.

ick tunnel vision is spot on

Posted by libnicole84
I want to meet a sag w venus in scorp

I like you have Venus in scorp and it can be very intense although after a while you learn how to tone it down and not act so emotional however when you really fall that goes out the window, back to the quote I am now dating a Sagg with with a scorp in Venus and it's like yes someone who can understand...

I have this venus placement (along with Scorpio sun and moon.) I used to get quite ridiculously jealous and over protective, however now I've realized that being that way is so self defeating- I've found that the only way to cast those emotions away is to have faith and confidence in myself. The more insecurities I have- the more jealous and unstable (as some people would say, crazy) I'll be. One quality I still do find extraordinarily redeeming however, is protectiveness when someone may hurt my loved ones. Venus in Scorpio folks are so loyal, we will protect those we love to no end. Which is why it's worth while for others to have us in their lives.

Ive had VERY intense feelings for someone I wasnt even in a relationship with, so to feel that strongly about a "friendship" breaking off, is how i know i have bat-s% it crazy potential. I dont even want to think about the ties Id have from a relationship, or sex. Omg.

I control my ViS by not letting anybody "in" or trying not to. No boyfriends, no sex, no real physical contact/intimacy. If im hurt, there is a desire to torture in some way. I like the placement, but im ready for it to evolve. To not have sex, im still interested in it more than anything else. Id only see myself really expressing myself thru sex. Not good, and i attract those that desire sex from me. Again, not good.

I'm a lil crazy too lol

I think we are all a little bit crazy.... Especially when in love...

Quick aside: how do you find out your whole astrological chart? I've tried to google it and came up confused. All i know is I'm a scorpio but all the "sun in venus, moon in mars etc etc" parts still elude me.

Posted by Djz05
I think we are all a little bit crazy.... Especially when in love...

Quick aside: how do you find out your whole astrological chart? I've tried to google it and came up confused. All i know is I'm a scorpio but all the "sun in venus, moon in mars etc etc" parts still elude me.

Enter the words, "Venus Group" in whichever inter-web search engine you tend to use.
Put in your birth details. After doing so, click on the report that says, "Alpha Imprints".
It will then explain the meaning of your Sun, Moon, and Ascendant.

It's one of my favorite Free Natal Chart Astrology websites.

Posted by libnicole84
how do u learn to control it?

Completely let go, and understand you will never control another's heart/mind. You won't die from a heartbreak, you will learn from it. Instead of jumping in like cupid with a cross bow, slow yourself down, learn and get to know the next guy you are with. Don't imagine a future with him UNTIL you know him like you would with ordinary friends. If you are jumping into relationships without really knowing someone, you're setting yourself up for the triggers that bring on the intensity causing repeititve behavior in relationships. Slow it down...and learn about the guy. Good luck!

Posted by everevolvingepithet
VinS people always seem to get long threads debating their intensity/extremes lol

Tell me about it.

Mocha

Well id like to ask a question if I may to all the people with this placement. My ex has the following chart:

Sun - Scorpio
Moon - Capricorn
Mercury/Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Libra

Not going to do the whole chart just a few things. See I don't understand how everyone is talking about "crazy" stuff because hell I never saw it. I wish he had those intense feelings! Maybe its the Cap moon? Maybe its mars in Libra? I know we have been on and off for like 2-3 years and there are crazy lulls. You know where we wont talk to each other but one of us always comes back.

Where is the crazy?! Ill be honest. I like the crazies! Maybe that's why Gem females and Scorp males get along really well? It always felt like that intensity was there it was just lumbering, asleep just a few inches away from you. Hard to explain. Capricorn moon doesn't help really.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
lolz

RUDE!!!!

Written by a member who have since left-

VinS is passion...

...a trusting passion.

Let me know your secret desires and they will be fullfilled. Lay your naked body in front of me to be worshiped and adored. Big, small, black, white...each one, a temple of flesh that will be explored. A treasure full of pink that's there for my taking...and pleasuring.

Combine VinS with certain Mars placements, and the world is bound to split in half from an earthquake trembling from within your soul.

Without the trust, you're simply riding the kiddie ride. Put your trust in me and watch the Passion Express drill a hole right through you. Open your heart and mind and I'll take you on a ride of a lifetime.

Now would one call that crazy? It depends

I love it 😉 Yeah it's fucking crazy but fucking beautiful at the same time...
Just do what feels right and don't feel bad about yourself.
Embrace your feelings and yourself, don't be ashamend of your intensity 😉
My Ex had Scorp in Venus....... it was..... Wow..... just wow^^
He taught me to let myself completly go in love... he taught me how to trust someone 100% ...
I'll never forget that 😉