Denial Stage

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taurusgoddess
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Ugh, I have no choice, me gotsta pretend my hunnybunny isn't leaving.

OK, imagine a week ago u heard your babe is moving across the country, begging u to follow, and I AM A EMOTIONAL BASKETCASE!!!

I am on verge of tears for love & confusion & stress, and all I want is our last days together to be amazing. Yet I would be completely fake if I were smiling all of the time.

I read a nice quote on the aqua board, calmed me down, kinda put a smile on my face...

"The ride with you was worth the fall"

I'll be happy I took that ride, wherever it will take me. 🙂
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Taurusgoddess,

I not in the same situation as you but in a different kind of situation regarding a guy. I was really down because I have no idea what is going to happen between him and I. When I thought I lost him I became really sad. When I heard the song by Whitney Houston "Didn't we almost have it all" the line that stuck out for me was "The ride with you was worth the fall" I knew all the stuff I had gone through was a learning process. That line, strangely enough, spoke volumes to me.

I do hope in whatever happens between you and your guy things will work out. Just go with you gut and intuition. I'm now going with my intuition regarding the guy in my case. If it's right I have no idea but it's where I am now at this stage of my life. All we can do in this life is take one day at a time and look to the future. Best of luck.
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Mystical
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Hey MM,

Well, things are going slowly but I have moved it up a little and took him by surprise which of course was my intention. I felt it was time to answer him at the ending of May to how he felt about me months ago. I will send you one or two PM's as I should explain a little background. Then I heard from him again much which I was shocked as I thought I had scared him away.