Do Scorpios ever miss their Ex and want them back?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by wagamama on Thursday, March 29, 2012 and has 43 replies.
And would they try to get them back if they had the chance?
nope. never.
(my 1st post lol)it depends. If I was at fault then yes I would. If she did me wrong where I couldnt trust her anymore,no way in the world
i think it depends on the circumstance..
my scorp would take me back.. I'm quite sure of it
but we hardly had a chance to begin in the first place, so i believe thats why.
a scorp thats been through it all, and then it ended..i imagine wouldn't go back.
Not unless the person either was 'the one' or didn't do anything unforgivable. They would need a strong emotion and reason to want to get them back.
Loulore, you guys broke up? I remember your story....he came back for you. What happened?
Posted by BigGirlPanties
Loulore, you guys broke up? I remember your story....he came back for you. What happened?


Ohh no no. The current scorp and I are still at it smile smile
This is an ex from a couple years ago.
Just adding my two cents regarding the Q.. He is not someone I would ever be interested in again, myself. But I believe he still has long standing feelings for me.
He liked me for a couple years.. We finally got together, were together for 2 months.. He went crazy and broke up with me one drunken night after (wrongly) accusing me of cheating on him.i be,ieve he wanted me to come running back. I took the break up more seriously than he intended and ever looked back.
I actually recently saw him after 2 years of only communicating once and a while on FB. He was again drunk, in downtown. He texted me after explaining how it really bothered him to ser me.
Iunno...
Sorry for the typos..
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I agree that it depends. I know with my scorpio, when he feels that someone has wronged him, he'll hold on to it for a long time. Even simple things will make him feel this way. We actually broke up once and he was hesitant to come back since he did not want to get hurt again (what 'hurt' him was very trivial in my books, but nonetheless, he took it to heart.) I believe, though, if a scorpio has strong feelings for you, he or she could perhaps get past those things and come back after some time to think about it.
imo, it doesnt matter how many wrongs you commit or do something unforgivable...people want what they want.
since were talkin scorpio, if u hit that special place in his pants and heart..please, he'll be back. if u figure out how to straddle the fence of loving him and fuckin with his mind, your golden. if he cant find that intensity any place else, your winning.
sometimes they like feeling the hurt, kinda lets them know theyre in love. imo, sex is made better when both people are hurting and only the other persons' embrace can heal the other.
disclaimer..not all scorpios are created equal
It depends on the person that I had a relationship with. If it was good, maybe I will miss them. If it was bad, then no. By my past relationships, no. I don't miss my exes and will never take them back. lol
since were talkin scorpio, if u hit that special place in his pants and heart..please, he'll be back. if u figure out how to straddle the fence of loving him and fuckin with his mind, your golden. if he cant find that intensity any place else, your winning.
Damn, your good! smile
But she calls me every week and sends pics like we usually do but she had this weird response when i asked her about getting back. I feel she is leading me on to ask her back, but when i did she gave a yes and no reply... i don't want to be confused but again i don't want her getting the weak side of me and playing with it...
Posted by ellessque
no, i don't miss any of my exes. they are exes for a reason.


i agree with this. it takes me a while to decide someone's an ex and so i won't go back on that once decided. it took 6 years from finding out my ex husband cheated to me actually telling him to go. you think you can get over things like that, especially if you have kids together, but you can't. once trust is gone, it's gone forever and i don't believe you can earn it back in a relationship, not in the real world.

i would never take my ex back. whats donre is done. if there life isnt all that great then thats there problem, becaue my life has been great since he left.
I miss my Scorpio ex and she didn't even treat me well...just being honest..
I miss my Scorpio ex and she didn't even treat me well...just being honest..
Posted by sexifulscorpio
i would never go back to an ex... maybe sex if it was good and only if i was horny, but whats done is done... it took alot to get to that ex spot... we ususally endure and put up with a lot... and ive only had sex with one guy after our break up, just because it was sooooo good.... but only twice, then i kicked him to the final curb....
so i concur with the female scorpios on this thread, seems like we think alike... lol... men are a completely different ballfield, scorp men will do an ex, but thats it... dont be deceived ladies... he dont want u back, just sex,...


lol....most men will 'do' anything if it's on offer but i think if there were feelings involved and it ended badly for the guy, he wouldn't pursue a purely sexual thing with the ex cos it wouldn't be enough for him. guys have feelings too...yep, it's true Winking
she keeps sending naked pics of her. i dont want to talk about it with her yet, and i dont want to jump the gun and assume... its now confusing.
Can never tell want you scorp want
My scorpio ex still contacts me every week or so just to make sure I am alive...and to remind me that she still gets some of my mail, my dog has visited the vet, her job consumes all of her time, her family is well, etc. She never really talks about her new man unless I ask--which I do, because I want to know that even though I don't want her back, she will never be completely over me and it's effecting her new relationship >=)
I think the real reason she calls though, is to make sure that I haven't fallen in love again :p
Would she want me back? I don't know, maybe. We didn't break up on bad terms, and there wasn't any type of betrayal. I think that Scorpio is a lot like Taurus in that once you're in my heart, you will be there forever, whether I want to spend forever with you or not.
I miss my exes sometimes... but for me, if the sexual feeling for them is gone, I can't get them back - but I've never had a really negative break up (even with dozens of lovers and two long term relationship - 5 years and 12 years - before my marriage). I tend to part on either good or neutral terms and I still have a fondness for some.
Posted by Shagattarius
since were talkin scorpio, if u hit that special place in his pants and heart..please, he'll be back. if u figure out how to straddle the fence of loving him and fuckin with his mind, your golden. if he cant find that intensity any place else, your winning.
Damn, your good! smile


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Posted by nov13thscorp
(my 1st post lol)it depends. If I was at fault then yes I would. If she did me wrong where I couldnt trust her anymore,no way in the world


^^^ this right here smile
scorpios dont match their own high standards.
its a disgrace.
"If I was at fault"
who decides that? you?
scorpios only want you back to plot the final revenge on you.
ahh you goddamn vampires.
I think its sad they don't know how awesome it feels to fight for a true love.
They just give up on it.
Fuck it.
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Posted by Shagattarius
since were talkin scorpio, if u hit that special place in his pants and heart..please, he'll be back. if u figure out how to straddle the fence of loving him and fuckin with his mind, your golden. if he cant find that intensity any place else, your winning.
Damn, your good! smile


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Even if I still am fond of my ex, not going back to them come hell or high water. They are out of my life because I don't want them there.
The whole not leaving going back thing couldn't be more bullshit, Idk who created that. But I've had them come back friends, ex's, or w/e, if it was something they will be back. I've mainly dated Scorpios, and one of them is still trying to "come back".
Posted by wagamama
But she calls me every week and sends pics like we usually do but she had this weird response when i asked her about getting back. I feel she is leading me on to ask her back, but when i did she gave a yes and no reply... i don't want to be confused but again i don't want her getting the weak side of me and playing with it...


if you want her back, you have quite some working to do. You will be double-tested... tortured and tested again if you are still in.
So you have to be sure with yourself first.
If she is still in contact with you, well... that's a good sign.
The exes I do not wish back, they are loooong deleted.

+1
If an ex was one that has gotten in my mind, i will miss those mind games rather than who they actually are, I get bored easily and tend to reflect on the dialogue. For the most part i dont miss any of my exes, I think about them but i dont want them back. No one has ever gotten inside my head like cancer and sag.. They've made me so mentally ill, Im at the point now where If we did ever break up Idk wtf i would do Sad.. I aint takin no for an answer thats for goddamn sure, theyre gunna finish this creation...
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Posted by BigGirlPanties
nope. never.
Why scorpios dont go back to loved ones? Specially if the person is waiting..we are humans and cant humans go and talk with other humans?

I miss my scorpio girl from last 18 Years. We meet when I thought she is single...she dated me once and said her destiny is not good ( she said this after meeting and seeing me on date with her). I understood she had not liked me..so I thougjt..I would be there if she needs me..she was diagnised by cancer and said that was the reason ..her ex is not paying attention to her. I made all arrangements for her treatments and I was 21 yrs and she 26. Everyday I prayed god that take all my happiness but cure her out of cancer..for that I will leave all my bad habbits and will never ever look at any other girl apart from my female scorp for my whole life. After 2 months after her chemo reports doctors said her cancer has stopped nd she will recover full in 1 or 2 months..before I could tell her my feelings...she said that her ex is coming back to her everytime and I asked her to go back to him..then she said..what will happen to me..I said ..I will see to it. And she left..tried coming back once and said her sympathies are with me. I was angry with her and said..I dont want sympathy..am not here for sympathy...9 months down the line..went to see if she is all fine on her birthday..in 2001..then went in 2017 to see if shes all fine. Still miss her and dont understand ..how come she dont understand that I love her so much..do you think she will come and meet me once for me to tell her how much I miss her? Before I die
I miss certain things about the person but do I want them back? I'm not entirely sure. The only person that really meant something to me really did some awful abusive things and I'm not sure that can ever be okay with me. As of now, no I don't want that person back.
never! whats done is done, also the fear of experiencing the misery again would eat me.
Lol I used to read these old threads years ago when I was being driven insane by a Scorpio.

Turns out I was just really dumb for dating a douchebag and falling for his bullshit.

Ah. Life's lessons. 😂
Hey everyone, nkotb here- well kinda. Went by Elledcmcmxxii but deleted that account as it was my ig name and figured that wasn’t very smart LOL. But I’m a Cap sun/rising and Venus in Scorpio and sometimes I resonate so much with my Scorps especially when it comes to matters of the heart.

I’d say it depends on how bad they hurt me or how things ended and what level of attraction was there. My two significant exes- 🤢 wouldn’t resurrect things if ya paid me okkkrrr! Now my current ex/LDR/fling/it's complicated Scorp thingamajic mystique of a man.. I’ve tried and tried to extinguish the flames but there’s some serious kundalini shit going on because I just can’t shake him. Even though we’ve never even touched! I’m convinced the only way to get away from his vice grip is to replace with another Scorpio 🙈
I do, I miss one ex all of the time. Not any of the rest though, they can kick rocks.
I have this "the one that got away" ex. I can miss him from time to time, but the thought of getting back together with him is alien to me.

Also, I don't mind missing an old flame as long I know for myself that I was at fault for it to come to an end. But if I am the one who was wronged, then boy bye. I can't stand the thought of longing for someone who basically thought less of you.
from what I gather they miss their ex, for selfish reason. . when it makes them feel better about themselves. not because they miss you
Toti..what do I do?

For me its just one life..one death and one love...can any scorpio lady tell me if..my scorpio girl will meet me once to talk? I want to tell her how much I love n miss her

I was perfectly allfine with the scorpio woman terms..I just wanted her to be happy..she was the first girl in my life. Then within 4th day she said me that she has uterus cancer and going to die.

I cried lot in alone..promised god ..I wont do anything that will hurt her...Asked god to save her life and take my every breath and drop of my blood...drop of my every flesh and give her life. On the day of her birthday ...she called me to be with her..but I went to a Hindu Temple as the priest said he knew some rituals that can save her life....I did the rituals for almost 18 hrs and priest said god MAY show miracle..if I do it every year. Back in 2001 I had no mobile to inform her about the ritual...and that I could not attend her birthday. I thought it would be selfish to inform her. But the next day when she asked me about it..I told her that I went to a temple to pray for her. She then told me that..she waited for me and started crying then her ex came and they celebrated the birthday. I was hurt...but was happy that she was happy. Beleive me every second I asked for her happiness..my only mission was to save her life..irrespective of what she did with her ex on her birthday. I told her I want to marry her( only reason was to take proper medical care of her till end of my life) I was a virgin..and was ready to be virgin even after marrying her just to take care of her. I really care for her and love her...later she started feeling well and started asking me if am a Gay, I was hurt. I never fought with her...irrespective of how angry I was...I always kept my work aside..As per my promise..and after knowing how jealous she gets...I stopped looking at girls and even shaking hands with any girl..even if she initiates handshake with me. I was very dedicated n devoted to my love n girl and one day she started lauffing that ...how can someone love someone so much..I understood for her am just a joker..I was angry..hurted and devastated...Next day she said me that her male colleague asked her whats the meaning of deep? I was hurt with her closeness with her male colleagues..then she had beauty rampwalk..then said her ex is coming back..I told her to go back to him. Just cause I asked her to marry..she said her female friend asked her to leave me if am possesive about her.

I angryly asked her to get out of my life. ..I thought..we should leave love free and if it comes back its ours. I also thought she may cheat me...if I dont give her a opportunity..she just asked me..what will I do..I told I will see to it. Its 18yrs...I still go to temples and for her rituals..cause I love her the same..and when I will die..my eyes will have her picture. I feel bad ..she did not love me..I just had 2 days to be happy with her frm 3rd day it was about her cancer...so just 2 days of happiness and long life of seperation and hope?

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I was perfectly allfine with the scorpio woman terms..I just wanted her to be happy..she was the first girl in my life. Then within 4th day she said me that she has uterus cancer and going to die.

I cried lot in alone..promised god ..I wont do anything that will hurt her...Asked god to save her life and take my every breath and drop of my blood...drop of my every flesh and give her life. On the day of her birthday ...she called me to be with her..but I went to a Hindu Temple as the priest said he knew some rituals that can save her life....I did the rituals for almost 18 hrs and priest said god MAY show miracle..if I do it every year. Back in 2001 I had no mobile to inform her about the ritual...and that I could not attend her birthday. I thought it would be selfish to inform her. But the next day when she asked me about it..I told her that I went to a temple to pray for her. She then told me that..she waited for me and started crying then her ex came and they celebrated the birthday. I was hurt...but was happy that she was happy. Beleive me every second I asked for her happiness..my only mission was to save her life..irrespective of what she did with her ex on her birthday. I told her I want to marry her( only reason was to take proper medical care of her till end of my life) I was a virgin..and was ready to be virgin even after marrying her just to take care of her. I really care for her and love her...later she started feeling well and started asking me if am a Gay, I was hurt. I never fought with her...irrespective of how angry I was...I always kept my work aside..As per my promise..and after knowing how jealous she gets...I stopped looking at girls and even shaking hands with any girl..even if she initiates handshake with me. I was very dedicated n devoted to my love n girl and one day she started lauffing that ...how can someone love someone so much..I understood for her am just a joker..I was angry..hurted and devastated...Next day she said me that her male colleague asked her whats the meaning of deep? I was hurt with her closeness with her male colleagues..then she had beauty rampwalk..then said her ex is coming back..I told her to go back to him. Just cause I asked her to marry..she said her female friend asked her to leave me if am possesive about her.

I angryly asked her to get out of my life. ..I thought..we should leave love free and if it comes back its ours. I also thought she may cheat me...if I dont give her a opportunity..she just asked me..what will I do..I told I will see to it. Its 18yrs...I still go to temples and for her rituals..cause I love her the same..and when I will die..my eyes will have her picture. I feel bad ..she did not love me..I just had 2 days to be happy with her frm 3rd day it was about her cancer...so just 2 days of happiness and long life of seperation and hope?

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M143 I was perfectly allfine with the scorpio woman terms..I just wanted her to be happy..she was the first girl in my life. Then within 4th day she said me that she has uterus cancer and going to die.

I cried lot in alone..promised god ..I wont do anything that will hurt her...Asked god to save her life and take my every breath and drop of my blood...drop of my every flesh and give her life. On the day of her birthday ...she called me to be with her..but I went to a Hindu Temple as the priest said he knew some rituals that can save her life....I did the rituals for almost 18 hrs and priest said god MAY show miracle..if I do it every year. Back in 2001 I had no mobile to inform her about the ritual...and that I could not attend her birthday. I thought it would be selfish to inform her. But the next day when she asked me about it..I told her that I went to a temple to pray for her. She then told me that..she waited for me and started crying then her ex came and they celebrated the birthday. I was hurt...but was happy that she was happy. Beleive me every second I asked for her happiness..my only mission was to save her life..irrespective of what she did with her ex on her birthday. I told her I want to marry her( only reason was to take proper medical care of her till end of my life) I was a virgin..and was ready to be virgin even after marrying her just to take care of her. I really care for her and love her...later she started feeling well and started asking me if am a Gay, I was hurt. I never fought with her...irrespective of how angry I was...I always kept my work aside..As per my promise..and after knowing how jealous she gets...I stopped looking at girls and even shaking hands with any girl..even if she initiates handshake with me. I was very dedicated n devoted to my love n girl and one day she started lauffing that ...how can someone love someone so much..I understood for her am just a joker..I was angry..hurted and devastated...Next day she said me that her male colleague asked her whats the meaning of deep? I was hurt with her closeness with her male colleagues..then she had beauty rampwalk..then said her ex is coming back..I told her to go back to him. Just cause I asked her to marry..she said her female friend asked her to leave me if am possesive about her.

I angryly asked her to get out of my life. ..I thought..we should leave love free and if it comes back its ours. I also thought she may cheat me...if I dont give her a opportunity..she just asked me..what will I do..I told I will see to it. Its 18yrs...I still go to temples and for her rituals..cause I love her the same..and when I will die..my eyes will have her picture. I feel bad ..she did not love me..I just had 2 days to be happy with her frm 3rd day it was about her cancer...so just 2 days of happiness and long life of seperation and hope?

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Only when they are doing bad..when there mind fuckup and they are in this bad state of life they will do some stupid shit to not face the true problem. I am only speaking of the ones who can't face there shit...they will move backwards. I also seen ones who go backwards because later on in life it hit them that they fuckup. So they will go back to settle what they had lost. Again it's about them looking at themselves.

I had a scorp friend who done this to me. He fuck up..left with a boom. Years later came back around and admit he fuck up and have grown.. He had full understand of how he fuck up. We was just friends..but later on he disappear because he seen himself slowly turning into the fuck up person again. It wasn't me it's his own issues
Depends. Like everyone said. If we were the ones who did wrong, definitely yes. For me I even miss some of my exes who were terrible but I loved certain aspects of our relationships. The sex or deep conversations etc.