chillaf
@chillaf
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Confused atm
Please help me guys.... What are your POV's about this?
btw he is sun scorp-moon in leo-venus in capri and I'm sun taurus-moon in cancer-venus in gemini.. Really need your help guys I love him so much.
btw he is sun scorp-moon in leo-venus in capri and I'm sun taurus-moon in cancer-venus in gemini.. Really need your help guys I love him so much.
I slapped him after he said all those mean stuff. I was hurt and it felt like he was defending the gay. What do you guys think?
Chillaf,
Dont worry. You will be fine. Atleast you know you cant handle that situation. It is not your fault. I also had that same situation before with my bull
And he was sending msgs to a gay as well and even read their conversation. I did not speak what I found out. I saw him trembled afar cuz I replied the msg using my phone and ask the gay why he is chatting my partner. So he spoke with him. I was at work. Trust me, he sent me a very long email saying he is disappointed..again this time I respond.. I am coming home and will talk face yo face cuz we lived together that time. Baby, he was speechless. Hahaha. Then he said he is not a gay. I wasnt even asking his identity. He then said he is not ready to confessed. So I replied take your time and will see what happened next. But to tell you exactly it is not worthy at the end.
So maybe your guy is not ready yet to tell you everything. That is ok. Just be strong. He is not worthu of your tears so save it for another good guy ahead.
Dont worry. You will be fine. Atleast you know you cant handle that situation. It is not your fault. I also had that same situation before with my bull
And he was sending msgs to a gay as well and even read their conversation. I did not speak what I found out. I saw him trembled afar cuz I replied the msg using my phone and ask the gay why he is chatting my partner. So he spoke with him. I was at work. Trust me, he sent me a very long email saying he is disappointed..again this time I respond.. I am coming home and will talk face yo face cuz we lived together that time. Baby, he was speechless. Hahaha. Then he said he is not a gay. I wasnt even asking his identity. He then said he is not ready to confessed. So I replied take your time and will see what happened next. But to tell you exactly it is not worthy at the end.
So maybe your guy is not ready yet to tell you everything. That is ok. Just be strong. He is not worthu of your tears so save it for another good guy ahead.
"The Gay"? Really?
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume English is not your first language. Otherwise you are disgustingly homophobic. "The gay" does have a name.
In all seriousness, this sounds like an unhealthy, toxic relationship. You only have 5 months invested. Save your money, move on and chalk this guy up as a learning experience.
I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and assume English is not your first language. Otherwise you are disgustingly homophobic. "The gay" does have a name.
In all seriousness, this sounds like an unhealthy, toxic relationship. You only have 5 months invested. Save your money, move on and chalk this guy up as a learning experience.
At the very least your bf has been venting to his gay boss about your demanding crazy af overbearing ways.
At the most he's getting his prostrate massaged on the regular by his gay boss.
What jumps out to me the most about your story is the following...
He's tried to break up with you multiple times in the past 5 months. Your relationship is extremely young and he's been trying to escape you. Your delusional saying you don't understand why he wants to break up with you when it couldn't be more clear. You DON'T WANT TO UNDERSTAND IT.
At the most he's getting his prostrate massaged on the regular by his gay boss.
What jumps out to me the most about your story is the following...
Posted by chillafYou force him to celebrate an anniversary every month even though he has expressed to you he 'hates' it.. Who the fuck does that?! You are controlling as fuck.
the next day it was our 5th monthsary. We already planned that we will watch a movie even though he said that he hates celebrating monthsaries.
Then the next day he was trying to break up with me, he has done this a couple of times and what I would do is ask him why and he wouldnt explain at all he will just say I dont want this relationship anymore and that i dont love you anymore so we're done.
He's tried to break up with you multiple times in the past 5 months. Your relationship is extremely young and he's been trying to escape you. Your delusional saying you don't understand why he wants to break up with you when it couldn't be more clear. You DON'T WANT TO UNDERSTAND IT.
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