Arghhhh! Scorpio man is pissing me off!

quick update: in a year in half relationship with a scorpio male, he's 57, I'm a Virgo, 50, I am presently working 1800 miles away (neccessity for me). any how he is pissing me off!!

We keep in touch every day, mostly by phone calls, occasional text messages, we have flown to see each other, in fact we've had some great times when we do! We get along great. The thing that is irritating the hell out of me is when he does his 'disapearing' act. for a day or two, I get it, he needs to do what ever, and usually Ijust go about my life That annoys me, also? He knows some people I work with, and he will call me and tell me he heard this or that and every time, and I mean EVERYtime he says he heard something about me, it has been untrue! I am a pretty low key, laid back person, I am not one who frequents clubs and what not. I think he says stuff like that to see what I say. When I ask him who says it, he won't tell me! But he does believe me when I get ticked off and say that what he is 'hearing' is untrue. He is still very, very loving to me and protective, almost territorial AT TIMES. Then sometimes I wonder if he even cares at all anymore, but he calls every day, a few times, unless he is on one of his disappearing things

What really has me ticked off today? Not last night but the night before, I texted him late, I had had a very bad day, I was overwhelmed and upset. He called me right away yesterday morning, and his response to me! "Then go home" not come and see me, "Go home". We talked for a bit and I have not heard from him since! He KNEW I was struggling, down etc and he goes dark on me, when I called him when I got back to my apartment, no answer. I tried a few hours later? No answer.I have not called since and he still has not called today. Now I am angry! I am always there for him when he needs a shoulder or ANYTHING. I needed him and he was not there for me.When he calls tonight (he will) I feel like not answering the phone and letting him hang for a while! But that is game playing, but I really want to kick him in the heart a bit for just bailing on me.

What do you think? Is he jerking me around? What should I do? I am so angry.

Get out or get used to be pissed off at him.

I must be a moron to have believed it would have lasted this long, long distance. BUT!!!! Why the one day possesive and lovey then this? I want to rip his heart out, I want HIM to hurt and feel awful, any advice to drive him nuts?

I've calmed. I am hurt, and saddened. He did call this evening. I sense the change in him.
I was ok. I'm tired, I want to go home for the holidays, but I don't think I can. I am going to work and not call him for a while. I need to think about it a while and get things clearin my head and heart.