do Scorpios have different "language"?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by tinamaxblack on Sunday, February 5, 2017 and has 13 replies.
hello everyone, I am a Gemini woman(but nearly Cancer) who just starting in relationship with my scorpio.

Sometimes we have some conversations about sex in Whatsapp and he would like to have my nudes photos .. but I told him I am sorry for that I just don't like to do that.

then I asked him Do you feel disappointed? He replies, Don't worry, doesn't matter. with a smiling face.

I know scorpions have a huge passion in sex, and I would like to show my passion when we meet.

And I have read a lot of articles about Scorpios in love, they like mystery and not always express their feeling. Of cause, we keep having a lot of conversations when we are getting along.

My question is how they express their real feeling / deep emotions? I am trying to understand what he want/ need.
Wants to see nudes this early in the relationship? He wants to see if you have a good body. If he likes it, he'll definitely stay. If he doesn't like it, he might disappear before the relationship gets deeper. Kinda shitty if you ask me!
is that a generational thing? when people start dating and they want to see penis photos? or nudie photos? Confused that's really inappropriate.
Scorpio have feelings , and I'm not a scorpio myself , but with them - if they like you it's not just " mild , like her " - It's very intense and it took me a while before understanding that . They are a bit extreme with the way their feelings run . Gemini and air signs in general don't really "get" that , they don't express it the same way . I'm sorry but in general gemini are rather detached .

I won't give nudes to anyone - unless it's my long time boyfriend or husband . sexy pics if it's someone I trust but anything than that , hell no !

Scorpio somehow like the chase , and wants to persuade you , charm you or something . They find it more interesting than someone being so easy , it takes away the fun . Also the mysterious part ? From what I have seen if he is interested in you and you will know . He will want to know every single thing about . Just see where is his mercury ! Scorpios are not identical ... To me the true "scorpio " are those who have mars / mercury or moon .

What I dont like is how secretive they can be , I am very curious and determined and most of the time I end up giving up on finding things . But I guess again , if you get his love , you get EVERYTHING . I find them to be so generous and just kind and devoted . It's great to have that smile . That's what I want from a relationship and I wont settle for less
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
You're over thinking it.

Just meet up with him and see how he treats you in person. Scorpios tend to be more withdrawn until in person anyways. It's hard to read tone and intention through words alone so face to face is important.
this is probably the biggest difference,

one wants to make everything OPEN and post everything about water signs.

reveal secrets and poke and prod,

while the water sign just wants to chill.

unless the water sign has a strong air signature, they will get eachother well.

and the air with strong water/earth.
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
Posted by lisabethur8
Posted by PeanutButterandElly
You're over thinking it.

Just meet up with him and see how he treats you in person. Scorpios tend to be more withdrawn until in person anyways. It's hard to read tone and intention through words alone so face to face is important.
this is probably the biggest difference,

one wants to make everything OPEN and post everything about water signs.

reveal secrets and poke and prod,

while the water sign just wants to chill.


unless the water sign has a strong air signature, they will get eachother well.

and the air with strong water/earth.
Explains the quirkiness that is Gemini/Scorpio energy in a relationship.

I think Gemini impulses are more forefront as well. Scorpio wants to poke and prod. But in due time and with ample evidence. Gemini wants to jump into the thick of it from the start and figure it out as they go along.

My torturous on/off affairs with venus geminis makes so much more sense now though lol.
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maybe that's your Gemini mars too that wants to get with Gemini venus in the past.

Gemini energy loves Gemini energy.

it's one of the top marraiges for Gemini, Gemini/Gemini, 1st on the list.

so it would make sense that if another sun sign, they should have strong Gemini in the chart.

and the Gemini woman or man should have some Taurus to have the opposite attraction. lol


I have had 2 relationships with Geminis, and both failed miserably. Great at first, but long run, ugh.

Anyways, dick and box pics. Wtf is the world coming to? I immediately nix out any guy that asks me for nudes. Nope, you got no class, not happening bro.
Posted by PootyButt

It takes time, I think. I'm a Gemini too, and I've been so confused by a Scorpio, but time was what told me the truth of his feelings. And eventually, he did.

Are you long-distance? I think they prefer to show their feelings through quiet acts and sex, to a large degree, so being long-distance makes things harder. I'm experiencing that too.
Yes, because he has some companies in another cities, and he shows his schedule and would come to me when he have time. He is doing what he said before we start this relationship.

Btw, he is planning a travel with me then we can spend more time togather.
Posted by Neno2

i asked off all my gf nudes?we like nude girls pics but ofc from girls we like

its a deep feeling that cant be explained with words what we need,love and so?i guess this guy likes u so u have a good start?
I like him a lot too. And I feel great he needs my photos Tongue

but this is hard to understand how do scorpios express their feeling!
Posted by tinamaxblack
Posted by Neno2

i asked off all my gf nudes?we like nude girls pics but ofc from girls we like

its a deep feeling that cant be explained with words what we need,love and so?i guess this guy likes u so u have a good start?
I like him a lot too. And I feel great he needs my photos Tongue

but this is hard to understand how do scorpios express their feeling!
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Why do you feel great he needs your photos?

Do you not have the confidence to make him wait until he meets you in person?

What is happening to the dating scene? Cheap and tacky.

Posted by nikkistar
I have had 2 relationships with Geminis, and both failed miserably. Great at first, but long run, ugh.

Anyways, dick and box pics. Wtf is the world coming to? I immediately nix out any guy that asks me for nudes. Nope, you got no class, not happening bro.
Yes nikki, unclassy and sad

Posted by tinamaxblack
hello everyone, I am a Gemini woman(but nearly Cancer) who just starting in relationship with my scorpio.

Sometimes we have some conversations about sex in Whatsapp and he would like to have my nudes photos .. but I told him I am sorry for that I just don't like to do that.

then I asked him Do you feel disappointed? He replies, Don't worry, doesn't matter. with a smiling face.

I know scorpions have a huge passion in sex, and I would like to show my passion when we meet.

And I have read a lot of articles about Scorpios in love, they like mystery and not always express their feeling. Of cause, we keep having a lot of conversations when we are getting along.

My question is how they express their real feeling / deep emotions? I am trying to understand what he want/ need.
Hon, if you willing to give it all - give it all.

Scorps are so different. I am dealing with one for ages.

Never an argument. Never a struggle.

I imagine if you dealing with one you are struggling with - get out.

If he is worth of your time - relax and let him be! Wait for him. Love him. Cater to all his wishes...

It'll pay off but you have to know its not a guarantee!

Hugs. Hope you can do it
well, here i got a lot different replies and ideas from you all smile

Ps, I have to emphasise I was not send him any nudes when he was asking! (Please read my post)

I REJECTED him about the photos and told him that " I DON'T WANT TO DO THAT !"

then he replies " NO MATTER " with a smiling face.

That was 2 days ago and we keep nice chatting.

So, if somebody still want to talking about "more nudes" that is NO meaning.

Also that was a good experience to let him know something I don't like to do even he wants.

But I have to say thank you for some replies, because scorpio man they don't express their feeling in "Normal way". Tongue

But now I am wondering what surprise I should prepare, because he is coming back in next week... Ummm