imnotvirgo
@imnotvirgo
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Can I help him? Can I do something?
Posted by YasmineThank you. I was just thinking about scorpios and taking the dark path and stuff. And not just astrology wise, people around me, taking amphetamine... they're not living the good life. its just sad.Posted by imnotvirgo
Okay, I was with a scorpio for 1 and a half, he broke up with me 2 months ago, we were arguing a lot, I was expecting too much, wanted too much and stuff like that.
Anyways, he wanted to stay friends and be grown ups, and wrote me a couple of times to go out, which we did once but with mutal friends. Just today we saw each other, cuz I asked him to return something mine from his place. (I am totally friendly and do not have any bad feelings for him at all. In fact I love that we can talk and discuss and be normal. I also have zero interest in him in romantic way)
He shared that he's been parting hard, on his way to quit his job(which I made him start so he could move out from his parents place with me), he's planning on being on the seaside all summer and also he shared some stories with his new friends, which involved taking drugs and other disgusting butter. He looked a bit sad and shared he doesnt feel like himself, that he doesnt care about how he looks on other peoples eyes, that he is not sure if what he is doing is right. Overall pretty heartbreaking meetup.
I feel like he's going down, his friends are bad influence, he's not making an effort to succeed, he's taking drugs... Can I help him? Can I do something?
As a friend, just be there for him whenever he needs someone to talk to without judgment and guide him through his muddy thoughts. As much as you want to fix his situation on his behalf, you should rather let him take over the reins of his own life in order for him to learn how to be self-sufficient and responsible.click to expand
Posted by imnotvirgo
Okay, I was with a scorpio for 1 and a half, he broke up with me 2 months ago, we were arguing a lot, I was expecting too much, wanted too much and stuff like that.
Anyways, he wanted to stay friends and be grown ups, and wrote me a couple of times to go out, which we did once but with mutal friends. Just today we saw each other, cuz I asked him to return something mine from his place. (I am totally friendly and do not have any bad feelings for him at all. In fact I love that we can talk and discuss and be normal. I also have zero interest in him in romantic way)
He shared that he's been parting hard, on his way to quit his job(which I made him start so he could move out from his parents place with me), he's planning on being on the seaside all summer and also he shared some stories with his new friends, which involved taking drugs and other disgusting butter. He looked a bit sad and shared he doesnt feel like himself, that he doesnt care about how he looks on other peoples eyes, that he is not sure if what he is doing is right. Overall pretty heartbreaking meetup.
I feel like he's going down, his friends are bad influence, he's not making an effort to succeed, he's taking drugs... Can I help him? Can I do something?
u have no interest in him romantically but love him?
well i would hang out with him more and do stuff with him and steer him away from the bad influence..
he needs a positive influence in his life. if u can provide that for him. he'll get out of the funk very soon, i hope it works out.
You can’t help him Virgal. I know that’s kinda our thing (to help) but if he wants to go down then 🤷🏽♀️ We can’t help anyone who doesn’t want our help and even then...
What you can do is be there for him and be the loving friend there, maybe voice your concern but he may flip out that you’re meddling. So u should probably just be there for him when he needs it
What you can do is be there for him and be the loving friend there, maybe voice your concern but he may flip out that you’re meddling. So u should probably just be there for him when he needs it
Posted by imnotvirgo
Okay, I was with a scorpio for 1 and a half, he broke up with me 2 months ago, we were arguing a lot, I was expecting too much, wanted too much and stuff like that.
Anyways, he wanted to stay friends and be grown ups, and wrote me a couple of times to go out, which we did once but with mutal friends. Just today we saw each other, cuz I asked him to return something mine from his place. (I am totally friendly and do not have any bad feelings for him at all. In fact I love that we can talk and discuss and be normal. I also have zero interest in him in romantic way)
He shared that he's been parting hard, on his way to quit his job(which I made him start so he could move out from his parents place with me), he's planning on being on the seaside all summer and also he shared some stories with his new friends, which involved taking drugs and other disgusting shit. He looked a bit sad and shared he doesnt feel like himself, that he doesnt care about how he looks on other peoples eyes, that he is not sure if what he is doing is right. Overall pretty heartbreaking meetup.
I feel like he's going down, his friends are bad influence, he's not making an effort to succeed, he's taking drugs... Can I help him? Can I do something?
No.
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Anyways, he wanted to stay friends and be grown ups, and wrote me a couple of times to go out, which we did once but with mutal friends. Just today we saw each other, cuz I asked him to return something mine from his place. (I am totally friendly and do not have any bad feelings for him at all. In fact I love that we can talk and discuss and be normal. I also have zero interest in him in romantic way)
He shared that he's been parting hard, on his way to quit his job(which I made him start so he could move out from his parents place with me), he's planning on being on the seaside all summer and also he shared some stories with his new friends, which involved taking drugs and other disgusting shit. He looked a bit sad and shared he doesnt feel like himself, that he doesnt care about how he looks on other peoples eyes, that he is not sure if what he is doing is right. Overall pretty heartbreaking meetup.
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