Dating a Scorpio but this one is strange

Hi I am a 26th Feb pisces, moon in virgo, cap rising and just met a 4th Nov scorpio, moon in gemini, libra rising. Now I like him, the attractiveness and the intensity is insane but he could go hours without contact and be incredibly intense and fires questions. I am feeling like I dont quite get him, but he wants to know everything about me, assuming his moon in gemini with libra rising has a huge influence as I thought Scorpio's were always attentive this one isnt, which makes me pull away from him, I just dont get him or know what he wants, but he books dates the following days later but I dont hear from him inbetween, I am not use to that with someone when I meet them. Are Scorpio's like this to start with, we have an amazing connection, physically and mentally but this distance is weird?! his mars is in aquarius, venus in scorpio...alot of air signs coming across aloof, would this make a difference? thank you for reading x

Posted by jojo35
Hi I am a 26th Feb pisces, moon in virgo, cap rising and just met a 4th Nov scorpio, moon in gemini, libra rising. Now I like him, the attractiveness and the intensity is insane but he could go hours without contact and be incredibly intense and fires questions. I am feeling like I dont quite get him, but he wants to know everything about me, assuming his moon in gemini with libra rising has a huge influence as I thought Scorpio's were always attentive this one isnt, which makes me pull away from him, I just dont get him or know what he wants, but he books dates the following days later but I dont hear from him inbetween, I am not use to that with someone when I meet them. Are Scorpio's like this to start with, we have an amazing connection, physically and mentally but this distance is weird?! his mars is in aquarius, venus in scorpio...alot of air signs coming across aloof, would this make a difference? thank you for reading x

Don't make any assumptions, you just met him. Let me put it this way..if you pull away from him, how the hell do you expect to get the answers you are asking here?

I thought Scorpios were...bla bla bla...

^^^Stop doing that and experience the man. You're a Pisces ffs, you have no business to think..use your feelings antennas.

I am not going to comment on that Gemini Moon of his because boy am I biased against them.

Also the topic title tickles me 😄 "...but this one is strange"

Ah The Doors, how I loves you so.

"People are strange when you're a stranger
Faces look ugly when you're alone
Women seem wicked when you're unwanted
Streets are uneven when you're down

When you're strange
Faces come out of the rain
When you're strange
No one remembers your name
When you're strange
When you're strange
When you're strange"

even *I* wouldn't like this kind of push and pull. 😆

forget it!! there's no connection at all, cause this guy sounds like he just "disconnected" 😆

Posted by Damnata
Also the topic title tickles me 😄 "...but this one is strange"

Ah The Doors, how I loves you so.

"People are strange when you're a stranger
Faces look ugly when you're alone
Women seem wicked when you're unwanted
Streets are uneven when you're down

When you're strange
Faces come out of the rain
When you're strange
No one remembers your name
When you're strange
When you're strange
When you're strange"

good song, Damnata 😛

A lot of variable there, the main ones:

gender
his specs (aka chart)
your expectations

you already received the best advice in the first post. Stick around long enough to get to know him and take a look at how your expectations may be blurring lines.

I will add, I have a Gem moon and one Aqua placement. My mind goes in a million places all at once, but I am always paying attention and notice every detail--it just doesn't look the way most want it to look. I will also go days without communicating with someone in between making plans because I just don't need to talk to you all the time. I am saving that for our time alone, so I can focus squarely the person I am with. Sometimes I need the distance to shut out the "noise" because my mind is working overtime. It rarely shuts off. Unfortunately, I appear very anti-social because I will not respond to anyone, but you are on my mind. Again, it's all perception. I have been told I come off distant, but that is far from true. Only the people that I allow to get close enough truly know that though and get it.

Give him time and get to understand him.

Posted by Damnata
I thought Scorpios were...bla bla bla...

^^^Stop doing that and experience the man. You're a Pisces ffs, you have no business to think..use your feelings antennas.

I am not going to comment on that Gemini Moon of his because boy am I in love with Gem Mooners *swoon*.

Awww D.

Posted by Damnata
See Phoenix, Gem Moons screw up with my HTML.

Further proof your lot are diabolical.

It was an easy trap.

#FirstMoonProblems 😛

Oh but we love it 😄

We are only human. . . Sounds to me like hes taking charge. . . He has set a date so he will see you there. . . Do not fuss to much or you will come across seemingly needy. . . Either accept or decline the arrangements. . . Put your fone somewhere do not make yourself available to him at his demands. . . If he txts and you are free then reply. . . If he txts and you are busy, then you are busy. . . Other than that allow him to be the man and take the reins. . . Thats without losing your own independence. . . Yup its a skill. . . :-)