I am a new user in this forum and have enjoyed reading the scorpio message board. I am a scorpio 19 Nov and have a problem making friends or keeping them. When I mean friends I mean someone I can confide in and trust. I have casual friends mostly from work who I go out with there & there but nothing serious where we have deep conversations and I confide in them and give me advice. I am even always suspicious of the few casual acquintances I have in my life. The thought of some I call a friend putting my business out there in the streets and people looking at me like I am crazy or even laughing behing my back just doesnt sit right with me. So what I do is I will be open to make casual friendships e.g I alsmot joined this group of girls from my work, this other time 3 of us were out for drinks after work and one lady had to live early (mind you the two ladies were friends before I even came to the picture) so immediately after the one lady left, there other friends started talking about her (saying staff about her husband) and that didnt sit well with me so I started seeing her for the hypocrit that she is. Everyone says that this lady is kind whatever, whatever so that is there one thing that encouraged me to start a friendship with her but I ended up finding out the opposite. Long story shor, sometimes I wonder whether I am not the common denominator, I like being by myself but want to go out once in a while with other women and talk about anything under the sun. Have any advice for me? Thanks
Just go out and have fun. Expect to have a good time and expect to be around good people. Everything can't be deep and intense all the time nor should it be...keeping it light is good for the soul too. Those strong lasting friendships will come to you and you'll recognize those people when you meet them. Relationships are built over time. I have my handful as well, like IS, the ones I know I can trust with anything. They are lifelong friends but don't write off more casual friendships. These too have their place. Go enjoy some laughs!
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I am a new user in this forum and have enjoyed reading the scorpio message board. I am a scorpio 19 Nov and have a problem making friends or keeping them. When I mean friends I mean someone I can confide in and trust. I have casual friends mostly from work who I go out with there & there but nothing serious where we have deep conversations and I confide in them and give me advice. I am even always suspicious of the few casual acquintances I have in my life. The thought of some I call a friend putting my business out there in the streets and people looking at me like I am crazy or even laughing behing my back just doesnt sit right with me. So what I do is I will be open to make casual friendships e.g I alsmot joined this group of girls from my work, this other time 3 of us were out for drinks after work and one lady had to live early (mind you the two ladies were friends before I even came to the picture) so immediately after the one lady left, there other friends started talking about her (saying staff about her husband) and that didnt sit well with me so I started seeing her for the hypocrit that she is. Everyone says that this lady is kind whatever, whatever so that is there one thing that encouraged me to start a friendship with her but I ended up finding out the opposite.
Long story shor, sometimes I wonder whether I am not the common denominator, I like being by myself but want to go out once in a while with other women and talk about anything under the sun.
Have any advice for me?
Thanks