Calling ALL Scorp guys

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by VenusScorpio1976 on Wednesday, December 19, 2012 and has 6 replies.
A year long relationship ended by him " thinking" things or rumors are true. See we are from the same hometown where he still lives and I moved away 5 years ago ( in military) . We reconnected through face book . I should also add. We dated in HS briefly years ago. Ok so here's what. Happened We met and he was FULL throttle on me " we clicked " instantly ! He was determined to get me and before I knew it we was engaged and talking kids and we planned to in which case I know have a set of newborn twins. He broke it off a week before they was due. OK .. Now .. He came out of NO where at all with all these " false " accusations!! Accusing me of crazy things I could believe like lying to him about my degree in nursing among other stupid things. The one that floored me ? I got a DUI when I was in my college years & I forgot how many days I was in jail for this . I told him upfront long ago & gave a number right ? Ok he comes at me with me with WELL you lied about how many days you was in there I mean REALLY ? Excuse me for being fHUMAN & forgetting lol .. Anyhow ..ALL this mind you got thrown at me after we was arguing hard core bc he was being a asshole to me the night before he had went off on me. HE has NEVER flipped out over something so minute. I told him I don't know if I can forgive you right now for it . I was pregnant at the time keep in mind ( hormones ) . SO the day after this .. That morning BOOM all hell broke loose. He says to me " I would love to work things out with you if you can handle me not trusting you & me asking questions like you hate and not have a chip on you're shoulder . But I know you can't do that. If you can't then I am not the man for you & it wouldn't be fair to you not to give my all " I was floored .. Mad was not the word !! This man made me his entire world always blowing up my cell always saying I love you hated me being mad at him was afraid I would leave him and always telling me oh people will laugh at you later because you are so pretty and I am so ugly !! I could go on he romanced the pants litterally right off me lol ... THEN to ice me out like he doesn't care or never cared at all ESP about his kids he texts me 2 days in a row .. Asking how they was but then nothing .He did say you will always have a piece of my heart .. We can still be friends & u will always have a piece of my heart I said no and don't come back when you realize you made a mistake. I caved & tried to get him back he said I lost a piece
Of my soul with all this I don't believe any woman and don't want one .. Only to be flirting with all his exs and. Adding them back to his FB .. REaLLy!?? What do I have to do to get this man to wake up and come back to me ? I mean lord we have kids !!! Help please !!!
I can't believe i read that.
maybe the (false) accusations are stemming from insecurity on his end, maybe not.
he said he's willing to make it work. it'll be butterty for awhile but just be calm and honest when he questions you.
I know it was long & not done in paragraphing form lol.. I done it from my cell sorry but thanks fior the input.
He did say he was willing but this is before I pushed him to tell me is it over. When I tried crawling back in e said " I can't I've lost a piece of my soul with all this " & the iced out started !! I don't
Know what to do ! Leave him alone or try :-/
Walk away from this hot mess....or stay and sacrifice your self-respect. It's a wrap on this situation.
tell him you want to make it work once he's ready. give him some space until then.
I did tell him , then when he rejected i was floored !! I have to admit .. He did text 2 days in a row , but I Told him during a conversation
I agreeded with the break up .. Scorp in me ? ( you stung me so I sting you & myself lol ?))
He got riled up when I did say this ! He texted " well I hope you and you're BF have a good life. And glad you have each other
I wish you the best I really do ! We went round and round about it !!
It was like it pissed him off I agreeded to it !! What the hell ? I can not win for losing !!
I wonder how hard HE has took the break up?
I should also. Add after this he hasn't bothered texting me like he was to check on them