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Posted by tiki33
Hopefully you haven't had sex with him (sorry for implying that you did). Cut your losses if he's not responding to you in a positive consistent way then there is no reason to continue.


this kind of comment pisses me off....no offence tiki cos you're just saying what is a popular theory...that women who give it up too soon are gonna get disrespected as a result....but i beg to differ.
IF a woman uses sex as some kind of tool to seal a relationship deal then yeah, it's gonna backfire but if a woman finds a man attractive and wants him to fuck her for the same selfish reasons HE wants to fuck her...then what's the problem?
it's just that this 'theory' implies that women can't enjoy sex on a purely carnal level. am i really in the minority of women who can?
it's varied for me personally but i don't have a 'rule' as to when i'll sleep with someone, i let my body tell me...I decide. i can honestly say i've never been disrespected for it either.
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D-E-R-A-I-L!!!
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You know I've wondered about the same thing. Why is it that we still have medieval perception of sex when it comes to females? I mean I enjoy sex just as much as men do (when it's good!), if I want, I'll go for it. And I don't think I'm in any shape or form easy or cheap for it. I dislike games and dragging the guy through months of misery while I want it as much as he does sounds very much like a game to me and to what end? Just in case on the off chance that he thinks I'm cheap if I don't play it? *eyeroll*
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Posted by seraph
Is this about that stupid crab again?


no it's not about 'that stupid crab' seraph. it's a genuine topic i want to discuss. i made him wait for WEEEEEEEEEKS lol!! i don't think it would've made any difference to him had i not though.
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Posted by allielee
You know I've wondered about the same thing. Why is it that we still have medieval perception of sex when it comes to females? I mean I enjoy sex just as much as men do (when it's good!), if I want, I'll go for it. And I don't think I'm in any shape or form easy or cheap for it. I dislike games and dragging the guy through months of misery while I want it as much as he does sounds very much like a game to me and to what end? Just in case on the off chance that he thinks I'm cheap if I don't play it? *eyeroll*


it strikes me that women want equality on all levels but it's mostly women who go on and on about how if you give up the goods too soon, a man's gonna think you're a slapper. if you present yourself as a slapper you'll give that impression anyway. i do recognise that i have a very masculine view of sex but i don't see anything wrong with a woman initiating sex with a new man whenever she wants to without fear of judgement. much depends on how you hold yourself i guess and i think it's got alot to do with having confidence too.
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and furthermore....just cos you've had sex with someone does NOT mean that the chase is over. it's just begun!!! having sex with someone early on doesn't in some way diminish you unless you allow it to. for example if you start an onslaught of texts the following day like you've snared him somehow...or worse still ask him WHAT HE'S THINKING when you're still basaking in the afterglow. just cos he's fucked you doesn't mean he's conquered the beast lol Tongue
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Posted by tiki33
Hopefully you haven't had sex with him (sorry for implying that you did). Cut your losses if he's not responding to you in a positive consistent way then there is no reason to continue.


this kind of comment pisses me off....no offence tiki cos you're just saying what is a popular theory...that women who give it up too soon are gonna get disrespected as a result....but i beg to differ.
IF a woman uses sex as some kind of tool to seal a relationship deal then yeah, it's gonna backfire but if a woman finds a man attractive and wants him to fuck her for the same selfish reasons HE wants to fuck her...then what's the problem?
it's just that this 'theory' implies that women can't enjoy sex on a purely carnal level. am i really in the minority of women who can?
it's varied for me personally but i don't have a 'rule' as to when i'll sleep with someone, i let my body tell me...I decide. i can honestly say i've never been disrespected for it either.
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it would work if you weren't expecting a relationship out of it. what you do is drop all the boundaries all the lines with a stranger so everything comes out in a flood, the good and bad because of the quick intimacy in your relationship. So characteristics come out more unexpectedly such as threats, can't get your windows cleaned, sex
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Posted by tiziani
I think it would be unwise to convince yourself there is an art to it either way. It seems to me like purely luck of the draw from relationship to relationship in terms of perception.
And, personally, I don't believe in unemotional detached sex on either side of the gender fence. But what would I know? I only know what it's like to walk in my own boots.


i respect your view completely....it's just different to mine smile
most long term relationships can lapse into unemotional detached sex if you aren't careful LOL!
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Not sure how I ended up in the Scorpio forum; but I will say that I agree with what you're saying here. The reality (to me) is a man is going to leave or commit to you if he wants to and when you have sex with him will do little to sway that. I approach like this: I'm having sex because I want to have sex (you didn't Jedi mind trick me into it) so if you never call again then I'll take the emotional hit and keep it moving.
But I find a lot of views on DXP (not necessarily Tikis) to be a bit black & white.
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Posted by tiki33
Hopefully you haven't had sex with him (sorry for implying that you did). Cut your losses if he's not responding to you in a positive consistent way then there is no reason to continue.


this kind of comment pisses me off....no offence tiki cos you're just saying what is a popular theory...that women who give it up too soon are gonna get disrespected as a result....but i beg to differ.
IF a woman uses sex as some kind of tool to seal a relationship deal then yeah, it's gonna backfire but if a woman finds a man attractive and wants him to fuck her for the same selfish reasons HE wants to fuck her...then what's the problem?
it's just that this 'theory' implies that women can't enjoy sex on a purely carnal level. am i really in the minority of women who can?
it's varied for me personally but i don't have a 'rule' as to when i'll sleep with someone, i let my body tell me...I decide. i can honestly say i've never been disrespected for it either.


it would work if you weren't expecting a relationship out of it. what you do is drop all the boundaries all the lines with a stranger so everything comes out in a flood, the good and bad because of the quick intimacy in your relationship. So characteristics come out more unexpectedly such as threats, can't get your windows cleaned, sex
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LOL!!! you're funny smile but i did say i made the crab wait for ages cos i was sussing him out. the bad characteristics that have come out unexpectedly are down to his personality.
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I like this quote, this will make a lot of ladies mad
"A guy is like a key, and a girl is like a lock. A key that opens many locks is a master key, yet a lock that is opened by many keys is a shitty lock."
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Posted by neuroticvirgo
Not sure how I ended up in the Scorpio forum; but I will say that I agree with what you're saying here. The reality (to me) is a man is going to leave or commit to you if he wants to and when you have sex with him will do little to sway that. I approach like this: I'm having sex because I want to have sex (you didn't Jedi mind trick me into it) so if you never call again then I'll take the emotional hit and keep it moving.
But I find a lot of views on DXP (not necessarily Tikis) to be a bit black & white.


my virgo ascendent drew you here smile
i guess the key thing is that whether they think you're a slapper or not is of no relevance if you had sex with them cos YOU wanted to. some of the best sex i've ever had has been one night only...no pining...no texting/emailing/facebooking...nada. i got what i wanted. if you want more? well that depends on if i do! if you don't, thanks for the memory smile
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Posted by HouseCleaning
I like this quote, this will make a lot of ladies mad
"A guy is like a key, and a girl is like a lock. A key that opens many locks is a master key, yet a lock that is opened by many keys is a shitty lock."


LMAO...that's a good one!!!
it is possible to be discreet though you know. you can behave like an outrageous strumpet and 'people' can be none the wiser. i know i have. it's all going in my sleazy memoirs, lol.
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i do actually know a 'shitty lock' in my neighbourhood. she has apparently fucked every guy on the costa although she obviously hasn't lol. she LOOKS like she has though. she has one guy stringing along who lives in spain and she's told him to 'make himself scarce' for a couple of weeks while a dude who PAYS HER RENT AND ELECTRICITY comes over from the uk to stay with her for a couple of weeks. the 'scarce' bloke thinks there's nothing going on with this other man...who he knows and as soon as he goes back to the uk he will resume his place as this woman's keeper. it's pathetic but he's in his 60's and she's in her 40's and he doesn't give a crap that she looks like a skank and is KNOWN as a skank. he's just grateful to get laid at all.
that's not about her sexual availability though....she's just a disgrace to womankind.
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Posted by ellessque
so, a woman who is comfortable with her body and confident in her decisions is "a promiscuous woman?"
I always thought a promiscuous woman is someone who has one partner after another after another after another and so on.
This is NOT what the nature of the discussion is.
I've had four longterm relationships in my lifetime....longterm that is more than a few years. I didn't "wait" to sleep with any one of them. I let nature take its course and played zero games.
When I started dating a few years ago...for the first time after my divorce....I listened to this fucked up advice and "waited" once to see what they hype was all about. That was a total joke....it made no difference one way or another and we ended up being completely incompatible.
I certainly wouldn't put myself in any "promiscuous woman" category.



well i've slept with alot of partners and i was only with one in a long term relationship/marriage during which time i admit i cheated but i'm not promiscuous even though there are loads of people who would call me that. to me promiscuity is having sex with numerous partners indiscriminantly whereas i've just been alive a looooong time LOL!!
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i could never have sex with an ex.
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if we're counting things with fingers.....i need more hands lol!!
i am shiva. good god......i am probably more than shiva!
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Posted by tiziani
Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
i could never have sex with an ex.


LOL then you've just completely contradicted yourself
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how so? fact is, i've only GOT one ex and i haven't slept with him since we split. so how did i contradict myself eh? EH?? smile
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Posted by QUlETstorm
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Posted by tiki33
Hopefully you haven't had sex with him (sorry for implying that you did). Cut your losses if he's not responding to you in a positive consistent way then there is no reason to continue.


this kind of comment pisses me off....no offence tiki cos you're just saying what is a popular theory...that women who give it up too soon are gonna get disrespected as a result....


Is that what she was implying or is that just your perception of what she was implying?
The way I read it, I took it as "hopefully you haven't had sex with him" because it would only deepen the ties & feelings for him.
I admit I did not read the other thread, but from that sentence alone ^ that's how I took it.
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yeah well that's why i made another thread cos it's something that's said quite alot on here. even in the context you took it.....why does it have to deepen ties and feelings if you've had sex with someone...that's the point i'm debating really.
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*high fives your venus in libra*
mine is UNASPECTED as well lol.....makes me a total fuck up in the commitment department.
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Posted by QUlETstorm
In women it's just common knowledge that IT DOES.
After posting, I did go and look at the original thread and the chick said in her original post that she's falling in love with the guy. I'd say I agree.. hopefully she didn't fuck him because for MOST women, with sex comes an emotional bonding of some sort.


It can work on either side, this guy R1g0rM0rT1s is with called her a bunch of times and made the threat to look over her shoulder for the rest of her life because of something about not returning back from Engelbertland.
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hmmm ppl with libra in venus' don't commit to anyone?? Yikes.. My Scorp has that placement.
Both his Venus and Mars are in Libra Sad
While my Mars and Saturn & Pluto are in Libra..
Kudos Tiziani..I've reached my 2 year mark "without" this year.
I feel the sameway, connecting to someone sexually isn't just "physical" its "Spiritual" as well.
I take my lock seriously.
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Posted by tiziani
One ex? Is he buried in the backyard or front?
And yeah I don't believe in "waiting". Not that it is wrong or right. But some people just have that chemistry where you hit it off first night, some are slow burners. Some will never get off the ground no matter how many mind games and mirrors get thrown in the mix.


he's alive and well unfortunately and still a miserable shitface lol!!
the main reason i purposefully waited with the crab was cos i was kinda hung up on someone else and didn't think it fair on the the crab cos it was obvious he was really into me from the start. it was hard tbh but despite my colourful sexual history, i don't want a half-hearted commitment any more...it's not enough.
having said that, i still don't feel committed to the crab but i'm just too wishy washy to end it yet.
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I think both points of view represented I this thread is valid... And yes women should not feel bad in the least bit about who, when, and how they have sex... long as it isn't related to wanting to be LIKE a man but more for what you desire logically, emotionally, w/e.... Will it mean you won't start developing emotionally attachment ehhh lie to yourself all you want I think it does.
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Posted by ellessque
It was a joke, taurus. smile
I've been married before, it is possible.

WHEW!!!*Wipes brow*.. Thank GOODNESS..lol
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Posted by neuroticvirgo
Not sure how I ended up in the Scorpio forum; but I will say that I agree with what you're saying here. The reality (to me) is a man is going to leave or commit to you if he wants to and when you have sex with him will do little to sway that. I approach like this: I'm having sex because I want to have sex (you didn't Jedi mind trick me into it) so if you never call again then I'll take the emotional hit and keep it moving.
But I find a lot of views on DXP (not necessarily Tikis) to be a bit black & white.


my virgo ascendent drew you here smile
i guess the key thing is that whether they think you're a slapper or not is of no relevance if you had sex with them cos YOU wanted to. some of the best sex i've ever had has been one night only...no pining...no texting/emailing/facebooking...nada. i got what i wanted. if you want more? well that depends on if i do! if you don't, thanks for the memory smile
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...And my scorpio ascendant is making me stay! lol The guy I'm with now while we talked over the phone 1st for a few weeks we had sex on our 1st date. We both new it was going to happen there was just no stopping us. I left that evening and told myself "Ok I'll never hear from him again." And I was ok with that; I WANTED to have sex with him! I resigned myself to never call him again. But he called me and talked to me all the way home, then called the next day to wish me a good morning and so on. If it weren't for his initiation he would've just been some dude I slept with. It may not be pretty but it's honest. So there is NO magic formula. I think its all about the energy you give off when you have sex with a guy too soon. If you seem needy and desperate for it to be more than sex then you probably appear unattractive to the guy...Hence he is a ghost...
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I think both points of view represented I this thread is valid... And yes women should not feel bad in the least bit about who, when, and how they have sex... long as it isn't related to wanting to be LIKE a man but more for what you desire logically, emotionally, w/e.... Will it mean you won't start developing emotionally attachment ehhh lie to yourself all you want I think it does.


i only start to develop feelings if there's a second time cos that's why i wanna go again.
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Oh and for the record I hadn't had sex in over a year when I met him. But as soon as I met him I KNEW I had to have him! Just because you don't make CERTAIN guys wait doesn't mean ALL guys get to ride the train! Some people are just exceptions to the rule. Delicious, kinky, dirty, awesome exceptions to the rule...mmmmmmmmmmmm
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i still think you can have 'feelings' for someone and remain emotionally detached. well i can anyway. i do it for self-preservation. it comes across as being quite closed and emotionally selfish though....all take and no give which really isn't my intention. i just don't know how to give i guess Sad
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Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I think both points of view represented I this thread is valid... And yes women should not feel bad in the least bit about who, when, and how they have sex... long as it isn't related to wanting to be LIKE a man but more for what you desire logically, emotionally, w/e.... Will it mean you won't start developing emotionally attachment ehhh lie to yourself all you want I think it does.


i only start to develop feelings if there's a second time cos that's why i wanna go again.
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I agree with this! First one's free; if I come back again then emotions are probably coming with me...lol
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i have mentioned this before but my aries friend butt fucked his wife on their first date LOL. she was on her period. i remember him telling us all at the pub the following day. still happily married 10 years on. extreme example perhaps but just goes to show!!
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Oh and for the record I hadn't had sex in over a year when I met him. But as soon as I met him I KNEW I had to have him! Just because you don't make CERTAIN guys wait doesn't mean ALL guys get to ride the train! Some people are just exceptions to the rule. Delicious, kinky, dirty, awesome exceptions to the rule...mmmmmmmmmmmm


Is this the guy where you're both in love with each other right now?
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That is correct! My super awesome bull who surprised me today by coming home early from a business trip and showing up at my door with treats looking all sorts of tasty! Delicious, kinky, dirty, magnetic, animalistic tastiness....mmmmmmmmm flashbacks!
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Posted by NotYourAverageAquarius
I think both points of view represented I this thread is valid... And yes women should not feel bad in the least bit about who, when, and how they have sex... long as it isn't related to wanting to be LIKE a man but more for what you desire logically, emotionally, w/e.... Will it mean you won't start developing emotionally attachment ehhh lie to yourself all you want I think it does.


i only start to develop feelings if there's a second time cos that's why i wanna go again.


I agree with this! First one's free; if I come back again then emotions are probably coming with me...lol
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lol...yeah and that's their signal to run for cover!!
after the first time with the crab my first words were....'you poor fucker'. he asked why and i told him that i was hard work. he mentions that all the time now. says i did warn him so he shouldn't be surprised that i AM hard work lol!
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Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
i have mentioned this before but my aries friend butt fucked his wife on their first date LOL. she was on her period. i remember him telling us all at the pub the following day. still happily married 10 years on. extreme example perhaps but just goes to show!!


Well if you butt fluck me on the 1st date... we're getting married! End of story
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Posted by neuroticvirgo
Oh and for the record I hadn't had sex in over a year when I met him. But as soon as I met him I KNEW I had to have him! Just because you don't make CERTAIN guys wait doesn't mean ALL guys get to ride the train! Some people are just exceptions to the rule. Delicious, kinky, dirty, awesome exceptions to the rule...mmmmmmmmmmmm


and we all take gambles. then when the gambles don't payout the way we want, we mope around about our losses
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Oh and for the record I hadn't had sex in over a year when I met him. But as soon as I met him I KNEW I had to have him! Just because you don't make CERTAIN guys wait doesn't mean ALL guys get to ride the train! Some people are just exceptions to the rule. Delicious, kinky, dirty, awesome exceptions to the rule...mmmmmmmmmmmm


and we all take gambles. then when the gambles don't payout the way we want, we mope around about our losses
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For me I tend to be more realistic. I know what it is if I sleep with someone too soon so I keep my emotions and my expectations out of it. I agree with ellesque (did I spell that right) I can place an emotional barrier around sex but it's the other stuff like spending time, passionate kisses, long conversations that make me attached. If you don't want me to get attached stop talking to and kissing me...
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i have mentioned this before but my aries friend butt fucked his wife on their first date LOL. she was on her period. i remember him telling us all at the pub the following day. still happily married 10 years on. extreme example perhaps but just goes to show!!


Well if you butt fluck me on the 1st date... we're getting married! End of story



I like you, neurtoicvirgo. But you had me at your screen name anyway.
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Trust me when I say that is the MOST accurate description of me ever used. I keep it honest! Thanks for the shout out; I like the love over here in scorpioville!
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My cancer placements are old fashioned. I wait to fuck. But it doesn't mean my body doesnt wanna fuck on the first date Tongue
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I suppose If you literally have had sex one night with someone and never do it again. You only met them that night and don't really talk a whole lot about anything..
That is really odd to do BUT I bet you will never ever forget it... I always think of sex as an act of intimacy but if you don't look at it that way MAYBE what you say is possible, especially if it's only once. When I made my previous statement; my mentality was based off of the possibility of more than once. I definitely agree that the attachment is to the intimacy.
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Yea. I guess it depends on why your doing it.
All the casual sex I have had has been for experience and I'm grateful for it. I would be embarrassed to not be the experienced woman I am today.

There is no guarantee if you sleep with a man on a first date he won't call you back. And there is no guarantee if you don't sleep with him for a month and than do he won't dump your ass.

It's all depends on the situation and the people in it. I say when things feel right go or don't go for them. But just make sure it's coming from an authentic place.

I guess thats my take.

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Posted by ellessque
fuck the chemical science bullshit that says we MUST get attached after orgasm, that's pretty much null and void if you add masturbation to the discussion.....why wouldn't I get attached to myself during downtime?


OMG thank you. Sexuality is so complicated no one can fully understand it. And that chemical shit is agenda pushed shit by NRLC and NAC anyway.
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Oh E and IR and Me all have air venus thats why haha jk
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So to summarize whats going on here, a group of ladies prefer casual sex or try to build a relationship on sex but the great opposition comes from living in a man's world or etiquette and some other stuff i didn't care about.
then the topic partially got on to whats going on with R1g0rM0rT1s and this crab which she didn't intend on but happened anyways. so from her point sex is like a cake, she indulges when she has it but on the crab's side its the opposite, sex is privileged which i was trying to spell out earlier and R1g0rM0rT1s didn't understand before. By having her spot of sex she removed all the boundaries, lines, all the gates are open letting the animals out. Then sticking around for a relationship she plunged herself into the unknown without a map to find her way around. So she has to thumb her way through the darkness bumping into the creatures of the night. It was also partially highlighted by quietstorm but it can work both ways.
Posted by QUlETstorm
In women it's just common knowledge that IT DOES.
After posting, I did go and look at the original thread and the chick said in her original post that she's falling in love with the guy. I'd say I agree.. hopefully she didn't fuck him because for MOST women, with sex comes an emotional bonding of some sort.


ellessque your aim was off, what i'm saying you can't white wash or blindly expect not to lose.
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I think scorpio's predatory + sexual nature allows some "masculine" views about sexual conquest under certain circumstances, despite that it is a "feminine" sign and well, us women are supposedly feminine.
And @ HC, scorpio is a dark realm, and I find that removing the boundaries and "letting the animals out" somewhat enticing. That way one can see if a relationship is worth all that energy (cuz scorps stereotypically put a LOT of energy in a real relationship). Might as well go ahead and see what one is dealing with before expending it. It is more efficient too, says my virgo mars Tongue
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air venus FTW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Tongue


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It is so individual, imo. Some guys just sexually attract me, and I just want to fuck them (but it usually stays a fantasy). Some, I want to fuck and see where it goes from there. Maybe another intellectually attracted me, and I want to explore him physically also (doesn't always mean I act on it). Then there is one that I feel might be 'the one.' So then I have to see if this one will be the type to use sex as the ultimate goal and move on, or not. I also want to go ahead and have sex and feel if there is a connection or not before I waste my time. But all that sounds so whorish, lol, but IRL, I am celibate the vast majority of the time
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Mm, while I might not personally sleep with someone on the first date, etc, for other reasons, I don't agree with these social rules. Such as 'it's immoral if you sleep with someone you just met', etc. But...why? It's my body. If I'm just doing it for pleasure, which is more related to biology, anyway, then what's the problem? Just because I live in this society, does not mean I have to abide by all it's views or invisible rules. I don't get why it gets others so riled up or creates a negative stigma around that person. Let them do what they want. You may view it as wrong, but that is an opinion, which means, it's only wrong to you and a few other people who feel strongly towards these invisible social rules. And it's stupid to hate or dislike people unless they directly affect your life. Let them live their own lives.
As for whether sex can be done without emotions....I mean, some emotions are going to be involved. Maybe fondness or closeness, but it's not like other things, like interacting with strangers can't give you that, too. I don't believe whatever bond you may form from sex is strong enough to unbreakable or that big of a deal. Basically, I may sleep with a guy, expecting nothing but sex, feel close to the person afterwards, and move on from him and the situation like I can move on from any other obstacles in my life with little turmoil. Other people get attached more easily or more strongly, but if you're that type of person, then yes, maybe you should reconsider giving it up to people you have no expectations for.
If you have sex early on in the relationship...then who really cares? You're already in the relationship, you know emotional feelings were there or were going to be given the opportunity to grow. If someone is using you for sex, then they're the bad person, not you. Unless you stay with them knowing they're using you, and are also using them back, in which case, you're both expecting and wanting the same thing, so once again..who cares?
Just my personal views, anyway. I hope I was close enough to the point of this topic. Merc retrograde has been really messing me up.
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Mm, while I might not personally sleep with someone on the first date, etc, for other reasons, I don't agree with these social rules. Such as 'it's immoral if you sleep with someone you just met', etc. But...why? It's my body. If I'm just doing it for pleasure, which is more related to biology, anyway, then what's the problem? Just because I live in this society, does not mean I have to abide by all it's views or invisible rules. I don't get why it gets others so riled up or creates a negative stigma around that person. Let them do what they want. You may view it as wrong, but that is an opinion, which means, it's only wrong to you and a few other people who feel strongly towards these invisible social rules. And it's stupid to hate or dislike people unless they directly affect your life. Let them live their own lives.
As for whether sex can be done without emotions....I mean, some emotions are going to be involved. Maybe fondness or closeness, but it's not like other things, like interacting with strangers can't give you that, too. I don't believe whatever bond you may form from sex is strong enough to unbreakable or that big of a deal. Basically, I may sleep with a guy, expecting nothing but sex, feel close to the person afterwards, and move on from him and the situation like I can move on from any other obstacles in my life with little turmoil. Other people get attached more easily or more strongly, but if you're that type of person, then yes, maybe you should reconsider giving it up to people you have no expectations for.
If you have sex early on in the relationship...then who really cares? You're already in the relationship, you know emotional feelings were there or were going to be given the opportunity to grow. If someone is using you for sex, then they're the bad person, not you. Unless you stay with them knowing they're using you, and are also using them back, in which case, you're both expecting and wanting the same thing, so once again..who cares?
Just my personal views, anyway. I hope I was close enough to the point of this topic. Merc retrograde has been really messing me up.


can this be applied to a sybian
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How bout you use your own judgment on that? ; ) heh
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Posted by AreTwoFour
I think scorpio's predatory + sexual nature allows some "masculine" views about sexual conquest under certain circumstances, despite that it is a "feminine" sign and well, us women are supposedly feminine.
And @ HC, scorpio is a dark realm, and I find that removing the boundaries and "letting the animals out" somewhat enticing. That way one can see if a relationship is worth all that energy (cuz scorps stereotypically put a LOT of energy in a real relationship). Might as well go ahead and see what one is dealing with before expending it. It is more efficient too, says my virgo mars Tongue


till the animals corner you
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