Do I do it?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by caprikronos on Friday, July 5, 2013 and has 7 replies.
So I am a Capricorn woman who has strong feelings for a Scorpio woman. The relationship has not gotten sexual (yet), as she recently said (while we were drunk) that we should "use her toys". I would absolutely love to go there with her, but she has a boyfriend and said she crushes on another girl friend that she is also sexually involved with. Sounds conceited; but I know I have certain skills and a level of spirituality that she craves and the others lack. She has noticed this and has complimented me about it on occasion, she's also spilled some pretty deep skeletons, and wanted me to spend the first night at her new place with her. We seem to read each others minds and have a lot in common. I'm getting mixed feelings though. On one hand it seems like she might want a deeper relationship with me, but on the other hand I'm worried I might just be used for sex. I want to take her up on her offer, but I know once I give in sexually there will be no going back. I won't be able to handle just being another friend with benefits. The relationship with her boyfriend is nearing it's end, and I want to make it known that I like her in a non-sexual way that won't scare her. Maybe if she knows how I really feel (because I keep them hidden deep) she'll loose interest in this other woman.
Cap Sun, Sag Moon, Scorpio Venus
Help.
The most telling sign I got that she may have real feelings for me was when she made her cover photo on Facebook a drawing of a curly haired woman (like me) with a ring around her and a caption that said "Queen of Saturn". To test her, I changed my cover photo to one that was scorpio themed. She proceeded to like it and 7 other cover photos of mine.
Posted by caprikronos
S and I want to make it known that I like her in a non-sexual way that won't scare her.


This could confuse some, so I will rephrase:
I want to make it known that I like her, but do it in a non-sexual way that won't scare her.
I havn't said I just want to be her friend. We've only been friends for about 4 months now but it feels like forever. When she suggested we should hook-up I coyly agreed and flashed her a cheaky grin. We have spent the night together since but she was stressed out from just moving and in pain so I didn't initiate because it didn't feel right that night. When she's finally settled in from moving, should I make a move?
film the toys part, put it on xhamster and i will tell you if you should do it
The other woman has boyfriend as well. I may be a capricorn but I am anything but patient. What I have that the others don't is a knowledge of herbal medicine, astrology, occult, and spirituality (things she is extremely fascinated by) that she has told me herself, she's never seen before. I've helped heal her health issues she has had during our friendship. I am different from the others, which makes me think I have a shot. I want an answer from a scorpio:
Should I confess my feelings to her since she has made it apparent that she wants me sexually at least?
Posted by caprikronos
So I am a Capricorn woman who has strong feelings for a Scorpio woman. The relationship has not gotten sexual (yet), as she recently said (while we were drunk) that we should "use her toys". I would absolutely love to go there with her, but she has a boyfriend and said she crushes on another girl friend that she is also sexually involved with. Sounds conceited; but I know I have certain skills and a level of spirituality that she craves and the others lack. She has noticed this and has complimented me about it on occasion, she's also spilled some pretty deep skeletons, and wanted me to spend the first night at her new place with her. We seem to read each others minds and have a lot in common. I'm getting mixed feelings though. On one hand it seems like she might want a deeper relationship with me, but on the other hand I'm worried I might just be used for sex. I want to take her up on her offer, but I know once I give in sexually there will be no going back. I won't be able to handle just being another friend with benefits. The relationship with her boyfriend is nearing it's end, and I want to make it known that I like her in a non-sexual way that won't scare her. Maybe if she knows how I really feel (because I keep them hidden deep) she'll loose interest in this other woman.
Cap Sun, Sag Moon, Scorpio Venus
Help.


No, she's just looking to get laid

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