Common sense, much?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by enfant_terrible on Tuesday, October 11, 2011 and has 95 replies.
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Do Scorpios always let their personal shit get in the way of common sense? I've noticed this with a lot of Scorpios, your brain shut down and you are not receptive for anything that anyone else says. Being objective is not one of your virtues, neither is looking outside of the box! Your inability to see things from other an perspective sometimes makes you look just plain stupid.
A little constructive criticism, plus I wanted to see if anyone else has noticed this? Winking
Posted by DazedScorp
I not receptive of others because they are the ones lacking common sense.



Pretty much the answer I would expect from a Scorpio Winking
I wonder how you guys even learn things? I mean at some point in your lives you'd have to go "Oh i didn't know that, you are right. I learned something new today". But that doesen't seem to exist in the Scorpio vocabulary.
There is nothing to rephrase. You know exactly what I'm talking about so stop acting dumb. You let your personal feelings and agendas get in the way of seeing things for how they really are, or let's say seeing things from a more objective perspective. Better?
Posted by DazedScorp
Objective perspective is way different than common sense.
So yes, there was something to rephrase.




I beg to differ. There are obviousely different sort of ideas and contexts. Democracy like communism have common sense within their own contexts, but in the end which one makes more sense? From an objective perspective it's democracy right?
Or say you approve of the death penalty but only for child rapists. Now if you can't back it up in any other way but with your feelings in terms of a parent then your argument lacks common sense... while I can give you at least three objective reasons to why child rapists shouldn't be killed in the name of the law!
Btw, it seems you only talk about your objective, out-of-the-box qualities in terms of your work... so I guess you are some sort of smart-ass problem-solving business man , but I'm talking about common sense beyond the material world. I'm talking about the idea world. And not the kind of ideas you put together in an advertising agency...

Careful with that mirror LS, don't want to be luring the Geminis in....
ellessque Oh give it a rest. In my time here you Scorpios have already proved you are everything Leos are only just about 10 times worse! Leos are supposedly self-absorbed maniacs who only like to talk about themselves... well check out the Leo board. Empty. Now check out the Scorpio board: a bunch of defensive and aggressive people who only like talking about how great they are. Forget about a little fresh breeze from the outside, noooo scorps are beyond all criticism! It's fun being in your own little box.
Actually if you check the Leo board you will rarely see a defensive or aggressive Leo, most of the time we just explain why we are the way that we are without making any excuses or taking it personally. Seems that Leos possess far more self-distance than Scorpios.

Posted by DazedScorp
So it should say this, "which one makes more sense? From an subjective perspective it's democracy right?



Yeah wait let me just change the name to "Scorpios lack objective perception" . Common sense is common sense, all the academic nonsense you can dig up won't change that fact. It will just look pretty on the paper. In the end Scorpios still put their feelings before their common sense... oh I'm sorry, I meant to say in front of their "objective perception". Sounds prettier, doesn't it.
Posted by DazedScorp
Mr. big shot think he has me all figured out doesn't he. I work in the "idea world". I have a degree in Psychology and am currently working on my Masters in Psychology.

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Hm, I've been to the states and what you'd call university material over there amounts to high-school material in Sweden. Your degree in psychology doesen't impress me much, it's like having a degree in pop art... symbolically it looks something like an Andy Warhol painting of Freud. Yawn. Try studying psychology in Sweden, pal.
DazedScorp: I entered a passionate debate with a girl at my work which is what made me think a little about all the Scorpios in my life... Anyway, being a typical Scorp this girl simply refuses to see things from an objective perspective, she's practical and smart but not very sensible. What's so fucking hard to grasp?
Posted by beccy
scorpio's belong to the water signs. of course they are very emotional. if a scorpio likes you, he will value your opinion. if he doesnt gives a shit about you, he wont give a shit about your opinion either Winking
simple as that.



I agree with the first line, which is my whole point. But I don't agree with the latter stuff. I've seen relationships where the guy has no saying in anything that even remotely resembles a philosophical discussion because he's married to a Scorpio Super Chick... and it's just gotta be the way she says no matter how unreasonable it is. Unreasonable from a subjective perspective, in case DazedScorp wants to play dumb again.
And my ex was this way too... altough she did try to see things from a more objective point of view (EVENTUALLY!), she'd still be paranoid and defensive most of the time. After a while I was walking on my tiptoes around her, trying not to awaken her Scorpion EGO.
Posted by DazedScorp
So let me get this right...
Because of the debate with the scorp lady at your work and from the Scorp in a past relationship, you have come to the conclusion that ALL Scorps lack common sense and are unable to view from objective perception?


Oh come off it! No it's not just these two Scorpios, you want me to go through every god damn Scorpio I've ever met in my god damn life, it's a long list. These were just TWO EXAMPLES!
Jeez you're a pain in the neck, you really do posses an academic ability of picking a subject to death! You gotta sak yourself, do you really have anything more to say? I know I don't. Let the ego rest for a while. You can have the last word if you want....
"Jeez you're a pain in the neck, you really do posses an academic ability of picking a subject to death! You gotta sak yourself, do you really have anything more to say? I know I don't. Let the ego rest for a while. You can have the last word if you want...."
If you can't handle the heat, stay out of the kitchen :p
Just a thought.
Posted by DazedScorp
All you are doing is generalizing every Scorp...


Generalization is the main concept of astrology! So what's your point?!!!!!
Posted by DazedScorp

You step foot into the Scorp board only to accuse EVERY scorp of what you are guilty of.


Wow that made sense in a typical Scorp fashion. Care to put some sense into that? I can see you've passed Psychology 101... projecting our flaws and fears onto others... yada, yada
Anyway if you check my posts you'll see that I'm embracing my negative qualities, most of the time I'm the one to put myself out there. Leos get their fair amount of criticism, and as I said, they talk about it in civilized fashion. Now enter the Scorp board and what do you find? People that are so passionate about themselves that they are unwilling or unable to admit to one single flaw attributed to their sign. Wow. Just wow.
Posted by DazedScorp

Why not take your OWN ego down a notch, quit projecting your own faults onto Scorps, and realise that it is you with the lack of common sense and inablity to see from an objective point of view.
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No I'm afraid it's still the girl at my work because she let's her feelings get in the way of a rational thought.

IT IS STILL ABOUT GENERALIZATIONS! You can pick apart a chart, you would still generalize about the different placements and aspects. Would you not?! Of course you would put it in a greater context, but the generalization is still there. I mean a Mars in Leo usually means the same in theory altough it may manifest itself in various ways in the practical life, but the general idea about the Mars/Leo is still there!
Tell me how come just about every Scorpio I've come accross in my life has sooner or later shown these specific qualities regardless of the other aspects in their charts?

Posted by DazedScorp
You are unable to recognize your own faults and project them onto all Scorpios because that's what the basic astrological generalization (the only one you've bothered to read about) says about us.
that.


Btw, I don't put much emphasis on what I read until I experience it myself. Some things that I've noticed about the different signs aren't even included in any astrology books, I've simply picked up on them myself by observing. And I stick to those observations even if I can't find them in any books because I trust my experience first and foremost.
Anyway I've had Scorpios around me my whole life... family members, friends, friends of family members etc... so I think I'm more than qualified to come to certain conclusions. I don't think there is another sign that I'm more acquainted with than the Scorpio. I've seen you guys in practice long before I read the theory. So there you have it...

Posted by Chance11
this may be true of a worked up scorpio acting irrationally but i don't think it's the norm. they may miss a few conventional things as their minds aren't geared towards them but make up for it brilliantly in other ways such as understanding the motivations of others, gauging the overall atmosphere of a situation, and making progressive adjustments when confronted with new ideas.


True true.
Most scorpios will get this way when they are emotional about a subject. But emotions then to make most people irrational anyways.
I think they just like to be right..winning!
Yet still, "just about every Scorpio I've come accross in my life has sooner or later shown these specific qualities regardless of the other aspects in their charts?"
Hahaha oh my God, you are just too much! Clinging to your last breath, huh? That Scorpio ego is really something. Poor winners, poor loosers... Look I know you are not dumb, so why do you insist on playing dumb? So I"haven't met every Scorpio in the world"? Really...that's the best you could come up with?
NO, obviousely I haven't met EVERY Scorpio in the world. I haven't met every Pisces in the world either yet I know that I generally fancy Pisces chicks. Alfred Kinsey hasn't measure every penis in the world yet he could estimate the general erect lenght of the male member. Are you with me so far? So if science can generalize and still get the results right....
Anyway you see where I'm going with this, right? Pretty much end of discussion.
Posted by DazedScorp
First, as far as Astrology is concerned, you still have planets that are transitioning through different houses at specific moments. Each birth chart is individualized and specific to that persons date of birth, time of birth, and location of birth. Those aspects will be different for each individual. You can't say just because they are Mars in Leo, that they are the same as another Mars in Leo, because although they are the same planet placement, most likely they were in a different house at a specific time.
So no, it's not all generalized, but rather specific to each individual.
Second, each person was brought up in different families, different cultures, raised with different morals, had different pasts, traumas, life altering events that make them who they are. The DNA that made them is different from the other person with the same placement.
People are different. We're like snowflakes. Nobody is the same.
Lastly, there are roughly 7 Billion people on this planet. Using simple math here...
7,000,000,000 / 12 = 583,333,333 Scorpios
Let's say you know 100 Scorpios.
100 / 583,333,333 = 0.00000017%
You don't even know a thousandth of a percent of the Scorpios on this planet.
You are drawing a conclusion based on one thousandth of a percent to generalize the 580 million Scorpios on this planet.
So there you have it...



What Snowflake said ^^^^
Posted by MrFirebird
Posted by DazedScorp
First, as far as Astrology is concerned, you still have planets that are transitioning through different houses at specific moments. Each birth chart is individualized and specific to that persons date of birth, time of birth, and location of birth. Those aspects will be different for each individual. You can't say just because they are Mars in Leo, that they are the same as another Mars in Leo, because although they are the same planet placement, most likely they were in a different house at a specific time.
So no, it's not all generalized, but rather specific to each individual.
Second, each person was brought up in different families, different cultures, raised with different morals, had different pasts, traumas, life altering events that make them who they are. The DNA that made them is different from the other person with the same placement.
People are different. We're like snowflakes. Nobody is the same.
Lastly, there are roughly 7 Billion people on this planet. Using simple math here...
7,000,000,000 / 12 = 583,333,333 Scorpios
Let's say you know 100 Scorpios.
100 / 583,333,333 = 0.00000017%
You don't even know a thousandth of a percent of the Scorpios on this planet.
You are drawing a conclusion based on one thousandth of a percent to generalize the 580 million Scorpios on this planet.
So there you have it...



What Snowflake said ^^^^
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No two human beings are alike.
No two trees are alike.
No not even two grains of sand.
No two oceans, two mountains none are the same.
No two planets nor stars nor galaxies either, are the same.
Even the performance of a master virtuoso cannot be matched by the same.
All are unique.
Repetition is the work of mankind's mind and hands.
Repetition suggests that man cannot stand individuality, possibly even his own.
As for signs..... It is important to remember that the signs are NOT what
we are to be looking to for a concrete final analysis, but rather, consideration
of the individual's enviroment which had influenced him or her. That is, the individual's
parents, grandparents, upbringing, access to education, social enviroments, his/her friends
and influences, a lot of things, to be sure.
Thanks you SatoriFierce, finally a Scorpio with some self-distance! Yes my tone was rather harsh in the first post, had I known I would be taken so heavily I would have chosen my words a little more carefully. But I usually perfer to write how I feel in the moment, otherwise I'd loose my thread of thought.
Indeed, astrology is about generalizations in the end, I don't know why people fear that word so much... As you said, what are we doing here if we don't recognize the 12 signs of the Zodiac as a first draft to our personalities? Astrology or no astrology, everything about us and our world is somehow in general terms. You can observe a little closer and see differences in the pattern, but in the end it's not necessery to get the overall picture.
Right allme! I myself am intrigued by my negative qualities in terms of being a Leo and Cancer mooner, I like it when someone says something about these aspects - good or bad - that I can recognize in myself. Where Scorpios got the idea that they are somehow beyond criticism beats me.
True, ellybd. So what have I been saying? Winking
Hello there enfant terrible,
Let me lend a functional perspective.Lets think "Outside the box" for a moment as you pointed out.
Do LEOS always let their personal butter get in the way of common sense? I've noticed this with a lot of LEOS, your brain shut down and you are not receptive for anything that anyone else says. Being objective is not one of your virtues, neither is looking outside of the box! Your inability to see things from other an perspective sometimes makes you look just plain stupid.
Their main drawbacks are they'r egoestical and immense pride

You mentioned getting into an argument with a scorp chick .Let me go one notch higher ,lets invoke the classic example of a leo , napolean bonaparte
All Leos are dense and stupid .They refuse to hear what others have to say and solely consider their views as devine judgements even when they'r shown the right way .Do leos lack common sense ?
How do you read this ? Winking

Winning!
Posted by Eris
Careful with that mirror LS, don't want to be luring the Geminis in....


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Posted by Eris
Careful with that mirror LS, don't want to be luring the Geminis in....


Sad
Posted by Eris
Careful with that mirror LS, don't want to be luring the Geminis in....


Sad
Right allme! I myself am intrigued by my negative qualities in terms of being a Leo and Cancer mooner, I like it when someone says something about these aspects - good or bad - that I can recognize in myself. Where Scorpios got the idea that they are somehow beyond criticism beats me.
Where did you read this - we are beyond critism?
On this board?
Can you please show few threads which struck a chord into that thought ? smile
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Posted by Eris
Careful with that mirror LS, don't want to be luring the Geminis in....


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Just a joke... I tease my Gemini friends about their overusage of mirrors.. they admit it.
Posted by Zet
Also why do you markers post so many thread about your eyes ? You call us vain ? I lost count of all the stupid scorp women (especailly ellsque) who post about their eyes . Scorp eyes are normal . You are not special . You are ugly normal treetrunkers . God i just hate the sign of scorpio .


LOL! Within a month there'll be like 300 + new threads .
What are you going to do about it ?
BTw why hate scorps so much ?
Yes scorps are not special,but neither are any of the 12 signs !I donno how many times i need to repeat this ..Leos are not special either ..
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Posted by Zet
Also why do you markers post so many thread about your eyes ? You call us vain ? I lost count of all the stupid scorp women (especailly ellsque) who post about their eyes . Scorp eyes are normal . You are not special . You are ugly normal treetrunkers . God i just hate the sign of scorpio .


LOL! Within a month there'll be like 300 + new threads .
What are you going to do about it ?
BTw why hate scorps so much ?


Umm because you guys are overrated ? You boast too much . And that ellsque marker makes me want to punch something hard .
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I dunno ,boasting as in about eyes ? As far as am concerned there's not too "much" thats there to be proud of being a scorp,if you know what i mean . Many have admitted that ...
But some folks are entitled to their views and opinions .If there's no yin for yang life would be boring .Same about this blog ?
Posted by Zet
Posted by piroglesic
Yes scorps are not special,but neither are any of the 12 signs !I donno how many times i need to repeat this ..Leos are not special either ..



Pluto has been demoted . It is no longer a planet . It's just a dwarf . The sun is like 10000 times more important and is necessary for our survival . Therfore scorps have nothing ...........
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Whats that supposed to mean ? Scorps are still alive buddy !
Posted by Zet
All i know is that no one wants to be associated with scorpions, unless you are a fake goth or something .


You boast too much !You lack common sense too .Jinxed by scorps ?
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Posted by Zet
All i know is that no one wants to be associated with scorpions, unless you are a fake goth or something .


You boast too much !You lack common sense too .Jinxed by scorps ?


That's not boasting . Again with that subjective water sign bs............

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And you'r being correct here,is that it?get off your throne dude...
Your childish arguments is a feeble attempt to cover your lack knowledge on astrology
Duh! Winning!
Seriously, though, no one in this thread is doing the above.
If you hurt you the mane they go insane, now that is realtalk right!
Enough with this bullshit already! Leos are not better than Scorpios nor vice versa! We all have flaws, I just pointed out some of which I find typical for Scorpios, which btw many have already pled guilty to in this very thread! What's the problem here really?

Posted by 1two3go
Duh! Winning!
Seriously, though, no one in this thread is doing the above.


...because Scorpios make sore winners! And that's not winning in my book Winking They don't know how to win and retire with grace. True story.
Posted by enfant_terrible
Enough with this bullshit already! Leos are not better than Scorpios nor vice versa! We all have flaws, I just pointed out some of which I find typical for Scorpios, which btw many have already pled guilty to in this very thread! What's the problem here really?

Posted by 1two3go
Duh! Winning!
Seriously, though, no one in this thread is doing the above.


...because Scorpios make sore winners! And that's not winning in my book Winking They don't know how to win and retire with grace. True story.

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No one is better lol, so why make them negative comments in your post about Scorpios? Listen what your saying about us not knowing how to win is total codswallop. I dont' know what book you are reading but it must be about leos,
Posted by XXMR2NICEXX

No one is better lol, so why make them negative comments in your post about Scorpios? Listen what your saying about us not knowing how to win is total codswallop. I dont' know what book you are reading but it must be about leos,


BECAUSE THIS IS A DISCUSSION FORUM! WHAT THE FUCK ARE WE HERE FOR ANYWAY?! GOD, SOME PEOPLE ARE DUMB!!
So much irrelevant rambling over a simple subject, Scorpios are truly the bullshitters of the Zodiac! First we have DazedScorp talking about how I haven't met every Scorpio in the world so I can't possibly know what I'm talking about and then you come in here bullshitting me about why I am discussing on a internet forum? ARE YOU FOR REAL? :/
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by XXMR2NICEXX

No one is better lol, so why make them negative comments in your post about Scorpios? Listen what your saying about us not knowing how to win is total codswallop. I dont' know what book you are reading but it must be about leos,


BECAUSE THIS IS A DISCUSSION FORUM! WHAT THE FUCK ARE WE HERE FOR ANYWAY?! GOD, SOME PEOPLE ARE DUMB!!
So much irrelevant rambling over a simple subject, Scorpios are truly the bullshitters of the Zodiac! First we have DazedScorp talking about how I haven't met every Scorpio in the world so I can't possibly know what I'm talking about and then you come in here bullshitting me about why I am discussing on a internet forum? ARE YOU FOR REAL? :/

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So ... why are you here?
Posted by MrFirebird
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by XXMR2NICEXX

No one is better lol, so why make them negative comments in your post about Scorpios? Listen what your saying about us not knowing how to win is total codswallop. I dont' know what book you are reading but it must be about leos,


BECAUSE THIS IS A DISCUSSION FORUM! WHAT THE FUCK ARE WE HERE FOR ANYWAY?! GOD, SOME PEOPLE ARE DUMB!!
So much irrelevant rambling over a simple subject, Scorpios are truly the bullshitters of the Zodiac! First we have DazedScorp talking about how I haven't met every Scorpio in the world so I can't possibly know what I'm talking about and then you come in here bullshitting me about why I am discussing on a internet forum? ARE YOU FOR REAL? :/




So ... why are you here?

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You just quoted the answer to your question!
This is why I don't often get along with other leos. Just the thought process that resulted in the creation of this thread is appalling to me.
Utilize leo's best qualities. Be too proud and regal. Bullying and antagonizing for the sake of creating a shit storm is beneath you. Be a leader to yourself. Set an example. Act with some dignity and respect.
I haven't gotten on too well with many a leo throughout my life but I still think we can be great and have a lot light to offer the world. Especially in these dark times. I've contributed my share of harsh words on these boards but never to outright bring others down. It's more like a tough love approach.
The thought process that went into saying that Scorpios are unable to be objective about issues they feel strongly about and therefore lack common sense when discussing these very issues?
Really, that says bullying to you? Aren't we exaggerating just a little bit now?

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Posted by XXMR2NICEXX

No one is better lol, so why make them negative comments in your post about Scorpios? Listen what your saying about us not knowing how to win is total codswallop. I dont' know what book you are reading but it must be about leos,


BECAUSE THIS IS A DISCUSSION FORUM! WHAT THE FUCK ARE WE HERE FOR ANYWAY?! GOD, SOME PEOPLE ARE DUMB!!
So much irrelevant rambling over a simple subject, Scorpios are truly the bullshitters of the Zodiac! First we have DazedScorp talking about how I haven't met every Scorpio in the world so I can't possibly know what I'm talking about and then you come in here bullshitting me about why I am discussing on a internet forum? ARE YOU FOR REAL? :/




So ... why are you here?



You just quoted the answer to your question!
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No... I asked you a DIRECT question ..... WHY ARE YOU HERE????
I ask this, because you are in conflict with your remark and are not contributing anything to "DISCUSSION"
but lttle girlie immature BS.
AGAIN! WHY ARE YOU HERE????
Wow that almost sounded profound, ALMOST.
Posted by enfant_terrible
Wow that almost sounded profound, ALMOST.



Very well, you are a waste of time.
Depends on what you came in here for, pal.
Posted by enfant_terrible
Posted by XXMR2NICEXX

No one is better lol, so why make them negative comments in your post about Scorpios? Listen what your saying about us not knowing how to win is total codswallop. I dont' know what book you are reading but it must be about leos,


BECAUSE THIS IS A DISCUSSION FORUM! WHAT THE FUCK ARE WE HERE FOR ANYWAY?! GOD, SOME PEOPLE ARE DUMB!!
So much irrelevant rambling over a simple subject, Scorpios are truly the bullshitters of the Zodiac! First we have DazedScorp talking about how I haven't met every Scorpio in the world so I can't possibly know what I'm talking about and then you come in here bullshitting me about why I am discussing on a internet forum? ARE YOU FOR REAL? :/

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You are beening vindictive with your comments because, your stupid leo pride got hurt. Dont' try to turn this on me it will not work. See what I mean about leos nasty rage.
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Ok, Who scared Zet away this time ?


I don't' know maybe he's eating popcorn.
I don't care whast them leos think Elle is a nice person. surprised is the word I am looking for, most of the leos I know are cool people. They would not be nasty like Wheelieshomies.
Posted by GemFiregirl33
I would say that since Scorpios are actually a feminine sign,that they are more subjective than objective.They are basically a subject of their own feelings and moods.They don't see things how they are,they see things how they "feel" them.And who knows how and what that may be,based on their own perception.Since they are so secretive and defensive,it is hard to probe them.The only way I have found to manipulate a Scorpio is to beat them at their own game.Even then,one might lose and lose badly.And you have to make sure you don't have feelings for them,because then it would hurt.


I am none of things you said about Scorpios. Every sign can be moody, every sign depending on what it is your asking can be secretive and defensive.

They don't see things how they are,they see things how they "feel" That is not true of myself.
I don't want to get into a slanging match with you.
Geminis: moody, secretive and defensive, they do manipulate. Now thats only some of their bad traits.
Playing games is something geminis do a lot.
Don't why you hate Scorpios, we are not all the same. Peace!



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