Best match for Scorpio girls?.

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by kitty69 on Thursday, October 24, 2013 and has 44 replies.

Taurus and Virgo...
Taurus for their loyalty and provider.
Virgo for their intelligent practical mind.
Leo male!
Just ask Hillary Clinton, hahahaha.
Or Maria Shriver. Seems to be an "astrological" pattern :O
Yep haha
virgos i suppose, may be willing to be controlled by scorps. and virgos will perfectly complement the emotions of scorps with their analytical nature.
Alarming..... ^^^^ , ;0)....
Aries since they are also Mars ruled like Scorpio.
I'm a Scorpio woman and I recently met a Cappy man that I have fallen head over heels in love with, and he feels the same. I have never felt this way about anyone. He is the first Cappy I've been with although my 1st kiss was with a Cappy who I never forgot.
I've had rather unpleasant relationships with Pisces and Cancers despite they are supposed to be the best for us. I am simply not attracted to Virgos, and Tauruses tend to annoy me. Of course this is only my experience. I was with an Aquarius for a decade and I highly recommend avoiding Aquas (of you are a Scorpio). We fizzled out in the 2nd year but kids kept us together for much longer than we should have been.
Oddly enough I tried a dating site just for fun one time and the vast majority of interested men were Capricorns. I had no experience with them at all until this man I am now with. We have such a passionate, loving relationship and he is extremely affectionate which I love. The connection is so deep and genuine, no games, no need for games, we are both almost 40 and maybe that is a factor but I am completely enthralled with my Cappy.
I can tell you I do NOT "do" Libras, Geminis, Saggitarius, Leos, and I will not be with a Pisces or Cancer ever again. I hope my Cappy is the last man I am ever with because he is truly the coolest guy, someone I would never ever get bored with, his mind is like mine, 100 mph, but in a good way! Add to that how sweet I believe Cappy men generally are and mine certainly is, and the passion Cappies feel towards us Scorpios, and it's a great match imo. They can really handle us. Mine doesn't even have to know what I am about and dig around to find out and unearth the mystery (which no one will ever do). He just doesn't care. And I love that about him!
Cheers for the detailed response, may I be so bold as to ask " why not Piscean men", ?. Thank you, and good luck with your boy.... :0)
You're welcome! In my experience, Pisces men don't really handle Scorpio's intensity very well. I also find they are not as emotionally evolved as other signs and tend to be repressed, whereas Scorpio is the great investigator and can't stand that she cannot get to the bottom of what's eating her Pisces man. I was with one for almost 3 years and when it was good it was great but when it was bad it was nightmarish. We kept breaking up and going back together. Scorpios and Pisces have a really hard time staying away from each other so the misery just gets prolonged. This scenario played out with another Pisces bf of mine as well. Pisces men will hurt you, because they do anything to protect their own feelings and ego, and Scorpios will not deal well with the level of pain a Pisces can inflict upon us, with little genuine remorse. Mine lied to me about major things and kept secrets that later really creeped me out when I found out.
They can be very charming and thoughtful but in hindsight I see how it wasn't genuine, it was all an act with these guys, they don't ever really know who they are. Now this is how I believe they act with Scorpios, not necessarily other signs. Scorpios don't seem to bring out the best in them or help them to evolve in any way. In fact, I think I created monsters with my Pisces men. I certainly came out of those relationships an utter mess that took years to get over. I was always warned "beware the quiet guys" and I never paid it any heed, but my Pisces guys were both pretty quiet, except when it came to me, behind closed doors, and then they would unleash a fury no one would ever believe came out of them, and no one else ever tasted what I did, and when things went south between us, *I* was the one believed to be the cause, not the sweet, innocent Pisces man everyone loved! Also with the sex, I thought it was pretty good until later on when I got with other signs and saw how this water sign sex stuff is kind of overrated. The Pisces guys didn't let go, didn't show emotion, and the repressed one was very vanilla in bed and turned out to have hidden fetishes I never knew about, and the other one treated me like a whore and called me dirty girl and wanted to recreate pornos with me.
My longterm Aqua man was somewhere in the middle but very skilled in bed, and my Cappy man is a tender, loving, affectionate lover who can kiss for hours and hours and tell me he loves me over and over again and hold me all night long. Pisces men,
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Pisces men, ime, just aren't in touch with their feelings, are not emotionally evolved, are secretive and liars, manipulative, and put on a massive facade to the world. For Scorpios this doesn't work, we hate the truth being obscured, we need to be able to get close to someone if we give our hearts and souls to them and with Pisces you might waste so much energy trying to do just that but in the end you are even farther away from them than where you started. My experience, but it was enough for me to know I will never go there again!
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN A CHINESE GIRL CALLS YOU BABY???!
Posted by Sasori701
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN A CHINESE GIRL CALLS YOU BABY???!



you run for the hills if she's got Venus in Scorpio Tongue
all i know is she's a leo. and she's a little one
i would tango with venus in scorp tho
Posted by Sasori701
i would tango with venus in scorp tho


Ditto.
It's a love/hate placement. Pun intended.
back to the baby...i think i'd go. i have a big taste for asian cuisine Tongue
No sign
Leo. They'll make it clear that Scorpio women's brazen insolence and dominance is NOT ok.
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Posted by Infinite8
In my experience:
Passionate/Heat/Sensual Flows: Aries, Leo, Taurus, Scorpio, Capricorn
Friendly loving flows: Pisces, Virgo, Taurus, Cancer, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Fun with no feeling but they fall for you: Libra, Gemini, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Soul-mate/best friend flow: Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio, Aries, Leo



This is a pretty damn good summary IMO Infinite smile
Posted by Equator
Leo. They'll make it clear that Scorpio women's brazen insolence and dominance is NOT ok.



which get paid no mind cos leos are egoist. no one else's power is fine their own. the only reason they'd have a problem with scorp's insolence and dominance is because they'd wouldn't want to be overshadowed and submissive. king of the jungle my ass. insecure is more like it.
but not all leos are like this. i've met some very submissive ones. like the chinese girl. and some others from my past. some lions aren't all about ego. some are actually very nice and have a live and let live attitude. but for some, that bossiness is all a front really. some leos are nothing but big cats with a superiority complex who can be bribed, bought, and easily fooled. please, i have a mom as a leo, and growing up, i did what i wanted despite her threats and trying to rule me. scorps are just born dominant while others 'try' to be. what's our saying? better to rule in hell than serve in heaven. you dont like it cos while you're trying to rule, you dont understand some simply wont adhere to those bullshit man made rules.
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Posted by Sasori701
Posted by Equator
Leo. They'll make it clear that Scorpio women's brazen insolence and dominance is NOT ok.



which get paid no mind cos leos are egoist. no one else's power is fine their own. the only reason they'd have a problem with scorp's insolence and dominance is because they'd wouldn't want to be overshadowed and submissive. king of the jungle my ass. insecure is more like it.
but not all leos are like this. i've met some very submissive ones. like the chinese girl. and some others from my past. some lions aren't all about ego. some are actually very nice and have a live and let live attitude. but for some, that bossiness is all a front really. some leos are nothing but big cats with a superiority complex who can be bribed, bought, and easily fooled. please, i have a mom as a leo, and growing up, i did what i wanted despite her threats and trying to rule me. scorps are just born dominant while others 'try' to be. what's our saying? better to rule in hell than serve in heaven. you dont like it cos while you're trying to rule, you dont understand some simply wont adhere to those bullshit man made rules.


LOLOLOL! @ bribed, bought, and easily fooled. ((((((( Aint that the fucking truth? I couldn't of said none of this better myself.
My mom's a Leo too.
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lol tell me about it
Great feedback guys. :0)
Posted by Infinite8
In my experience:
Passionate/Heat/Sensual Flows: Aries, Leo, Taurus, Scorpio, Capricorn
Friendly loving flows: Pisces, Virgo, Taurus, Cancer, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Fun with no feeling but they fall for you: Libra, Gemini, Sagittarius, Aquarius
Soul-mate/best friend flow: Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio, Aries, Leo



This I can agree with 100% Relating to me, I've attracted the Cancer, Aries, Libra, Gemini, Sagittarius, Leo, Aquarius and it didnt work for various reasons.
i never said any disrespect to leo parents. but all ppl are see thru. it's just easy to see thru leo's manipulation and petty bullshit they use to try to control others. can almost NEVER admit they are wrong, and will go thru such extremes just to try to hold on to some idiotic point of view instead of seeing another's point of view. they think any let up is a sign of weakness. at least, me as a scorpio, can admit when i am wrong and am willing to learn outside of what i 'think' i already know. also some leos are fake as hell. they wont tell a person whom they feel is superior what they truly think. a scorpio doesnt give a shit about supposed 'superiority' and will say what's on their mind in front of anyone's face, instead of hiding behind the back and apparently kissing ass. my owm mom does this, so i have very limited respect for her. still appreciate she squeezed me out, but NO ONE is perfect. no use in trying to act like it and make others miserable like she does.
we'll NEVER be friends, and im fine with that 100% . i'd rather have ppl that keep shit 100% real instead of fronters and fake ppl any day.
Posted by scorchedearth
Posted by Equator
Leo. They'll make it clear that Scorpio women's brazen insolence and dominance is NOT ok.


every male leo i've known that's been in a relationship with a scorpio woman has ended as the male leo being the scorpios bitch. without fail. male leos talk a big game and throw their asses around and want to pretend they're alpha men but you put a scorpio female with them and they become nothing more than a cub. it's kind of hilarious actually.
some pansy ass male leo isn't going to dominate a female scorpio. the only signs that can come close i think are the cardinal signs: capricorn and aries specifically. and that's only if she respects him as a man and lets him be the more dominant one.
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aries get fought 100% around the board because they think they are naturally superior to EVERYONE. doesnt have to be a scorpio, they will try to control you. as a scorpio woman, we'll only let you gain some control if we know that you know what you're doing and wont lead from a petty as ego trip, like aries does. "i HAVE to be the best and outshine" is aries' way of thinking. we see thru that shit too. that's why every aries i've met and i have clashed, damn near to someone getting hurt. in the end, they knew i wasnt going with that bullshit. make sure you're doing what's right in life, forget about trying to lead someone else. that's why, as i have stated, i wouldnt want full control of another human being. as long as they are trying to life right and are making sensible choices, i dont have to try to throw my weight around. i believe in 50/50 to my core. i'd rather leave a person than try to control them; because in reality, you CANT control another person.
...that is unless they are a doormat. but even doormats get enough of getting stepped on and walked on eventually.
How about a Leo man with a Virgo Venus?
Posted by Sasori701
i never said any disrespect to leo parents. but all ppl are see thru. it's just easy to see thru leo's manipulation and petty bullshit they use to try to control others. can almost NEVER admit they are wrong, and will go thru such extremes just to try to hold on to some idiotic point of view instead of seeing another's point of view. they think any let up is a sign of weakness. at least, me as a scorpio, can admit when i am wrong and am willing to learn outside of what i 'think' i already know.


oh really? i have yet to meet a scorpio who admit to being wrong. they're always right. smile peace
I ALWAYS admit when I'm in the wrong, albeit begrudgingly.... :0)
Posted by claaarez88
Posted by Sasori701
i never said any disrespect to leo parents. but all ppl are see thru. it's just easy to see thru leo's manipulation and petty bullshit they use to try to control others. can almost NEVER admit they are wrong, and will go thru such extremes just to try to hold on to some idiotic point of view instead of seeing another's point of view. they think any let up is a sign of weakness. at least, me as a scorpio, can admit when i am wrong and am willing to learn outside of what i 'think' i already know.


oh really? i have yet to meet a scorpio who admit to being wrong. they're always right. smile peace
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you havent met every single scorpio. if anything i try to keep myself humble. anyone that says they know everything or is never wrong is a damn fool. i will admit my wrong and work my ass off to correct it, plus learn a lesson from it so i can be a better person. hell yeh i make mistakes, but i am not ashamed. i see them as life lessons.
Posted by PotHeadVirgo24
Oh yeah I meant to say +1 to that but your scorpioism kind of turned me on so I put hearts instead. smile



aww *blush* you are a sweetheart, PHV. i see you smile
Best match: probably an Aries man with lots of Pisces placement in his natal chart.
I've always wanted to date both Aries and Pisces men, but sadly have never attracted either sign?...
Posted by scorchedearth
every male leo i've known that's been in a relationship with a scorpio woman has ended as the male leo being the scorpios bitch. without fail. male leos talk a big game and throw their asses around and want to pretend they're alpha men but you put a scorpio female with them and they become nothing more than a cub. it's kind of hilarious actually.
some pansy ass male leo isn't going to dominate a female scorpio.


You're gonna start with that crap too?! So define "alpha" and "being a bitch" etc. and how that applies to the everyday life in a relationship? Who are you to attribute those labels onto any couple, I mean what the fuck do you know about the intimate details of their private lives? Don't judge a book by its cover, what shows on the surface and what goes on underneath in a relationship are two seperate things.
There's more to the relationships-dynamic than being 'this' OR 'that'.
Furthermore I've been with enough Scorps to know that Leos and Scorps have different dictatorial methods and ways to express those. Also, Scorpios DO NOT want to be controlled or let go of control, that goes against their whole nature (not talking about sex here), nor do they want an overpowering or dominant partner in the traditional sense. Many Scorps will claim the opposite, but it's just not true in my experience. They cannot stand the whole concept of having someone above them. This is also why they react almost with disgust when they find themselves falling head-over-heels in love with someone, and send mixed signals. Because it's a vulnerable position for them.
I knew a girl who said to me, "I wish I haven't told you all this and that", as if I would somehow use that against her. But she basically meant she wasn't comfortable with someone knowing her inside out, not even her own partner. She experienced that as loss of control, while a Leo in the same situation couldn't give less fuck how much you know about him. Like I said, different weak spots, different dictatorial methods.
As for Leos, well we are easygoing and rather lazy, we don't wish to control anyone that we don't feel threatened by, naturally. So if a Leo doesn't meddle too much and let's a Scorp "get her way" it only means he's comfortable around her and trust her. That's amore!
Allot of merry go round experiences in this thread. Bottom line is there really is no better compatibility than Scorpio and Pisces. Regardless of one's bad apple experience, there is nothing more intense and desirable in an relationship than these two.
Pisces and scorps are a great pair. Second two that In my personal experience are Virgos.
Posted by ay018
Pisces and scorps are a great pair. Second two that In my personal experience are Virgos.


Im a Pisces sun Virgo Rising and the girl im seeing is a Scorpio Sun Virgo Rising smile
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by scorchedearth
every male leo i've known that's been in a relationship with a scorpio woman has ended as the male leo being the scorpios bitch. without fail. male leos talk a big game and throw their asses around and want to pretend they're alpha men but you put a scorpio female with them and they become nothing more than a cub. it's kind of hilarious actually.
some pansy ass male leo isn't going to dominate a female scorpio.


You're gonna start with that crap too?!

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My parents Leo & Scorpio divorced.
I'd better not to tell you how my father managed to find his way to a train. She hid his documents. Being him a citizen of another country. Tongue You're welcome.
>> cub
Is enfant something like a jardin d'enfants?
And calm down.
Posted by ScorpioFish
Leo male!
Just ask Hillary Clinton, hahahaha.


Posted by scorchedearth
oh and i have that stupid leo bastard blocked so i don't see any of his posts if people don't quote him. he just didn't like the fact that i called his sign out on being a bunch of pussies.


Lmao she's a "blocker". What's even funnier is that she's the bully yet she's blocking ME!
Can't handle some real fire, as oppose to that unbalanced psycho-ward shit she's got going.
(Someone should probably quote me Tongue )

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