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This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by laurafthomas on Thursday, March 21, 2002 and has 9 replies.
I am a 45 year old scorpio female in love with a 46 year old scorpio male. He's never been married and has no children; I left my husband of 22 years for him after a very brief courtship. The relationship is intense; fun; sexy; comfortable;passionate; My problem is that he is constantly s****ing around; I've confronted him with evidence and he at first denies and then comes semi-clean (I just don't think he'll ever tell the truth); and unlike past relationships no matter how angry I get, he never loses his composure or gets defensive; he's gotten use to the single life but when I came along he admits he's never had anyone like me and he confesses his undying love for me;I've left on several occasions, but neither he or I can stay away from each other; this feels like a friggin' addiction; I hold out no hope that he will ever change and I am constantly convincing myself that I just HAVE to move on.... that feeling never lasts more than a couple of hours, and of course, once we hit the sack again, I'm lost all over. I LOVE SWEET, PASSIONATE SEX and he's the first to ever give me that and he gives it ooooohhh so well, but it kills me that he's spreading it around. His escapades appear to be purely physical indulgences and I never have any interference from any of his flings; HELP!!! I even try to convince myself to just turn it off in my head and just deal with the way he treats me and forget what he does. As far as the way he treats me, anything I ask, he'll give me. He is sweet, kind and loving, there is no physical or verbal abuse. What is going on in his head????? What is going on in mine????? This feels like an obsession. Somebody, please, preferrably one of you philandering, but loving Scorpio men, please tell me something, other than the fact that I'm clearly operating with my heart (or crotch, take your pick) and not my head.
HELP!!!
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Sounds like scorp wants you to put up with his s***. He's mean, but in a nice way. It's no better than a kick in the head. Just say goodbye to him and stick to your guns lady. He may come crawling back with your needs in mind, but proberly not till after he's had his fun.
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Im sorry hon but it sounds like you got one of us who is the exception to the rule. His philandering ways are a true testament to this. The fact that you too are scorpio means that he knows exactly how to have his cake and eat it too. Being a Scorpio himself, he is well aware of our mad craving for passionate mindless sex that leaves us quivering, and unfortunately he uses this against you. Theres plenty
of us Scorpio guys out here who can make the earth move for you while recognizing the value of a deep monagamous relationship . Id suggest you start looking for one before you have to raise that stinger and do some permanant harm.
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There's no such thing as "mean in a nice way" !!! Mean simply equals NO RESPECT! Forget about him if your smart.
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This Scorpio is dangerous. If I were you, I'd get out now!
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We are both Scorps... and i can so relate to what your saying we are also a year apart in age. I hope you didnt lose a good guy of 22 year for this Scorp.... guy i can so seeing how you would have left your 22 year life and in that state ware you dont care about anything but this other guy its like we are so not thinking right at the time which is not like us scorps... you see i almost did the same thing to quite a few years back and someone must have been looking out for me,I ended up not leaveing my now 25 years life with the one that really loves me and respects me thank god. I dont really know if this is helping you but i have so been there and it is a hard call what to do i dont know why we seem to know in our hearts that something is'nt right but we can some how make it ok to keep doing will power it not our strong suit.and on that angry thing i know what you mean you just want them to show something anything but there always so cool to cool.As for the changing he's not you know that already but you keep hopeing,theres a scorp.... riseing and sun sign pisces male i care a little to much for and he sounds alot like your guy they can make you do and say things you never dreamed you'd do.Passion between two scorps.... must be well i get a ideai can see how hard it could be to let yourself cut him lose but you know as will as i you can't live with him being with other women if your at all like me you can't deal with knowing that and you now have lost everything else that you have worked on for 22years and he pulls this s*** ,so heres what i say you do because i know for a fact that any man wants what he can't have so this is your last chance at really getting him back and knowing if he really cares about you and i know if you are like me i know i'm hot s*** and if you believe it he will to. I know that one reason my guy has been in love with me is because i never really let him know all there is to know about myself i always keep him guess ing because they think they have got you down they think they know every move you'll make so always keep them on there toes and there always come back for more. Sorry back to you you cant call him i dont care what happen dont you call let him come to you and if he does you know he wants to be there not because you thought of something to get him there and are you ready for this he has to think you are seeing someone else. if that do'nt do it it's time to cut him lose i hate to say but you can't let him keep doing them and then come to you .now if you can try something like get him over to your house and then have the phone ring at that time he's there and be in the other room so he has to get it and have a friend a guy friend ask for you and if he won't get your phone you answer it and cut it real short like your hideing something and that should get the ball rolling if you have a machine have it turned on and have a guy say something like laura had a great time would you like to go out next week i'll call you later. sorry my writeing is the shi__. try this if you want that last chance with him and then go from there. hope it works. ps. in case you think im smokein my shorts im really not but i do and have always had lots of guy friends my girls friends always would be mad because i was friends with all the fine guys in town and they liked them but when your there friend not always trying to get them for a boyfriend they tell you all kinds or good stuff about girls and what girls should and shouldnt do for some reason people have always told me secret stuff like stuff i pass on to my girlfriends that are single so they can see ware the guy is coming from and i think if that thing is there to start with like you and your scrop... have if you play your cards right you'll win in the end. sorry this is so long didnt plan on that. you go girl!
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First of, despite the loyal image given to many Scorpios, there is a certain type of male Scorpio who are clearly chronic cheaters. Its in their make-up...think about it. The sex, the secrecy, sneaking around, selfishness, getting your cake and eating it too, the taboo..
Granted its a negative type Scorp but there it is. I was close to 2 scorp men at once (yes i am a scorp ladee 2)and even the one I married said "Well there are 2 types of Scorpio men! One that cheats and one that doesn't!Take your pick."
I picked him, and the other Scorpio man also married yet ANOTHER scorpio lady. He cheats on her all the time, even has tried to get me into the sack on more than one occasion. He totally manipulates his poor wife, yes being scorpio 2 he knows just what buttons to press to get her back with him.
Some Scorpio men are ladies men pure and simple. Some are not, they are the ones that will take one life mate and remain loyal to her.
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Okay, so why does the cheating Scorpio man hang on to his wife???? Apparently he doesn't want to lose her. I'm sure she knows how he is. Why does she hang on to him??? What is their relationship like between the two of them? Sounds like you know both of them, maybe you can lend some insight??
Still confused and curious.
Thanks.
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i'm a scorpio woman had my heart crushed bad. saw the next one coming though and headed for the moon. and yes the sex was unreal to put it the way he did. you can and will overcome your body. it is just a vessle, when you get full it's time to empty it out. just be careful not to fill it again with the same rot-gut.
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