Do Scorpios Ever NOT Cheat

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I like scorpios but I feel like as soon as the next nice piece of ass comes along who flirts with you you'll cheat with them. Whether you're in a relationship or not. This goes for both the guys and the girls. This is why I wont seriously date one. I know. A scorpio girl cheated on her s/o with me who she'd been with for years. I found out the hard way from her s/o. So do you guys ever not cheat with somebody who wants you and you secretly want too? Or is that scorpio libido too strong.
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I'm a Scorpio and I've never cheated. Scorpio is typically not the sign to cheat as we have loyalty issues in the sense that Scorpios can be guilty of holding on for too long.

Obviously if she was cheating on her significant other there are much bigger problems in that relationship than can be tied to just star signs.

Cheaters are cheaters regardless of their star sign. There are some types less prone to do this, like Capricorns, but the risk is never completely eliminated.
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Posted by Dip
I like scorpios but I feel like as soon as the next nice piece of ass comes along who flirts with you you'll cheat with them. Whether you're in a relationship or not. This goes for both the guys and the girls. This is why I wont seriously date one. I know. A scorpio girl cheated on her s/o with me who she'd been with for years. I found out the hard way from her s/o.
That defies logic. You can only cheat if you are in a relationship to begin with. If you are single then you are a free agent and are not obligated towards anyone but yourself.

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My sister was with a pos Gemini who physically and mentally abused her as well as cheated on her multiple times.

My moms dad, also a Gemini, was abusive to his wife and cheated multiple times...even had another family that he kept secret.

If I was to let this create bias in my heart towards every Gemini I wouldn't currently be dating my Gemini who coincidently is best man I know. I'm the happiest I've been in a long while.

Don't overthink it. Judge a person based on their own actions, not the actions of people they have never met...
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I'm a Scorpio and I've never cheated. Scorpio is typically not the sign to cheat as we have loyalty issues in the sense that Scorpios can be guilty of holding on for too long.

Obviously if she was cheating on her significant other there are much bigger problems in that relationship than can be tied to just star signs.

Cheaters are cheaters regardless of their star sign. There are some types less prone to do this, like Capricorns, but the risk is never completely eliminated.
Lol at Capricorns less prone to cheat
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Lol, right - wasn't capricorn the top sign on Ashley Madison? Hahaha

Anyway OP seriously I joke, because cheating is a choice not an astrological deal. Anyone can choose to cheat, just like anyone can choose not to cheat..
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So im the only Scorpio who cheats? You ppl are full of sheete!! yea, I cheat..so what..I would love to meet someone who I wouldnt dare cheat on, but til then......

I'm here baby

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Nice jacket fag....who could ever cheat on you baby? 🙂



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If you like my jacket, you'll love what's underneath even more.

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I like scorpios but I feel like as soon as the next nice piece of ass comes along who flirts with you you'll cheat with them. Whether you're in a relationship or not. This goes for both the guys and the girls. This is why I wont seriously date one. I know. A scorpio girl cheated on her s/o with me who she'd been with for years. I found out the hard way from her s/o. So do you guys ever not cheat with somebody who wants you and you secretly want too? Or is that scorpio libido too strong.
Clarify please;

Can I ask why you cheated with a girl you knew was in a relationship to begin with? Does that not make you the same as a scorpio?

Or does it make it OK because you were not in a relationship at the time?

Or did you not know she was in one until the s/o found out and approached you?
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So im the only Scorpio who cheats? You ppl are full of sheete!! yea, I cheat..so what..I would love to meet someone who I wouldnt dare cheat on, but til then......

I'm here baby

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Nice jacket fag....who could ever cheat on you baby? 🙂



Only a fool. They don't call me the dick juice swallower for nothing.

If you like my jacket, you'll love what's underneath even more.

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Sure. We can work out together.

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ok I get it. You really are a pillow bitter..I thought u were being sarcastic. thats enough.

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I'm a big flirt but it all ends there if I'm going out with someone.
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Has a partner ever been offended by your flirting (if you've flirted with someone while in a relationship)?


Yes, absolutely. If there's no discussion around what both of us consider to be flirting, there is often a different understanding of the meaning of the word. I have attracted some extremely jealous partners who often consider it flirtatious to make another woman laugh in a public social setting (and not talking about innuendo here). I tend to want to talk through that sort of thing, and expect compromise and growth, because at that point there's no danger to the relationship whatsoever, and you're really just being to the point of actually suppressing a major aspect and contribution of someone's personality....

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🙂 Hmph *head tilt*. Okay, however we are working with your definition of "flirting" when I asked the question.

Maybe I should take a step back and ask how do you define flirting. Example(s) would be helpful Wise Bear.

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im surrounded by scorp,my ex scorp never cheated on me not even once,my close friend scorp and aunt cheated because of an abusive relationship and 2 scorp friend again didnt cheat,so in all honesty i think that they only cheat if you give them a reason to

I'm sure there are a few people that would like to co-sign this, however cheating is a choice. There are so many other options to choose from why pick the weakest one?

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I'm a Scorpio and I've never cheated. Scorpio is typically not the sign to cheat as we have loyalty issues in the sense that Scorpios can be guilty of holding on for too long.

Obviously if she was cheating on her significant other there are much bigger problems in that relationship than can be tied to just star signs.

Cheaters are cheaters regardless of their star sign. There are some types less prone to do this, like Capricorns, but the risk is never completely eliminated.
Lol at Capricorns less prone to cheat
Lol, right - wasn't capricorn the top sign on Ashley Madison? Hahaha


Yeah but then I read it had something to do with your birthday being assigned to January 1st by default upon signup, if you don't personalise your details. Which makes a lot more sense because the Capricorn thing was so disproportionate to the rest of the signs.

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Well darn, that ruins that, I've been bagging on my Cap friends about that for a while.—? Hahaha Seriously though, I'm reiterating, cheating is a choice.
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im surrounded by scorp,my ex scorp never cheated on me not even once,my close friend scorp and aunt cheated because of an abusive relationship and 2 scorp friend again didnt cheat,so in all honesty i think that they only cheat if you give them a reason to

I'm sure there are a few people that would like to co-sign this, however cheating is a choice. There are so many others options to choose from why pick the weakest one?

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i have no idea why they did if i am in a relationship like that i would just break it off,well that is all i can see to the scorp people who cheated in my life
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im surrounded by scorp,my ex scorp never cheated on me not even once,my close friend scorp and aunt cheated because of an abusive relationship and 2 scorp friend again didnt cheat,so in all honesty i think that they only cheat if you give them a reason to

I'm sure there are a few people that would like to co-sign this, however cheating is a choice. There are so many others options to choose from why pick the weakest one?

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Preach!!!
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Give me a guy, that I´m into, who wants t be commited to me, and we´ll see...




Finally, a real answer. Hate to be fed bullsh*t


It is real, but it doesn´t mean I have cheated on anyone.

I have never been in a comitted relationship, so there have been no opportunities for me to cheat. So I don´t know...
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I like your realness...Marry me lol...wait, youre a girl right?
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Its actually tough to define precisely, and different with each partner, because there are certain variables - trust being the major one. Trust of the individual and trust of the environment they are in. If I trust someone deeply, one of the greatest things to me, and something I appreciate if they can reciprocate, is to allow them to express themselves as fully as they can, especially in how they communicate with the opposite sex, and it can even be a huge turn-on to watch them interact. I was talking about this recently on here (forget where), but when two people have a really strong connection, this can often be a way of indirectly flirting with one another - almost like a prolonged, or regression back into, some of the more exciting aspects of courtship. In a group setting, if I'm with a partner where there's strong connection/trust, pretty much everything I'm doing to entertain in any way in a social setting primarily revolves around them, and people actually pick that up. I actually consider myself good at establishing that, with all present company, with how I maintain eye contact, and include my partner.

🙂. This is an interested form of mental maturbation. I enjoy it as well when the connection is there.

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I don't think I've answered your question yet...

I appreciate that I didn't have to point this out you 😆.

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...I can say that a malicious or inappropriate form of flirting, to me, would be if my partner were to engage in an attempt to pursue a more individual/private relationship/connection with a member of the opposite sex, particularly in an area that I think should be our exclusive domain - obvious examples being physical/sexual bonding, certain levels of emotional bonding, etc.

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🙂 Okay you're a curious guy Enoch. You're being very general, while answering indirectly (I'm sure it's Scorp thing so I get it).

So since we're going to focus this conversation on the other person, if I have this correct, your partner can "express themselves as fully as they can, especially in how they communicate with the opposite sex", yet you have parameters around what "fully" looks like. Hmph. Imaginary freedom?

I'm not necessarily disagreeing with the definition as you laid it out, however you must realize that there is an assumption being made here. Aside from someone making an obvious statement that is sexual in nature or a crotch grab, flirting is not "bonding". We do not know what our partner's intentions are when they engage another at a social gathering...if it's simply flirting or more. Therefore (base on what you've defined) you're assuming your partner's intention when "flirting" is to pursue a deeper connection with someone. In otherwords, you have boundaries on what "fully" looks like. Again, if none of the obvious sexualized statements or actions are made and it's simply social engagement. If that's the case then it wouldn't be "flirting" imo.

For what's it's worth, I've realized along the way that I misread something you wrote earlier, which started this whole line of questioning 😆, so forgive me. Thanks for indulging me this far!
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So im the only Scorpio who cheats? You ppl are full of sheete!! yea, I cheat..so what..I would love to meet someone who I wouldnt dare cheat on, but til then......


Thanks for being honest. You and konicuiaaa. Being honest is a scorpio thing too so I knew one of you would drop by and admit it sooner or later. That's one of the reasons why I do like scorps. But the cheating Nahh can't do it.
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If my ex cheated on me, I'd be really surprised. He was so far up my ass with obsession and possession over me lol
I wouldn't think too many scorpios would cheat on a libra. I think your attraction is too strong with each other. Physically sexually and mentally. I do find when it comes to scorp and leebs that scorpios crush hard on them. It goes both ways.

But they would definitely have no problem cheating while chasing a libra.
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If my ex cheated on me, I'd be really surprised. He was so far up my ass with obsession and possession over me lol
I wouldn't think too many scorpios would cheat on a libra. I think your attraction is too strong with each other. Physically sexually and mentally. I do find when it comes to scorp and leebs that scorpios crush hard on them. It goes both ways.

But they would definitely have no problem cheating while chasing a libra.
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There is an amazing connection with Scorps and Leebs.

I think the magical couples
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So since we're going to focus this conversation on the other person, if I have this correct, your partner can "express themselves as fully as they can, especially in how they communicate with the opposite sex", yet you have parameters around what "fully" looks like. Hmph. Imaginary freedom?
I thought "as fully as they can", which would've been to quote me more "fully" (😉), implied parameters....

...My communication feels scattered and rambling today...had way too much caffeine and multi-tasking.



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Is that what it is? I believe we are speaking two different languages. I may simply need to slowly digest what you've written.

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I agree making assumptions is dangerous, but I don't think its dangerous to observe, entertain possibilities/hypotheses, even test them sometimes, and then discuss with your partner, should any areas of concern arise. That's my process - not overreacting to assumptions - and it has worked well for me. But I don't agree that I only have overt sexual language or action to discern intent. If I've known my partner for a while, I also have a fairly vast store of knowledge about how they act in certain situations, their own history/background, what they are or are not interested in/attracted to in general, history of interaction with this particular person, whatever background info. or knowledge I possess (if any) about who they're interacting with, and most importantly the pattern of their interaction, and my interaction with her, in the present circumstances. Just a few examples - does her body language show me she seeks exclusivity - shielding her expressions from view, lowering voice/whispering in their direction, etc. If I step away for a moment, is there an exclusive focus on this person that increases with my distance?

So nooooow you want to provide examples on how your mind works. Funny how that happens when a Scorp wants to prove a point vs a willingness to reveal something about themselves freely.

I don't know Wise Bear, but I'm gonna guess your type of sleuthing is why people don't like to f*ck with Scorps. Why are you sharing all the insider information doh?

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Then more questions arise (which I realize have multiple reasonable answers) - is there some reason the focus was not so strong in my presence? Is there perhaps guilt or shame around the connection that I can detect, or even trigger 😉? When I am present, does she engage or include me less in their convos due to the connection? Does she actively seek to get away with this person to a more private place even? Take the opportunity to do that when I step away? Now, all of this probably sounds paranoid,...

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What you've described is just shy of taking your partner pulse to see if her heart is racing with anticipation. However, you're amongst "family". Paranoia runs deep in the Scorp fam.

PS I'm guilty of this level of sleuthing too. Minus the "testing" and all the hypothetical conversations.
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I'm a big flirt but it all ends there if I'm going out with someone.
same same.



Has a partner ever been offended by your flirting (if you've flirted with someone while in a relationship)?


Yes, absolutely. If there's no discussion around what both of us consider to be flirting, there is often a different understanding of the meaning of the word. I have attracted some extremely jealous partners who often consider it flirtatious to make another woman laugh in a public social setting (and not talking about innuendo here). I tend to want to talk through that sort of thing, and expect compromise and growth, because at that point there's no danger to the relationship whatsoever, and you're really just being to the point of actually suppressing a major aspect and contribution of someone's personality. I see this a lot with couples, and I think that's actually the sort of "control" that makes it more likely for a person to cheat.



I think they were secretly more worried about the girlfriend then you.

Most women these days do that fake laugh thing when they're trying to show interest in men.

"Oh my Goddd you're soooo funny. Like oh my God. Hahaha."

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This crap makes my eye twitch when it happens in front of me. Like back the heck off lady.
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So nooooow you want to provide examples on how your mind works. Funny how that happens when a Scorp wants to prove a point vs a willingness to reveal something about themselves freely.

I don't know Wise Bear, but I'm gonna guess your type of sleuthing is why people don't like to f*ck with Scorps. Why are you sharing all the insider information doh?


It took me a while to understand the first part of what you were saying here. I think we speak a different language yes, but beyond that, I found myself initially interpreting your words very defensively, feeling like you're probing me a bit aggressively. I had to refrain from defensive sarcasm and cleared out my first response to you. LOL.

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No offense was meant. It's my approach. I can be very direct, tease a lot and can be very sarcastic. Some can handle it, some can't. One of the reasons I don't interact with too many people here. Especially new posters.

I think I'll go back to quietly observing now because I don't see me changing my style any time soon.

Again, appreciate your replies. Thank you.
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I like scorpios but I feel like as soon as the next nice piece of ass comes along who flirts with you you'll cheat with them. Whether you're in a relationship or not. This goes for both the guys and the girls. This is why I wont seriously date one. I know. A scorpio girl cheated on her s/o with me who she'd been with for years. I found out the hard way from her s/o. So do you guys ever not cheat with somebody who wants you and you secretly want too? Or is that scorpio libido too strong.
You're right, I too know Scorpio girl that is in a long term relationship with her bf, but flirted with me all the time, and texted daily, she wanted to meet for sex. She said that she is not attracted to him anymore like before, but don't want to leave him. She was 28 at that time. I know one that was 20, the same story, just not so intense about cheating, but she was dreaming about having sex with me, and told me that.

I recently met another young Scorpio lady, the same story, long term relationship, but when she is attracted to someones look, she cannot resist, and wants sex. Interesting, they like long term relationships, and to control the guy, but they want to have the freedom to secretly do whatever they want.
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I like scorpios but I feel like as soon as the next nice piece of ass comes along who flirts with you you'll cheat with them. Whether you're in a relationship or not. This goes for both the guys and the girls. This is why I wont seriously date one. I know. A scorpio girl cheated on her s/o with me who she'd been with for years. I found out the hard way from her s/o. So do you guys ever not cheat with somebody who wants you and you secretly want too? Or is that scorpio libido too strong.
You're right, I too know Scorpio girl that is in a long term relationship with her bf, but flirted with me all the time, and texted daily, she wanted to meet for sex. She said that she is not attracted to him anymore like before, but don't want to leave him. She was 28 at that time. I know one that was 20, the same story, just not so intense about cheating, but she was dreaming about having sex with me, and told me that.

I recently met another young Scorpio lady, the same story, long term relationship, but when she is attracted to someones look, she cannot resist, and wants sex. Interesting, they like long term relationships, and to control the guy, but they want to have the freedom to secretly do whatever they want.

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Exactly. This is the exact same experience I have with most scorpio girls. I didn't even get into the others who I know. It's definitely not just one.
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Yup, not coincidence at all. I know many others like that too, even the married ones. When the bf is working, they are setting dates, and cheating online. They are possessive when they are with someone, but they want freedom to do what they want. And even when they break up with long term bf, they eventually come back. And ofc, they are always in some long term relationships.