Astroaspectual Compatiblilty

Which aspects influence the astrolegalistics of compatibility?
1) Physical attraction/compatibility
2) Intellectual/philosophical attraction/compatibility
3) Instinctual/Intuitional compatibility
4) Communicational compatibility


I am not sure how to ask what I am asking. (which is why I can always come up with new and strange words - not that it always helps)

Ladies?

"astrolegalistics"

Let me just...sit here in....stunned awe...~drooling~...at this...amazingly super fantastical stupendous marvel of a new word because oh my but I think I might have the vapors!

As for the actual question on hand: I've never actually looked at the aspects for those things. It's just a gut reaction to the other person, and some or all of those things may be present with whoever you meet, and the intensity of any of those things can vary.

Personally, I have never approached a relationship from an astrological point of view, but in the interest
of trying to understand the how and why my x was attracted to me in the first place.

We hear of the sun sign compatibility, then we hear of the Moon sign, then maybe we hear of the Venus sign.


I also want to add, that when one becomes intimately involved and that relationship fails for whatever reason,
the legacy of that relationship will remain, albeit, subconsciously. Traits are picked up and carried on.
It's like a woman receives a lot more than just a man's body and his seed. They also become a recipient of
his being. No doubt the same may hold true for the man. - He may be sensitive to the idea that his lover
has been with several men and that when he kisses her, he's kissing those men as well. - Weird, it may be, but
it's on a spiritual level. Of course, such things are not viewed the same way by all men (or women) as evidenced
by the countless number of couples wherein both have had multiple partners.
It's like saying, my x will always be a part of me, though I may be with someone new. - old peeves are found in
the new person and the peeves leads the woman (or man) to overreact to the detriment of the new relationship.

I didn't get into astrology until a few years ago, or so. With that in mind, I've used it more as a broad understanding of others and of myself, and then focusing in more, if need be.

Moon, I still don't understand it.

Yooooo hooooo!!!

Ladies!!??!——

(ps, before anyone rips me a new one, Yes, I know there is more to a relationship than astrological wahoo.)

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Posted by MrFirebird
Personally, I have never approached a relationship from an astrological point of view, but in the interest
of trying to understand the how and why my x was attracted to me in the first place.

We hear of the sun sign compatibility, then we hear of the Moon sign, then maybe we hear of the Venus sign.


I also want to add, that when one becomes intimately involved and that relationship fails for whatever reason,
the legacy of that relationship will remain, albeit, subconsciously. Traits are picked up and carried on.
It's like a woman receives a lot more than just a man's body and his seed. They also become a recipient of
his being. No doubt the same may hold true for the man. - He may be sensitive to the idea that his lover
has been with several men and that when he kisses her, he's kissing those men as well. - Weird, it may be, but
it's on a spiritual level. Of course, such things are not viewed the same way by all men (or women) as evidenced
by the countless number of couples wherein both have had multiple partners.
It's like saying, my x will always be a part of me, though I may be with someone new. - old peeves are found in
the new person and the peeves leads the woman (or man) to overreact to the detriment of the new relationship.

I totally get what you say here Mr F, so much so that in the past most of my lovers were virgins.....i read that a lover stays in our aura for 7yrs....ewwww can you imagine if someone had been with lots; all that energy in the aura

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BINGO!
Let's discuss!

Honestly, the more I learn about astrology the more I think it cancels itself out.

First we learn of Sun sign compatibility, then someone accuses you of practicing cat lady astrology. Ahem.
Then we say oh, it's the moon that is actually your true personality and tells us if the two of you will be emotionally compatible.
Oh wait; no your Venus and Mars will tell you if the two of you are actually compatible.
Even though someone says they are born 5 hours and 5 minutes from being a Cancer they still claim to be full-blooded Leo. 😛

Then someone comes along and says, "you're not even a Cancer, you're a Gemini!!!
Vedic astrology is the real astrology."

We should just use it for entertainment purposes only.
Like a nice coffee table plastic bowel of pears.

oftentimes when two people meet and fall for each other it's something in that persons past that attracts them to that person.
Or they fulfill certain needs until it's no longer needed.

Posted by MrFirebird
Moon, I still don't understand it.

Yooooo hooooo!!!

Ladies!!??!——

(ps, before anyone rips me a new one, Yes, I know there is more to a relationship than astrological wahoo.)

It's ok....half the time nobody understands me.

"I totally get what you say here Mr F, so much so that in the past most of my lovers were virgins.....i read that a lover stays in our aura for 7yrs....ewwww can you imagine if someone had been with lots; all that energy in the aura"


There are tons of songs that touch on this subject -
I am quite sure that the aura does NOT distinguish between the sexes.

It only makes sense that if the aura is tainted with a past lover, complications can arise
in a new relationship. - I think about all these woman that come on the scorp board and
inquire "why?, why?, why?" - it "may" for some of them, be associated with this "tainted aura".
Either they, the scorp, has been with others and there is some guilt trip going on deep inside or
there may be an issue where she had a lover or lovers that jump out and scream at him. - ie works both ways.
But the end result are failed relationships that leave either or both hurt and confused.

I consider myself a "re-virgin" for a lack of better term, celibate for 23.5+ years. IF I were to seriously
seek out a new love, it would seem to me, that I would want to spare myself the grief by avoiding women who have not
kept themselves. IF they have been with another man, he would have to be 7 years removed. - It would be interesting
to know IF multiple partners would require the multiplying of years before eligibility, if one were to confine themselves to such rules.

I think a lot more goes on when to lovers engage in physical intercourse - a lot more than the exchange of body fluids. I believe there's a lot of spiritual stuff going on, and it manifests itself in that "aura".

I find it funny when some people claim that the stars and planets have no affect on humankind, yet the moon can pull higher tides in the ocean and raise our blood pressure.

Posted by starlover
I have an issue with giving myself to someone who has slept around, because i havent. My theory is that on some psychic level, the purer person can receive damage to their body and aura and can suffer for years after the sex has taken place. Like a vampiric draining, the one that has slept around can cause some debilitating illness. People think that sexual diseases are the only ones to worry about, but the other worry is energy damage......i have had to give up sex since my last r.ship because he took so much energy from me, i am now having to cleanse my chakras (a healer told me, my 2nd chakra is damaged due to the type of sex i was having

My work is empathic healing so i have to stay pure to some degree to pass healing onto others, but i feel even if i just worked in an office, i would have been affected the same way

I don't know, maybe I'm just really good at keeping others out of my stuff. There are emotional triggers that my ex trained into me, but I've never really connected to his soul or his energy. Sex has always been energizing for me, but also has a lot of outward healing energy feel to it. Whether or not the other person feels it or receives it, I don't know.

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Posted by Feistypisces777
I find it funny when some people claim that the stars and planets have no affect on humankind, yet the moon can pull higher tides in the ocean and raise our blood pressure.

Totally! Am not sure it is still done, but at one time lunatic (luna..moon) asylums as they were called then, had to put patients in straight jackets as they would often go a bit crazy at the time of the full moon.....so yeah if the moon can do that, what is to say other planets cant do the same thing

I have come to see and believe that astrology is very real

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They would have put me in one back then. I LOVE full moons....but they make me hyper most of the time and that means less sleep.

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Posted by starlover
I have an issue with giving myself to someone who has slept around, because i havent. My theory is that on some psychic level, the purer person can receive damage to their body and aura and can suffer for years after the sex has taken place. Like a vampiric draining, the one that has slept around can cause some debilitating illness. People think that sexual diseases are the only ones to worry about, but the other worry is energy damage......i have had to give up sex since my last r.ship because he took so much energy from me, i am now having to cleanse my chakras (a healer told me, my 2nd chakra is damaged due to the type of sex i was having

My work is empathic healing so i have to stay pure to some degree to pass healing onto others, but i feel even if i just worked in an office, i would have been affected the same way

I don't know, maybe I'm just really good at keeping others out of my stuff. There are emotional triggers that my ex trained into me, but I've never really connected to his soul or his energy. Sex has always been energizing for me, but also has a lot of outward healing energy feel to it. Whether or not the other person feels it or receives it, I don't know.

Lucky you!! Baby you aint a Scorpio ~ that Pluto puts us through hellish depths.....coming back as an Aqua or Gem next time around! :~))

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I'm very empathetic, but at the same time seem to have a "shield" in place. I don't know how to describe it other than very few ever get in, even mentally, but I'm a natural at sending.

Posted by starlover
I have an issue with giving myself to someone who has slept around, because i havent. My theory is that on some psychic level, the purer person can receive damage to their body and aura and can suffer for years after the sex has taken place. Like a vampiric draining, the one that has slept around can cause some debilitating illness. People think that sexual diseases are the only ones to worry about, but the other worry is energy damage......i have had to give up sex since my last r.ship because he took so much energy from me, i am now having to cleanse my chakras (a healer told me, my 2nd chakra is damaged due to the type of sex i was having

My work is empathic healing so i have to stay pure to some degree to pass healing onto others, but i feel even if i just worked in an office, i would have been affected the same way

Interesting.
I think about my x. The only one I knew, intimately, and the mother of my two children, who are now grown.
The last time I held her was in 2006. Not intimately, mind you, but in attempt to console a confused and angry soul.
She ranted and raved and cursed me to high heavens. She was an entirely different person. at some point, I just grabbed her and held her. The strangest thing happened... she seemed to literally melt in my arms. I mean, like hot butter, she just went limp. - When she left me nearly 24 years ago, it was strange - one day she said she loved me, then the next, she said goodbye. I told her not to leave and to think of the children. - I KNEW ALREADY what I was talking about. I'd been there, myself. - She wouldn't listen. Within 5 years she'd marry, have two more kids, then that "marriage of convenience" was on the rocks. It's a messy story. Meanwhile, all the while, I drove a truck and behaved myself. Then 2006 came, by then, my own health was on the rocks. Part of me wants to let go, and part of me wants to hang on. To me..... it wouldn't be fair to get involved with a new woman. unless she was pure, mature and understanding. - I can't take another apocalypse like that, again. My children and grandson (future grandchildren) are at stake. - If only I truly were just a machine like those trucks I drove. No feelings, no pain. Just use, abuse and refuse.

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by starlover
I have an issue with giving myself to someone who has slept around, because i havent. My theory is that on some psychic level, the purer person can receive damage to their body and aura and can suffer for years after the sex has taken place. Like a vampiric draining, the one that has slept around can cause some debilitating illness. People think that sexual diseases are the only ones to worry about, but the other worry is energy damage......i have had to give up sex since my last r.ship because he took so much energy from me, i am now having to cleanse my chakras (a healer told me, my 2nd chakra is damaged due to the type of sex i was having

My work is empathic healing so i have to stay pure to some degree to pass healing onto others, but i feel even if i just worked in an office, i would have been affected the same way

Interesting.
I think about my x. The only one I knew, intimately, and the mother of my two children, who are now grown.
The last time I held her was in 2006. Not intimately, mind you, but in attempt to console a confused and angry soul.
She ranted and raved and cursed me to high heavens. She was an entirely different person. at some point, I just grabbed her and held her. The strangest thing happened... she seemed to literally melt in my arms. I mean, like hot butter, she just went limp. - When she left me nearly 24 years ago, it was strange - one day she said she loved me, then the next, she said goodbye. I told her not to leave and to think of the children. - I KNEW ALREADY what I was talking about. I'd been there, myself. - She wouldn't listen. Within 5 years she'd marry, have two more kids, then that "marriage of convenience" was on the rocks. It's a messy story. Meanwhile, all the while, I drove a truck and behaved myself. Then 2006 came, by then, my own health was on the rocks. Part of me wants to let go, and part of me wants to hang on. To me..... it wouldn't be fair to get involved with a new woman. unless she was pure, mature and understanding. - I can't take another apocalypse like that, again. My children and grandson (future grandchildren) are at stake. - If only I truly were just a machine like those trucks I drove. No feelings, no pain. Just use, abuse and refuse.

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My vote

My vote is to let go, because holding it tight is eating you alive. As for any new woman in your life, never ever EVER settle for less than your heart and soul's match, and as an older/wiser you than you were 20+ yrs ago, you'll have a far better chance at choosing correctly. Doesn't matter how lonely, etc. you might get, don't settle. Tying yourself (as I've found) to the wrong person only creates misery and resentment later on. Better to be free and whole than to live in and cause hell.

It is the pureness of your heart that matters- not how many people you have slept with.

@Mr.firebird-
Maybe my words will not resonate with you, but I hope that they will.
Time does not belong to you or me, but to a higher power- so I tell you, your wait, your time, it is not wasted. In 20 years, you have learned countless things. But it is time to learn something new. You have a choice.

Posted by Feistypisces777
@Mr.firebird-
Maybe my words will not resonate with you, but I hope that they will.
Time does not belong to you or me, but to a higher power- so I tell you, your wait, your time, it is not wasted. In 20 years, you have learned countless things. But it is time to learn something new. You have a choice.

That's what Indian Motorcycle keeps telling me. "Choice Is Here"
25.5 years ago, I told her that I would always be there for her. I haven't broken my promise.
Any day would be a good day to die. But to back on my word and break my oath, would be not be better than had
I not been born.

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Posted by MoonArtist
My vote is to let go, because holding it tight is eating you alive. As for any new woman in your life, never ever EVER settle for less than your heart and soul's match, and as an older/wiser you than you were 20+ yrs ago, you'll have a far better chance at choosing correctly. Doesn't matter how lonely, etc. you might get, don't settle. Tying yourself (as I've found) to the wrong person only creates misery and resentment later on. Better to be free and whole than to live in and cause hell.

Very true.

I hate settling.

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Learn from those of us that did it and regretted it: your freedom and happiness is worth more than you think. Only share your life with someone truly worthy, and make sure you're worthy of that person. That's all any of us can do.

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Posted by starlover
I have an issue with giving myself to someone who has slept around, because i havent. My theory is that on some psychic level, the purer person can receive damage to their body and aura and can suffer for years after the sex has taken place. Like a vampiric draining, the one that has slept around can cause some debilitating illness. People think that sexual diseases are the only ones to worry about, but the other worry is energy damage......i have had to give up sex since my last r.ship because he took so much energy from me, i am now having to cleanse my chakras (a healer told me, my 2nd chakra is damaged due to the type of sex i was having

My work is empathic healing so i have to stay pure to some degree to pass healing onto others, but i feel even if i just worked in an office, i would have been affected the same way

To me..... it wouldn't be fair to get involved with a new woman. unless she was pure, mature and understanding. - I can't take another apocalypse like that, again. My children and grandson (future grandchildren) are at stake. - If only I truly were just a machine like those trucks I drove. No feelings, no pain. Just use, abuse and refuse.

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This makes me itch... I cant help myself... 😄
What's "Pure" in your definition?

This makes me itch... I cant help myself... 😄
What's "Pure" in your definition?

Good question:
What IS pure?
No artificial flavors or preservatives.

And no need for Gold Bond Medicated Foot Powder.... ahhh choo!


What I am saying isn't that I wouldn't consider a non-virginal woman, or even a woman with children.
(though it IS a thing that I've had to wrestle with, internally, in the past)

However, I have had the option available to me, in the past. Both times, I ultimately declined and
refused to get involved, primarily for my children's sake and then for their mother's sake. - it may sound
ridiculous, even foolish, to most people. But life on the road taught me many things in my days of solitary
confinement on 18 wheels - hmmm, interesting (1+8=9).
Anyway, what I am referring to is what others call "baggage" that..... that "aura" discussed earlier.
Keep in mind, I am Life Path 9. The end of the end of the end that never seems to end.
It's not fair to that prospective woman considering me. - She has to be strong, pure, mature and understanding.
I said that to the Cancer - I asked her... think you're strong enough to raise the Titanic? She almost had
me convinced. Beautiful person she was. But my burdens were/are far too great. Ultimately, she went her way.
It hurt, but it had to be done. I was looking out for her. I hope she's happy and well.

JFK spoke of doing those things, not because they were easy, but because they were hard.

Slightly off topic, but not completely: what does it mean if your aura is sky blue with a little lavender? That's what I was told by a psychic I saw. She said she was surprised that there wasn't any murky parts to it considering what I've been through.

Posted by MoonArtist
Slightly off topic, but not completely: what does it mean if your aura is sky blue with a little lavender? That's what I was told by a psychic I saw. She said she was surprised that there wasn't any murky parts to it considering what I've been through.

Sounds to me like she told you this late in the day around twilight time.
A nice way of saying....
"Look lady.... I am running late"
Not a very nice thing to say, but she's the one that said it.


...... looks left..... looks right.....
Colors are said to have meaning. might google them

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by MoonArtist
Slightly off topic, but not completely: what does it mean if your aura is sky blue with a little lavender? That's what I was told by a psychic I saw. She said she was surprised that there wasn't any murky parts to it considering what I've been through.

Sounds to me like she told you this late in the day around twilight time.
A nice way of saying....
"Look lady.... I am running late"
Not a very nice thing to say, but she's the one that said it.


...... looks left..... looks right.....
Colors are said to have meaning. might google them

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What does time of day have to do with it?

ugh.....google shmoogle! ok....~runs to google machine~

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Posted by MrFirebird

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Slightly off topic, but not completely: what does it mean if your aura is sky blue with a little lavender? That's what I was told by a psychic I saw. She said she was surprised that there wasn't any murky parts to it considering what I've been through.

Sounds to me like she told you this late in the day around twilight time.
A nice way of saying....
"Look lady.... I am running late"
Not a very nice thing to say, but she's the one that said it.


...... looks left..... looks right.....
Colors are said to have meaning. might google them

What does time of day have to do with it?

ugh.....google shmoogle! ok....~runs to google machine~

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She may have seen the color of the sky and saw sky blue and a little lavender.

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Posted by MoonArtist
Slightly off topic, but not completely: what does it mean if your aura is sky blue with a little lavender? That's what I was told by a psychic I saw. She said she was surprised that there wasn't any murky parts to it considering what I've been through.

Sounds to me like she told you this late in the day around twilight time.
A nice way of saying....
"Look lady.... I am running late"
Not a very nice thing to say, but she's the one that said it.


...... looks left..... looks right.....
Colors are said to have meaning. might google them

What does time of day have to do with it?

ugh.....google shmoogle! ok....~runs to google machine~

She may have seen the color of the sky and saw sky blue and a little lavender.

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we were inside. Might have been dark already...can't remember.

Well dang! I tried googling this before but didn't find this site. It fits...uncannily so.

"Blue Lavenders—part of the emotional color group—are sensitive, loving, considerate and creative individuals. They can be outspoken, intuitive, and passionate, but often do not like to be responsible for the completion of tasks. They are thinkers, and it is best to leverage them for their creativity and let them move onto another create process or project. Blue Lavenders are compassionate thinkers who generate ideas, but they do not want to be responsible for anyone or anything that follows their advice. They are willing to share their opinion, but what others do with that information is up to them. Think of the Blue Lavender aura as a high level consultant who will tell you with compassion and integrity what they think or what to do, but will leave it up to you or someone else to put the plan into action.

BLUE LAVENDERS & PERSONALITY: The Blue Lavender is highly intuitive and very intelligent. They are able to visualize information, picture problems and see solutions like a movie playing out in front of their eyes. It is sometimes more difficult for the Blue Lavender to translate these mental visions into words. Emotionally, the Blue Lavender will connect emotions to spirituality; they must see, feel, and touch on a level above the physical—they feel more through their fantasies than through reality. If their Blue overlay is strong enough however, they will try to hold onto a relationship closely and need reinforcement that the relationship will last."

There's more, but I won't make you all read it.

Maybe I'm just obsolete.

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Posted by MoonArtist
Slightly off topic, but not completely: what does it mean if your aura is sky blue with a little lavender? That's what I was told by a psychic I saw. She said she was surprised that there wasn't any murky parts to it considering what I've been through.

Sounds to me like she told you this late in the day around twilight time.
A nice way of saying....
"Look lady.... I am running late"
Not a very nice thing to say, but she's the one that said it.


...... looks left..... looks right.....
Colors are said to have meaning. might google them

What does time of day have to do with it?

ugh.....google shmoogle! ok....~runs to google machine~

She may have seen the color of the sky and saw sky blue and a little lavender.

we were inside. Might have been dark already...can't remember.

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She may have been looking through walls and ceilings. - possible if there are windows.

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Posted by Feistypisces777
It is the pureness of your heart that matters- not how many people you have slept with.

Unfortunately, the vast majority of men do care about that.

They sure do... and there is a horrible double standard of course for men and women....even in this day and age. Women will probably always get judged and name called for sleeping around

I think men are as bad for doing it too

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IMHO, if one were to practice celibacy for nearly 25 years, one might come away with a different point of view.

Just sayin'

SMH, I'm such an outsider.

Which aspects influence the astrolegalistics of compatibility?
1) Physical attraction/compatibility
2) Intellectual/philosophical attraction/compatibility
3) Instinctual/Intuitional compatibility
4) Communicational compatibility

I think you need all of the above to make a relationship work. 1 and 3 get you in the door. You need 2 and 4 to keep it going.

I didn't know about astrology when I met the ex. He was a Sun/Merc/Venus Gemini, Moon/Mars in Pisces. I was attracted to him because he was smart. We had great conversation. He was romantic. What kept me with him was that we could talk about anything under the sun. All the time. We never ran out of things to talk about and to this day we can talk about anything and everything. However, he was wild, and unpredictable. He had a need for adventure and excitement and I could not provide any of that for him. That being said, we made it work for 13 years.

With the Scorp, I met him online and we were an 85% match, based on our answers to surveys we filled out. We have many harmonious aspects, astrologically. I have Sun/Merc/Venus in Cap, moon in Scorpio, and he has Sun/Merc/Venus in Scorpio, moon in Cap. We both have Jupiter in Pisces.

I hear what you are saying about part of your ex remaining with you. I think that is true if you had a meaningful relationship, it will change you. I think that is the point of relationships, though, you are supposed to grow and learn something as a result.

I don't know about this aura business, so I can't comment on that. I have had some short term relationships, I learned from them as well but those "Exes" didn't stick with me.

When I met the Scorp, he told me that casual relationships made him uneasy. lol. Venus in Scorpio.

Posted by MrFirebird

This makes me itch... I cant help myself... 😄
What's "Pure" in your definition?

Good question:
What IS pure?
No artificial flavors or preservatives.

And no need for Gold Bond Medicated Foot Powder.... ahhh choo!


What I am saying isn't that I wouldn't consider a non-virginal woman, or even a woman with children.
(though it IS a thing that I've had to wrestle with, internally, in the past)

However, I have had the option available to me, in the past. Both times, I ultimately declined and
refused to get involved, primarily for my children's sake and then for their mother's sake. - it may sound
ridiculous, even foolish, to most people. But life on the road taught me many things in my days of solitary
confinement on 18 wheels - hmmm, interesting (1+8=9).
Anyway, what I am referring to is what others call "baggage" that..... that "aura" discussed earlier.
Keep in mind, I am Life Path 9. The end of the end of the end that never seems to end.
It's not fair to that prospective woman considering me. - She has to be strong, pure, mature and understanding.
I said that to the Cancer - I asked her... think you're strong enough to raise the Titanic? She almost had
me convinced. Beautiful person she was. But my burdens were/are far too great. Ultimately, she went her way.
It hurt, but it had to be done. I was looking out for her. I hope she's happy and well.

JFK spoke of doing those things, not because they were easy, but because they were hard.

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It is good to hear that you are not looking for a Virgin Mr.F, as I think that would be impossible to find. Maybe this theory of yours keeps you safe?
I do not think it is ridiculous to have beliefs, Morals and Integrity. This sets you apart, by a wide margin, from the Men that do not even recognize/refuse to admit they are grieving.
I wonder what you would have done if the Cancer Woman had said "Give me your 'worst' and I will show you the Power of Love". Would you have still sent her on her way?

Posted by MrFirebird
Maybe I'm just obsolete.

That's when you go to the chop shop and get retro fitted into something entirely different.

Posted by MoonArtist

Posted by MrFirebird
Maybe I'm just obsolete.

That's when you go to the chop shop and get retro fitted into something entirely different.

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That's a great idea Moon! 😄

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Slightly off topic, but not completely: what does it mean if your aura is sky blue with a little lavender? That's what I was told by a psychic I saw. She said she was surprised that there wasn't any murky parts to it considering what I've been through.

Sounds to me like she told you this late in the day around twilight time.
A nice way of saying....
"Look lady.... I am running late"
Not a very nice thing to say, but she's the one that said it.


...... looks left..... looks right.....
Colors are said to have meaning. might google them

What does time of day have to do with it?

ugh.....google shmoogle! ok....~runs to google machine~

She may have seen the color of the sky and saw sky blue and a little lavender.

we were inside. Might have been dark already...can't remember.

She may have been looking through walls and ceilings. - possible if there are windows.

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Possibly, but she was too accurate on her other readings to end up being a joke/sham.

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Posted by MrFirebird
Maybe I'm just obsolete.

That's when you go to the chop shop and get retro fitted into something entirely different.

That's a great idea Moon! 😄

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Notice how it fits the Scorpio theme and ability of rising from the ashes, of renewing, reinventing, transforming. 😉

It sure does... we are so good at this. Maybe too good at this and sometimes having to consciously DECIDE to live in the hurt for awhile before we transform and rise above it.

"It is good to hear that you are not looking for a Virgin Mr.F, as I think that would be impossible to find. Maybe this theory of yours keeps you safe? >>> I think it falls under "self-respect" and avoiding unnecessary troubles.
Mind you, I believe that, just as much as I can restrain myself, a woman could do likewise. In that restraint, wisdom comes. And self-respect emerges and a stronger person emerges. When a man or woman goes through this "cleansing" it's like becoming a virgin all over again but with morals and integrity added in the lessons learned. - I believe that's possible.

"I do not think it is ridiculous to have beliefs, Morals and Integrity. This sets you apart, by a wide margin, from the Men that do not even recognize/refuse to admit they are grieving." >>>> A man can still break under pressure.
that's when the morons come out and say he's no man, what man would do x thing? blah, blah, blah.

"I wonder what you would have done if the Cancer Woman had said "Give me your 'worst' and I will show you the Power of Love". Would you have still sent her on her way?" >> It was pretty intense, albeit communicating via the web and phone, which I thought was really weird. Among things discussed, she talked about the idea of being with me for my next birthday (my b-day had just passed). I gave her what I could, but then, I needed my space to collect
myself, analyze and process and compute. Then the "block" moment came... and I was at a loss for words for a little too long. Meanwhile, she found someone else. Saw a picture or her and him on HIS birthday. The very last I saw of her, it appeared she had gotten married.
Well, anyway.
I just hope that she and her kids will be happy, safe and sound.

Well that's a sad thing. Was it lack of communicating? She didn't know you needed the space and took it as an insult?

Posted by MoonArtist
Well that's a sad thing. Was it lack of communicating? She didn't know you needed the space and took it as an insult?

At the time, I didn't know what to call it. I am just now beginning to understand the concept for the first time.

I've always said at various times in my life, - I need time to think about it, I need to go for a drive, I need
to get away for awhile. etc., etc. etc.


When you have kids, the past remains. You will ALWAYS be tied to the other parent through the child.
She was still living under the same roof with her x, at the time. I was confronting a lot of contradictions
within myself, concerning this. - I have my morals and principles which were being challenged. I survived and
passed that challenge, with relatively little damage to the both of us. - in other words, I had to do what's
right, in her best interest. - She wasn't strong enough, very fresh in the way of heartache and grief. I certainly
wasn't about to hurt her by going into deeper levels into the relationship wherein she invests and I decide to back out. - That experience has caused me to understand better why I had been extremely cautious about finding someone
new all those years, without getting too far gone emotionally attached to another let-down.

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Posted by MoonArtist
Well that's a sad thing. Was it lack of communicating? She didn't know you needed the space and took it as an insult?

At the time, I didn't know what to call it. I am just now beginning to understand the concept for the first time.

I've always said at various times in my life, - I need time to think about it, I need to go for a drive, I need
to get away for awhile. etc., etc. etc.


When you have kids, the past remains. You will ALWAYS be tied to the other parent through the child.
She was still living under the same roof with her x, at the time. I was confronting a lot of contradictions
within myself, concerning this. - I have my morals and principles which were being challenged. I survived and
passed that challenge, with relatively little damage to the both of us. - in other words, I had to do what's
right, in her best interest. - She wasn't strong enough, very fresh in the way of heartache and grief. I certainly
wasn't about to hurt her by going into deeper levels into the relationship wherein she invests and I decide to back out. - That experience has caused me to understand better why I had been extremely cautious about finding someone
new all those years, without getting too far gone emotionally attached to another let-down.

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I do that if I'm confused about what I'm upset about....I need the time to think it out, process and untangle the emotions into the kind of logic that can be expressed. I mostly try to let people know when I'm doing it and why.

ok, I understand, and you two were definitely not ready to go down that road together.

I disagree with the idea of exes and ties. Well, I should make this more clear: I disagree from my own perspective involving my own experience with an ex. The past can't be erased whether you have kids or not. Kids do make it so you have to interact with the ex to a certain degree. However, for me the emotional tie is severed. I do this very purposely, very ruthlessly and very methodically when I've been betrayed and have to rid someone from my life. Once I decide they aren't worthy due to something pretty bad, they are nearly dead to me. I'm sure this is for self protection on my part, but it's how I do things. There's very very few people I've had to go that extre