Do Scorp men on average like BBWs?

I don't mean slightly overweight, I am talking Gabourey Sidibe territory. I had a few dates with a hot Scorp, he's keeping in touch, doing the right things. Panties have stayed on and will until things are clearer but my friends have pretty much said I'm being set up as the "fat girl he knows he can fuck whenever" even though it hasn't gone there yet. Is it possible they are right? One of my friends who took an online astro course said that out of all the signs in the zodiac, Scorpio is the most susceptible to conventional beauty and standards of health, but surely a fuller gal with a killer personality and great smile could get in there, too, yes? I like him, but I don't want to be made a fool of. I'm right on the Aries/Taurus cusp - april 20. Thanks for any advice.

Maybe he just LIKES big girls? Why is that so hard to believe? Astrology doesn't give us much insight on what a certain person would find more physically attractive. That's personal preference and not written in the stars! Maybe his first crush was a bigger girl. Maybe his first sexual experience was with one. Maybe the "big women" in his family make him feel loved and safe. Maybe he's sick of being burned by classically fit and beautiful bitches who care more about themselves than other people? Maybe he's attracted to more than the number that pops up on your bathroom scale?!

Besides, humans have wide and varied ideas about what "beauty" is... take it slow, get to know him... you'll soon know if he's.. what did you say?... setting you up as the "fat girl he knows he can fuck whenever" - which personally sounds absolutely ludicrous to me. Besides, Scorpios (any Water, really) tend to see the INSIDE much, much more clearly than a lot of other people do. The beauty of a SOUL will move a Water sign. I think your FRIENDS have different ideas about what "beauty" is... obviously they feel thin is in (probably struggle with their own weights and self-images! Fuckin' modern media! I hate it!), and they are afraid you'll get hurt.. THEY wouldn't want to be with a "fattie" so they're projecting it outward and can't believe a man would genuinely be interested in you as anything more than a fuck. Bitches be crazy LOL

Posted by satsuma
my friends have pretty much said I'm being set up as the "fat girl he knows he can fuck whenever" even though it hasn't gone there yet.

LOL!!!!!

your friends are little pieces of cat shyt..so what if he just wants to have sex with you whenever he wants, they should be happy that somebody even wants to have sex with you in the 1st place..you need to dump your friends and give dude some head as soon as possible..you can't be a fat girl with morals..it just doesn't work like that

I'd say it's a matter of personal taste not common to any one sign
- no identifiable, measurable, scientifically provable trend.

Some probably do, some definitely do not, and exceptions to rules exist.

Posted by LovelyScorp
"my friends have pretty much said I'm being set up as the "fat girl he knows he can fuck whenever" even though it hasn't gone there yet."

sounds as if your "friends" could be a bit jealous?

SECOND THAT, LovelyScorp. And it may not be jealousy over "him" but over "your happiness".

These friends, are they...
- never married and lonely?
- divorced and jaded?
- married and lonely? haha

I am convinced that many women "friends" actually hate each other secretly
...especially when one of them is happy with someone/something other than their friend.

Goes back millions of years to when the females all lived together in a pod with the
young and elderly and were the only source of social support for each other
since the males were off hunting, peeing on bushes, etc and they only came in with
food or when the dominant female was ovulating (hence forcing the others into ovulation).

Satsuma.. be you. Be beautiful, be proud. Keep your chin up in the air and that fine booty wiggling. Don't let anyone tell you different. EVER. Magazines can stuff it, media can stuff it. I don't care what flipping size you are, if you're proud of yourself and sexy as a cat on a hot tin roof then it transfers. Any man with an ounce of testosterone pumping through his body responds to that. I have seen some flat out beautiful bigger women. And why are they beautiful? Because they're strong and lush and they know it right down to the ground.
Your 'friends' can cram it too. They should have your back lady, whether you're a size 0, 12, 14 or 20. And if that Scorpio or any man can't see it, tell his ass to STEP.

Do you mean FW?

I appreciate everybody's comments. I was rushing a little bit when I posted. I don't think my friends mean to seriously be bitches forreal. All of them are either married or engaged. But I have always been the "cool chick" you know? Like Queen latifah's character in her newest movie with Common. The girl all the dudes love to kick it with but when it comes to anything more, it fizzles out, and yes, I have been taken advantage of by men. I lost my v-card to a Cancer who swore up and down he loved me then never spoke to me again after he hit and later told people "I hope I aint get that fat bitch pregnant." So I do have my guard up around men. I try to lose weight but it is slow going.

This Scorpio treats me different. Like, we are cool as hell with each other, but I feel he is attracted also. He is a no-bullshit type dude which I like. But just thoughts get in my head and one thing he did tell me from the door that for him, confidence was a bigger turn on than anything physical including size, shape, color, etc. So already I sorta feel like my confidence is takin a knock. Also, he has dated a model. True enough he said she dumped him on his bday then brought the dude she'd been fucking behind his back to the bar he was hanging with to drown his sorrows. So one of my friends said maybe he wants a less pretty girl to be with cause they'll be more faithful? I talked to two Scorpio dudes I know, one a cousin of mine, another a cool work friend. My cousin said he likes girls who carry themselves like they are the shit. He said one of his best girlfriends was about 300, but she always kept herself tight and shit on anybody who tried to look down on her. My Scorpio friend said that attraction is different for everyone, but that I should be concerned that dude hasn't tried anything yet. He said that when he is feeling a girl, he is respectful but still makes it known he desires her sexually and if this guy hasn't done that in three dates, it could be a friendship thing.

He's away for work the next week so I haven't talked to him since our last date, and I guess I'm really startin to like him and don't want to get my hopes up if it's gonna be bullshit. I'm Taurus with a lot of fire placements, but I still am pretty sensitive.

Anyway, I really appreciate everybody's advice and thoughts. I gotta tighten up my confidence game as much as my body. One isn't gonna be easier than the other.

Don't talk about volume. :facepalm:

LOL, yall got jokes. It's cool, I think laughter is the best medicine. Damen is also entitled to his opinion, as his dick is going to never be anywhere near me, it doesn't really matter to me personally. I understand some people have thoughts about physical appearance, and as my mama said, if you ain't picturing his dingaling inside you, don't worry about it. 🙂

So, he called me and asked me out on date #4 to a baseball game with him, his roommate, and his roommate's girlfriend. Good news is, that seems like double-date territory to me. Bad news is, he says that his roommate will love me cause I drink beer and know sports, so .... yeah.

Sir Mix a Lot is my jam!

Periperi, it's all good. I love parodies, and that made me CTFU!

I'm a thick chick, but i am hell a confident! My scorpio loves my confidence,.. of course so did my ex aries. I am appauled at the fact you think thick women are easy. I didnt lose my virginity till marriage. I am farrrr from easy. Thats BS!

That's what's up, aPiscesPrincess! I'm Aries moon and Aries mercury. It makes me weird as shit.

Posted by satsuma
I don't mean slightly overweight, I am talking Gabourey Sidibe territory. I had a few dates with a hot Scorp, he's keeping in touch, doing the right things. Panties have stayed on and will until things are clearer but my friends have pretty much said I'm being set up as the "fat girl he knows he can fuck whenever" even though it hasn't gone there yet. Is it possible they are right? One of my friends who took an online astro course said that out of all the signs in the zodiac, Scorpio is the most susceptible to conventional beauty and standards of health, but surely a fuller gal with a killer personality and great smile could get in there, too, yes? I like him, but I don't want to be made a fool of. I'm right on the Aries/Taurus cusp - april 20. Thanks for any advice.

I think I agree with the consenses that size preference is not a sign thing but just a personal preference thing. I hope it all works out for you. I will note one thing I remember reading along the lines of these post that you have to be careful that Scorpios intentions may just be friendly flirting and nothing more. It has nothing to do with the size of a girl but they are very flirtatious. *fingers crossed for you darling* Hope his intentions meet yours.

As for the immature banter pay no attention to it darling .....keep going with your confident ol' self. 😉

PD

Posted by satsuma
LOL, yall got jokes. It's cool, I think laughter is the best medicine. Damen is also entitled to his opinion, as his dick is going to never be anywhere near me, it doesn't really matter to me personally. I understand some people have thoughts about physical appearance, and as my mama said, if you ain't picturing his dingaling inside you, don't worry about it. 🙂

So, he called me and asked me out on date #4 to a baseball game with him, his roommate, and his roommate's girlfriend. Good news is, that seems like double-date territory to me. Bad news is, he says that his roommate will love me cause I drink beer and know sports, so .... yeah.

Sir Mix a Lot is my jam!

i love your attitude!

fat girls always have the jolliest personalities, kinda like Kris Kringle..i bet you smell like a old sleigh seat and Reindeer meat too!

oh btw lol at all the positive feedback on my comment..i would've responded to all of you dingle berries but that would've been selfish of me to take over someone elses thread

Depends on the horoscope - sometimes it says Aries, sometimes Taurus, lol! See? Fucked up!

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Posted by DAMEN VI
oh btw lol at all the positive feedback on my comment..i would've responded to all of you dingle berries but that would've been selfish of me to take over someone elses thread

How nice of you....Hey look I'm a pimp wanna be just like you. Check out my shoes....I'm so gangsta...You be playing around too much with your squirt guns foo....

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you corny and gay thou..so you can forget about being a gangster..you'd probably enjoy getting gangbanged thou, since you like showing off your panties so much

Posted by aPiscesPrincess

Posted by DAMEN VI

Posted by satsuma
LOL, yall got jokes. It's cool, I think laughter is the best medicine. Damen is also entitled to his opinion, as his dick is going to never be anywhere near me, it doesn't really matter to me personally. I understand some people have thoughts about physical appearance, and as my mama said, if you ain't picturing his dingaling inside you, don't worry about it. 🙂

So, he called me and asked me out on date #4 to a baseball game with him, his roommate, and his roommate's girlfriend. Good news is, that seems like double-date territory to me. Bad news is, he says that his roommate will love me cause I drink beer and know sports, so .... yeah.

Sir Mix a Lot is my jam!

i love your attitude!

fat girls always have the jolliest personalities, kinda like Kris Kringle..i bet you smell like a old sleigh seat and Reindeer meat too!

You can't really be Pisces, can you?? Where's your feelings?

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oh yes he can there r some sadistic fishes up in here..

satsuma girlie I have a scrp friend who said he liked to feel meat between his fingers when he grabbed some ass lol & he was fine too!

git some ;P & have fun !

This Scorpio prefers voluptuous, full figured women - what some call 'thick.' But it doesn't mean I wouldn't find a slim petite or athletic woman attractive.

I don't like morbidly obese women, and am definitely not one of those with the BBW-fetish. Some men get off on force-feeding insecure BBWs to make them gain weight. That's disgusting and rather sad..

beetle! u have a beautiful smile! aawwww

uuummm I was not ref to the smile in pic above last post!

eeeeek!

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about as straight as a circle 🙂 & a sucka for a great smile!

I'm great how bout u handsome?