calling a scorpio out for lying.

so theres this scorpio guy ive been in love with for some time,he knows it. we've been trying to be friends and see what happens.yesterday i told him i cant be friends with him right now because its hard being in love with someone who youre just friends with.i get jealous,and i told him that. and he asked "why do you get jealous?" so i said" well whenever i talk to you on AIM,it lets me know whenever you add someone to your buddy list.and theyre all girls.and i know one of them is hot" and he asked " name one of the girls on my buddy list thats hot" and i told him the girls screen name and he said" shes not hot at all" and im like"OH REALLY.LOL" and hes like"where do you think she came from?" and i said "a dating website,you met her on one.im not stupid" and hes like " seriously,thats creepy.what the F. you're nuts.i would never look up dudes that you talk to,youre seriously not right in the head and blah blah blah.i dont want to be friends with you anymore.i despise you.screw off" he went ape shit on me because i called him out on the fact that he lied,so he turned it around and called me crazy for lurking and made me look like the bad guy. when in fact im not,hes a perfect example of why girls will lurk,he lies about dumb shit like that.i told him that.whatever,so anyway. will scorpios freak out like that when you catch them in lies?i know he wont apologize to me for freaking out and i dont care anyway because he lied to me in the first place. apparently he cant handle a girl who can win at his own game.

LOL i know right! i was thinking the same exact thingggg. hahahaha god what an idiot he is

See, and I thought they liked you calling them on their bullshit? I ones I know do...

I think a lot of his being upset was because you were being a bit invasive. If you guys aren't dating, I wouldn't be so intrusive and accusatory. Even though he lied, I think he was mad because he felt you were on his ass.
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Hey sweets!

Oh yeah...very familiar with the "double standard"!
I often wonder if they will ever be able to fully trust anyone?

Oh girl...I know!
That makes so much sense though...I can't imagine being like that. They must be in emotional termoil at all times! No thanks!

haha,thats...cool i guess? haha,im a virgo though. :-P but yeah anyway,yeah this scorpio definitley has trust issues.we dated a while back and he was too afraid to put effort into making us work because he was afraid.i think im going to be the bigger person and at least apologize for being intrusive on his personal life,that part was wrong.but i also had reasons of my own for lurking cause i hate it when my blood boils with jealousy so i was hoping to put my mind at ease and just find out what the girl looked like,and unfortunately she was extremely good looking.im only going to half-apologize because he also lied to me about something so stupid and then proceeded to blow up on me and was way out of line with his words.

ditzy dolt? not at all actually,but thanks for judging me asshole! 🙂

Posted by missmeow4
haha,thats...cool i guess? haha,im a virgo though. :-P but yeah anyway,yeah this scorpio definitley has trust issues.we dated a while back and he was too afraid to put effort into making us work because he was afraid.i think im going to be the bigger person and at least apologize for being intrusive on his personal life,that part was wrong.but i also had reasons of my own for lurking cause i hate it when my blood boils with jealousy so i was hoping to put my mind at ease and just find out what the girl looked like,and unfortunately she was extremely good looking.im only going to half-apologize because he also lied to me about something so stupid and then proceeded to blow up on me and was way out of line with his words.

Most have trust issues. I think it's a good idea to appologize. He owes you one too. But, if you are that jealous and he's not even your man...you many need to rethink getting into a relationship right now. Remember that they are all built on trust. You are young, so I would just date right now...there is NO rush. You have to be confident in yourself to know that just because another girl is good looking, she doesn't have what you have. If he likes you, then he will want to be with you. It shouldn't matter if the guy has good looking female friends.

i doubt i'll get any apology from him,he has alot of pride. although he has apologized almost every time he was at fault for something but usually throws the BUT YOU...blah blah blah. i'm over the whole situation.i sent him this huge text basically telling him to stop hiding behind his fanclub of girls who shower him with admiration and compliments and allow himself to give his heart to one girl and have trust that she wont break it.he doesnt trust people yet he does crap that makes people not trust him.he's going to be lonely and miserable for the rest of his life if he continues the way he's going.he's 27 years old,i mean seriously grow the hell up.

well,the thing is we used to date.i've always had trust issues with him.i'd catch him texting dirty messages to other chicks and called him out on it as well as other things.of course he denied it even though i HAVE EYES AND COULD CLEARLY SEE WHAT HE WAS TEXTING.durrrrrr. but yeah,when i realized i started getting jealous these past few days i actually told him that we shouldnt talk to eachother for a while until my feelings are gone and hopefully meet someone new so i wont be jealous anymore. then he messaged me yesterday and thats when the whole crap went down.im kind of relieved that he doesnt want to talk to me,he stresses me out beyond belief.i dont need that right now.

Sounds like he does girl. It's best to try and move on then. If you are anything like me, you cannot have anything to do with the guy until you are over it. I would stay away from his dumb ass!

Perhaps, after reading three times, I missed the part where he lied.
When he said the AOL wasn't hot?

Missmeow4 - How do you know they met on a dating website?

If it was after some lengthy detective work then good for you.
On the other hand, I can see how he would find that a bit creepy and
quite obsessive.

yeah im a huge researcher,i just searched the girl's screen name in google and she popped up on this dating website,which he is also on. he's on about 7 to 8 different dating websites.who the hell does that? i'm just over this whole situation,what a huge waste of time he was.sometimes its good to lurk people,you can find out some stuff that'll save you from wasting any more time on a person if you get some really bad dirt on them.

i know right!hahaha,and he claims he's not lonely. mister pimpin chicks on the interweb.