Hi, I'm a virgo gal in need of some advice. For a few months I've been dating a scorpio man, we had a wonderful time, laughed talked etc. He opened up to me so much. However, I was always hesitant, I didn't want to meet right a way, but he always kept on. When we finally met, sparks flew. It was magic, we laughed as if we knew each other for years. After sometime, we started sleeping together. It was amazing, he was everything I could've imagined. After a while he got a little distant, that was OK he is going through some personal stuff, which he has confined into me. Our paths and time in life grew difficult for us to have a relationship, so we both agreed to fwb. At first I was OK, we told each other not to fall in love, but I did. Last week we had plans to go out, and be together. But he called it off, and I was fine. He had an explanation, and we talked for a while he confined in me about his ex, and his situation with his kids. How she was, etc. He mumbled something that sounded like he loved me. So, we made plans for us to go out the next night. We'll, that came and he never texted me all day. Around 7pm I finally texted, no go? He said sorry, he was helping his son. Ok, fine I was cool with that, but I got mad because he never told me. He said it was last minute, I said fine, still could've told me. So, the next day I told him this wasn't going to work. I'm not fwb material, and I can't do this. He was like, OK if you want ill stop texting you, best of luck. A few days latter, I broke down in tears because I felt as if I lost him. I fell deeply in love and texted him that. I said I have never felt this way before, and I have never loved anyone as much as I did him and always will. After that, I heard nothing. Did I blow it big-time? It's been almost a week since we broke up, and he has made no effort to contact me. Is it over
As a scorpio, it's hard for us to ghost people so expect a response. It's eating him up inside having to ignore you but he probably thinks this is good for you both. Like I said, he'll come around and contact you.
As for you, grow. That's the best advice I can give. Grow in any area of your choosing, but take some time to grow.
& you sending that "I love you" text was a great idea! Don't think you blew it. Scorpios need reassurance in love. From the looks of it, your boy is going through something difficult and he wants to protect you by keeping you out of it. He probably has some dark emotions he doesn't want you to see.
You Gucci lil mama, stay positive!
Thank you all for the advice. When I broke it off with him, he said he wouldn't contact me and delete my number if that's what I wanted. I said it maybe best, because I'm going to hurt him. I wasn't ready to jump into anything serious, but it seemed like it was going to be. That was before the love confess. Since then I hadn't heard anything, I'm not the type that will text him endlessly either, I don't want to be a stalker, lol. I just wish he would contact me and say it is over, instead of leaving me in the dark. He's not a bad guy at all, I think our lives are just to complicated for us to be together right now. I feel that in my gut. I almost texted him last night and said I missed him, but I didn't want to seem desperate. Are these good signs he is ignoring me, or should I just forget it all?
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Jun 04, 2016Comments: 1035 · Posts: 5643 · Topics: 48
Drag him by his dick into your lair of love😡
Thanks all for the help. I appreciate it very much. I texted a merry Christmas to him but no response silly me. Now that I'm thinking clearly and with all the responses I got, no this is not the type of person I want to settle for. I'm all over the place because I was upset and confused. I'm still going through my 7 stages of grief of the break up, but I'll be fine. I don't know why I went for an fwb relationship, at the time it seemed right. But, that's not how I am wired. Once I sleep with a man that is how I show love, because I'm not good with words to express my love. I need to cut that out and get to know the man first. Thank you all again, and happy holidays.
How long will I know if it is over if he keeps ignoring me? I want to text him in a few days, that I miss him so much.