Cancer male unintentionally hurts Scorp female.

So there was this one day I was talking to old friends on myspace when suddenly I ran into a girl I fairly knew (we both fairly knew each other but never got along when we were younger). Before I even seriously viewed her profile, I felt a power attraction, as if I was destined to be with her. And so, my first instinct was to im her to find out little about her; and so I did.

She asked a bunch of questions, typical of someone who wants to know who's iming them, and I answered as truthfully as possible - except one question where she asked why I imed her. (I replied saying that I haven't seen her in awhile and wanted to say hi. Ok, it's more a half-truth then, with the other half being that instinct and love had driven me to talk to her.)

Over the past few months, I've been in nasty verbal conflicts after being betrayed by two of my closets friends - the best way I felt I could express my rage without directly igniting a fight, was to make fun of their behavior on im using only one sentence. I recall saying a harsh one-liner (indirectly) to one of my former friends, and I'm guessing she (the girl I added on im) mistakenly thought I was referring to her.

So from then on, she also made harsh, indirect shots at me, despite the fact that I was sincere in everything convo we had. I pretty much ignored what she said, yet, she continued and only to one day, I confronted her about it, simply saying that she should get to know me before making such false and harsh comments. Even though I did confront her about it, she continued and still does up to this day.

Drawing from this, I came up with possibilities as to why she is doing that. At first, I thought their might be chance that she liked me, but that was just wishful thinking and I soon found out that she had a boyfriend. (Crushing blow!) I then thought that she was trying to mind games with me because I didn't give her enough info as to who I am. (I was gonna show a picture until she started up)
She's a Scorpio and her boyfriend (Libra) were bestfriends before they became boyfrend and girlfriend. Just telling that she's a scorpio, this relationship looks like it's going last for ages. My problem here is that if trying to explain that I didn't mean hurt doesn't work, what should I resort to? Is she bluffing and overhyping her relationship to make me jealous? Oh yeah, she also gives me silent treatment, especially when I wished a merry christmas, thanksgiving, happy new year, and whatever else.

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What could be the problem? Do I have chance or what could I do to better my chances? I'm not your typical Cancer, but I was sincerely sorry for all harsh things said. I've grown up a little and have learned from my mistakes, maybe a little to late.

Please guys, I could really use your help!

Thanks in advance.

Erm,try confronting her directly about it,cause if it was indirectly it could be the same stuff with someone else on her side and your reading to much into it.Straight up tell her what your thinking about those "shots" and also make mention about your thinking she took the one from you to heart,etc.Without knowing for sure those shots were directed at you is accusing her and a sure fire way to piss someone off so they do actually throw shots at you or give silent treatments to.

As far as the boyfriend thing,it won't happen if she is seriously happy with him,doesn't matter if hes a libra or no.