Posted by scorpio_chic
A lot of times, my truth differs from others. So I guess it just depends on what exactly you're talking about and what that truth is. Whether it's your truth or just pure fact.
Your comment was kind of vague... LOL you know scorpios are extreme black or white. No gray areas... you need to be a bit more specific. :]
Or maybe I'm just looking too much into it... lol very scorpio of me.
Posted by ScorpioDreamer
Yeah, just explain a tad more so we know exactly what you mean. Thank you.
Posted by seavixen2
awww it's so sweet how enamored you are
Methinks I've gotten myself into a romantic quagmire; but the romantic within me, I'm persuaded, will ease this difficulty.
Posted by ScorpioDreamer
Well, for me it's fear of putting myself out there. I hate feeling vulnerable. I have to really know and trust the person to be able to do this. To know that he wont judge me or reject me. It hurts me too much and I'd just rather not go through it.
Posted by ScorpDragonPosted by ScorpioDreamer
Well, for me it's fear of putting myself out there. I hate feeling vulnerable. I have to really know and trust the person to be able to do this. To know that he wont judge me or reject me. It hurts me too much and I'd just rather not go through it.
I think every Scorpio feels this way, deep down.click to expand
Posted by ScorpioDreamer
Well, for me it's fear of putting myself out there. I hate feeling vulnerable. I have to really know and trust the person to be able to do this. To know that he wont judge me or reject me. It hurts me too much and I'd just rather not go through it.
Posted by venusianbullPosted by ScorpioDreamer
Well, for me it's fear of putting myself out there. I hate feeling vulnerable. I have to really know and trust the person to be able to do this. To know that he wont judge me or reject me. It hurts me too much and I'd just rather not go through it.
I think every human on the planet feels this way. It takes a lot of guts to lay yourself out on the line. To admit feelings is frightening and there is always the possibility of rejection. Wouldn't life be simple if you could just tell someone you cared about them with no issue?click to expand
Posted by scorpio_chic
Or there's always the possibility she simply doesn't feel those things that you think she does.
I make my feelings known loud & clear. Nobody has to guess what I am feeling, and if I'm denying that I feel something, it's probably because I don't feel it. But that might just be me.
Posted by LovelyScorp
It's not the fear of sharing the feelings.
It's the fear of the heartache once the feelings are exposed and possibly not reciprocated.
Posted by venusianbullPosted by ScorpioDreamer
Well, for me it's fear of putting myself out there. I hate feeling vulnerable. I have to really know and trust the person to be able to do this. To know that he wont judge me or reject me. It hurts me too much and I'd just rather not go through it.
I think every human on the planet feels this way. It takes a lot of guts to lay yourself out on the line. To admit feelings is frightening and there is always the possibility of rejection. Wouldn't life be simple if you could just tell someone you cared about them with no issue?click to expand
Posted by ewashington7000
Why art thou, beauteous Scorpio woman, sometimes so resistant to truth, even pertinaciously when protecting your female pride?
Posted by BeetleguesePosted by venusianbullPosted by ScorpioDreamer
Well, for me it's fear of putting myself out there. I hate feeling vulnerable. I have to really know and trust the person to be able to do this. To know that he wont judge me or reject me. It hurts me too much and I'd just rather not go through it.
I think every human on the planet feels this way. It takes a lot of guts to lay yourself out on the line. To admit feelings is frightening and there is always the possibility of rejection. Wouldn't life be simple if you could just tell someone you cared about them with no issue?
Some people do this, I've heard that it's a rather frightening and at the same time enlightening experience.
Food for thought; if you are wrong when you bare your soul and suffer the heartache of rejection, will you not also suffer the same rejection months or years down the road when you do finally trust the person enough to speak up and find out that you are wrong then? If you are right will you not save thousands of hours of torment in wondering if this person loves you? Revealing your feelings as soon as they are within you and you think they might be within them will also cut down on the grieving time if you are wrong.
It's a win/win situation either way. It just takes an entirely different approach to relationships, or so I've heardclick to expand
Posted by Sea SirenPosted by venusianbullPosted by ScorpioDreamer
Well, for me it's fear of putting myself out there. I hate feeling vulnerable. I have to really know and trust the person to be able to do this. To know that he wont judge me or reject me. It hurts me too much and I'd just rather not go through it.
I think every human on the planet feels this way. It takes a lot of guts to lay yourself out on the line. To admit feelings is frightening and there is always the possibility of rejection. Wouldn't life be simple if you could just tell someone you cared about them with no issue?
The only people I know who don't seem to mind are fire signs. They just really seem to be okay with throwing all their cards on the table and saying "There it is. You want it?" Especially my Aries friends.
I envy that, actually. I don't know how they do it. ::shrug::click to expand
Posted by DyTryin
Your Scorpio Woman isn't stubborn... she's determined.
Posted by ewashington7000
@ scorpiopics
You've just stated that "Scorpio women are not "stubborn" but rather "strong-willed""; but then that this "
indicates that nothing will move or change them no matter IF IT IS A GOOD IDEA OR NOT and it is the sure way
to destruction...after enduring a lot of punishment."
Is this not the (lexical) definition of 'stubborn'? If a person is 'strong-willed' such that 'nothing will move or change them no matter if it is a good idea or not and it is the sure way to destruction...after enduring a lot of punishment," not only is this person stubborn but this person is also pertinaciously stubborn - by definition.
Posted by LovelyScorpPosted by ewashington7000
Are you telling me that in light of the flawed nature of human beings, there never has been, never is, nor ever will be a person who has NOT used a Scorpio's vulnerable against her or him? .
Are you inferring that I am equating "vulnerability" with "insecurity" ?
I answer yes to both your questions.click to expand
Posted by LovelyScorpPosted by LovelyScorp
scorpiopics is correct.
stop doing the libra dance and listen to her heart. even if it is silent at the moment. stop trying to figure her out. that will happen later (only if she allows you, of course). let things be, take it slow.
....and by the way don't you have 9 more days to go? Woot! Woot! (I think, sorry if my count is off). Let me know the exact count because I want to give you a proper homecomingclick to expand
Posted by ewashington7000
What about Air signs?
Posted by pigeonpie
*loads gunfingaz and aims at water signs*
Posted by pigeonpie
I've shot myself in the foot many a time, Seasiren
Posted by P-Angel
Beautiful Scorpio Woman: Why art thou so stubborn?
I already answered your question ... it's because they want to control you, and if you resist then they will become stubborn while still leading you on so that you will continue to chase them. Their aim is to eventually wear you down, so that you will cave in and let them have total dominance over you.
If you do cave in, you will have to eye-ball another woman once in a while, or do something to get her upset so that she has something to tame .... because if you don't then she will create paranoid jealousy in you, to make the situatio in which she needs to control.
I hope you are quite prepared to lay under her feet, E
Posted by P-Angel
You are too smart for the Scorpio woman .. she wants someone to whom she has control over and how can she have control over a guy who is too strong to tame?
You can easily get her number ... you're not lame enough for her ... the Scorpio only needs to be in total control of a man to be happy.
Again .. the Libras already made it official .. you two won't work.
Posted by Sea SirenPosted by ewashington7000
What about Air signs?
I think that, in general, even air signs take a bit more time than fire to lay it on the line, so to speak.
Air signs are analytical. They're used to being able to dissect things and reassemble them in order to understand them logically. But when it comes to love and emotions, these things are often irrational and illogical. So Air gets frustrated, because he/she can't take it apart, find what's wrong or what's broken and fix it, and then put it back together again. Air signs also seem to be able to more easily detach from their emotions if their mind tells them that a feeling is illogical, because they are more likely to follow their head than their heart. They seem to trust their head more because that's where they spend most of their time.
With a water person, everything is the opposite. We don't try to intellectually interpret emotion because we know it can't be done. We're just gonna feel the way we feel until we don't feel that way anymore, and that's that. We can't detach either, because we feel, therefore we are - so at times it gets overwhelming.
We all have our own obstacles when it comes to love and relationships. This is just what I've observed over the years, E, and my take on it. I have a ton of air sign peeps in my family, including both of my parents and I was the only water. I love them to death, but we def. see the world through a different lense.click to expand
Posted by ewashington7000
Nevertheless, for me, the question pertains more so to honest communications between any to zodiac signs. In light of this, there is no insurmountable obstacle in my eyes. But I have a game plan.....
Posted by sdgaf
(which is sthg you seem to enjoy doing)
Posted by ewashington7000
But you speak as though jealousy and control are the governing realities of a woman born underneath the influence of the zodiac Scorpio.
Posted by LovelyScorp
@ewashington7000
Hope you are having a great day!!!
Posted by sdgaf
you're not gonna make any point/win an argument with your *logic*..
a little emotional blackmail, on the other hand,
might be helpful from time to time..
(unless..
as lovely or aquilascorpius, she's an eagle)
Posted by Sea SirenPosted by sdgaf
(which is sthg you seem to enjoy doing)
Where did ya get that idear?
j/k, E! lolclick to expand
Posted by P-AngelPosted by ewashington7000
But you speak as though jealousy and control are the governing realities of a woman born underneath the influence of the zodiac Scorpio.
Excuse me?
I don't speak "as though" ... you do that, obviously.
I stated it unequivocally.
What's the matter .. you speak so much "as though" that you cannot understand directness?click to expand
Posted by DyTryin
P-Angel: I thought the Libra's had made it official ... Scorps and Libras don't work.
They did.
But, he'll be weighing the pros & cons years from now, and with the same net result.
Posted by DyTryin
P-Angel: I thought the Libra's had made it official ... Scorps and Libras don't work.
They did.
But, he'll be weighing the pros & cons years from now, and with the same net result.
Posted by DyTryin
ewash: But the tendency to act one way or another is hardly attributable to any one factor, let alone some zodiac sign.
What was I thinking??
Examining Sun Sign tendencies on an Astrology Forum...
Hope no one else here makes that same mistake!!
Siren: Did a VIRGO just accused someone of overanalyzing?!
Yes... because unlike many Libras, Virgos will eventually make a decision. And, once we're done - we're done.
Posted by BeetleguesePosted by Sea Siren
I know, DY. I just thought the irony was amusing.
Why does nobunny get my sense of humor 'round here?
Awww, I get it, but I'm all kewl like datclick to expand
Posted by DyTryin
ewash: any talk of imcompatibility between Libras and Scorpios is equivalent to logical nonsense to me.
TRANSLATION: I don't like what I'm reading in response to MY QUESTION. Where are my warm fuzzies??
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