cancer scorpio

What has been your experience i never really dated one but ive heard stories and i must say if they act like what i hear i dont think we would work out. Im kind of scared to date one a scorpio that is...scorpios how do you feel about cancers

Really why? @whitechocolate

If I may ask, what stories have you heard about Scorpios? I'm not sure if I'll be much help since I'm an Aquarius female but my current boyfriend of more than 2 years is a Scorpio male. Also, I'm not sure what kind of advice you're exactly looking for but I will say that Scorpios are truly dedicated lovers once committed and in love. Furthermore, every description about them on astrology websites and/or online horoscopes are accurate! I'm not a 100% believer on sun sign astrology compatibility but as far as I know, signs sharing the same element are generally considered the best match (hence, you are both water signs). Therefore, Cancers and Scorpios are ideally perfect together. All in all, I'd say go for it! It won't hurt to give it a try, that way you can have a general idea of an actual Scorpio and gain the experience 🙂

Posted by WhiteChocolate
Yes.

We are very scary.

Avoid us at all costs.

+1

I tease OP. Right placements it can be quite nice. Wrong placements requires a lot more "get over your self and your 'I'm so sensitive and will get hurt so you put yourself out there first' issues".

A Crab with a lot of Leo placements may be more challenging for a Scorp and vice versa. As well a Scorp with a lot of Leeb placements may be more challenging for a Crab. Maturity is definitely required with any water sign paring.

It requires effort, which may simply be too much work for some. Especially when there are 11 other flavours in the zodiac to choose from that may lend to an easier experience.

Try not to let the stores on here scare you if you find one you like.

*stories

I heard they were crazy and difficult they r like the top number 1 sign ppl avoid @phoenixrising also i love libras all my exs friends are libras i feel we Cardinals do get along and i love air signs etc but they tended to act crazy and possesive i just jope scorpions arent too bad i heard they are and i dont like that

Posted by spark
Furthermore, not every description about them on astrology websites and/or online horoscopes are accurate!

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Posted by lovely77
I heard they were crazy and difficult they r like the top number 1 sign ppl avoid @phoenixrising also i love libras all my exs friends are libras i feel we Cardinals do get along and i love air signs etc but they tended to act crazy and possesive i just jope scorpions arent too bad i heard they are and i dont like that

Hmph. Interesting. How great was the relationship if they are exes? I'm teasing again, but not really.

Anyway, a Scorp with Leeb placements isn't the same as a Leeb. Not even close.

The way the energy is filtered through the other placements changes how one is viewed and perceived. Just saying.

I personally find Leo quite charming, warm and lovable. However, for a mulitude of reasons I have a lot of difficulty with Crabs with Leo placements, so I limit my contact (even avoid them).

Anyway, best of luck meeting a Scorp that isn't a little "scary" or "crazy". Whatever that means.

Yea true i csnt say anything bad because never been with one before. I just hear too many ppl speak on them even on various message boards and real life

They were crazy and jealous thats why i broke up with them @phoenixrising i couldnt handle their intensity and possesive nature it was too mich. But we got along its just ppl act different when they fall in love that was my libras gemini and Aquarius all were crazy and very possesive that sounds ironic maybe its me attracting that behaviour idk but I had to go.

True @whitechocolate i just want a peaceful union lol i think we all have our stuff with us i think all signs can get along if we wanted to but our egos get in the way.

Posted by lovely77
I heard they were crazy and difficult they r like the top number 1 sign ppl avoid @phoenixrising also i love libras all my exs friends are libras i feel we Cardinals do get along and i love air signs etc but they tended to act crazy and possesive i just jope scorpions arent too bad i heard they are and i dont like that

Every sign has its dose of the crazy ones. That has nothing to do with sign, but with character. Either people choose to grow and mature, or they choose something that is ugly, and thus we have assholes in society. Just learn to spot the jerky people and how to avoid having them around and you're good to go.

As for scorpios: I've only met a couple who were messed up. One is insecure/selfish/mean girl, and the other was so very sadly lost in life, stuck on living his glory days from high school because he couldn't seem to figure out what to do as an adult and was making a mess of his life. The others, the wonderful ones, make great friends, are caring, deep thinkers but they try to hide some of their best qualities and they don't like them overly fawned over (so you have to find the right way to fawn over the good parts without giving them hives).

Lol. I was just teasing you lovely. I didn't expect a response, but I appreciate it all the same.

I hear you. My only point is, there's more at play than one's Sun sign. They are not as simple as the astrology boards make them sound. At the end of the day they are people with all their nutty behaviour as well as their great qualities. Makes it fun in some respect and other times will make you want to tear out your hair and run. Whatever you choose to do depends on maturity, knowing yourself and your willingness to push through it if you think the person is worth it. That applies to friendship and romantic interest.

The dynamic between the two signs definitely stretches you. Good or bad. All depends on your perspective.

Posted by WhiteChocolate
The majority of these bad stories you hear are from emotionally stunted people who havent learned to hike up their big boy/big girl undies and admit that, even astrology aside, sometimes two people just don't work out, and instead of admitting that, moving on with life, and becoming a better person for having that experience, they absolve themselves of any and all responsibility by scapegoating the Scorpio. It's like that with all signs, though.

Meh.

+1

True indeed what sun sign are you @phoenixrising

Posted by WhiteChocolate
For whatever reason, people only notice the best parts of us or the worst parts of us.

They ignore everything in between that makes us human just like everyone else.

I always notice all the parts in between. There's a heart, some guts and innards, squishy blood stuffs, poop....lots of poop!!.....brainy things, eyeballs......

I don't see anything wrong with them..a bit stubborn/controlling but those Plutonian princes are the perfect match for us Moon maidens. Heading straight to the altar with mine.
Don't be scuurred gurl,they don't bite and if they do don't be afraid to bite back 😉They might even like it,wink wink lol.
Seriously though their my baes, I love this sign Men and Women all of them.

Ok this gives me hope. @crabriot

Posted by lovely77
Ok this gives me hope. @crabriot

Good!

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Posted by lovely77
Ok this gives me hope. @crabriot

Good!

You still with the scorpy crabriot?

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Yup, we have each other on lock.

I dated a Scorpio man as a Cancer woman. I am used to being the emotional instable person in the relationship, but with the Scorpio lover this took a backstage to his demanding behaviour and attitude. It didn't work out as he expected me to stop my whole life for him. He wouldn't let me do things like go to the gym as he wanted to spend time with me instead. I spent alot of time reassuring him that I cared for him and giving him counselling and attention, whereas if I had a problem, his problems were more important!
We had a very love hate relationship though. The first time we dated I led him on a bit and then didn't end up sleeping with him. He got so angry with me he left and called me a bitch. I blocked him on FB and then he created a fake profile and apologised. We got back together and then again we ended up breaking up due to him getting really angry at me for no reason. It seemed our whole relationship was like that. We were very drawn towards each other but he was an asshole. I don't know if other women would put up with this but as Cancer woman I tend to like nurturing people, but I am also strong enough to not take anyone's crap, so it was a push pull type of relationship. Recently he again contacted me as he wanted me to go over and give him a cuddle. I said I was busy and he was angry and that was that!

Having said that though, I have met other Scorpio men and we always get along well and there is an instant attraction there. There is just something about Cancer women & Scorpio men!

I personally don't date Scorp suns and I'm so happy I don't attract them, however my Libra has moon in Scorp so emotionally he reacts a lot like Scorps but his Libra Sun keeps him from going too deep into the Scorp darkness. He also has a Leo Mars which makes him more readily want to get out of ruts and keep things moving verses enjoying wallowing around in self pity.

I'm a Cancer with a lot of fire & air so although I can be nurturing when needed, I'm not that "mothering" type Cancer so I have no interest in swimming around in the waters with a Scorp. I prefer to walk along the sand and be entangled in fresh air.

Yea i hear u . 4 me water signs are ok but none has ever sparked me like air or fire idk. Um nurturing but im not. I cant explain it. My libra haa a venus scorpio and cancer moon @cancerlady they are laid back and quiet