Can you understand a male Gemini?

scorpio girls. lets say the playing field is level. lets say you are attracted to this gemini man. any experience would be good. i find that in this case of this one scorpio that we get along great and have good chemistry. we are completely different but it feels right. i know i cant understand her completely. she gets her feelings hurt when she cant understand me and it leads to arguments. i guess i could never really put into words what i feel for her. i guess i can only show her. problem though is that she worries about everything and for some reason she is convinced that i have a diabolical scheme to break her heart. i think because i can accept and love our differences that her being unable to understand where im coming from causes her to not trust me. she thinks that i am hiding something and have evil intentions. AH MAN@!!!!!
my rising sign is cancer. i know she is attracted to me. we are just complete opposites. she has agreed that things between us feel right. she is just paranoid as hell. at what point does a person begin to think that a person that likes her has intentions on causing her harm? she told me that her whole life she had a nightmare where she was asleep and someone was molesting her in her sleep and she could never see the person before she woke up. she said that just the other day she had the nightmare and when it ended the person who had been tormenting her for her entire life turned into me and she saw my face. The thing about this is that she said it felt comfortable instead of scary. she said that her recurring dream had never had an ending like that she never saw the person. much less me. i have given up on trying to understand her. i jiust know i really like her a lot and dont want her to be afriad of anything. i want to make her bad dreams go away.
how can i make her able to understand me better so that she feels better?