people like to hold hands?
Do you
LoL
But *curious* as well how/if it will be answered. 🙂
But *curious* as well how/if it will be answered. 🙂
yup.. i like to hold hands most of the time. other display of affection not so much.. prefer affection behind closed doors. very private.
No, but I like to engage in other forms of physical contact as discretely as possible 😈.
Posted by 2N3R
people like to hold hands?
not exactly but I can't even understand my ex bull and I always holding hands even he was driving.
There was a time we met up an italian couples and had a dinner with them and they were smiling because we
can't get off our hands in front of them. lol. The funny part is even we are at home and just eating in
a couch watching tv we're still holding hands. I don't know but we are unaware of this. It took me to realized
how strong the connection was even just lying in a bed and sung together and laughed together.
Yes, I do.
I don't mind it.
This makes me happy. But I wonder about those of you who said that you don't..... Is there any particular reason for that? Besides if you're reaching out to grab other areas(reference to Phoenix 😆 by the way, if she is as I suspect and this results in something, I'm grabbing that rear regardless of how she feels unlesa she actually says something against it)
Only during or after intercourse
Please explain to me how you express your possession of someone in public then. Actually, I don't feel I consider it that, I think it's more of a display of, "We are together", but since some people interpret it is such, it makes me wonder. Is Scorpio possession a physical thing or an emotional thing? Personally, I like to be physical, but I suppose there are people who might find it smothering (though in the case of walking around in public, all I wish is to occasionally hold her hand).
Not really. I can, but not all the time, no.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by 2N3R
Please explain to me how you express your possession of someone in public then. Actually, I don't feel I consider it that, I think it's more of a display of, "We are together", but since some people interpret it is such, it makes me wonder. Is Scorpio possession a physical thing or an emotional thing? Personally, I like to be physical, but I suppose there are people who might find it smothering (though in the case of walking around in public, all I wish is to occasionally hold her hand).
lol @ the taurus. 😛
we were just talking about possessiveness the other day.
your possessiveness is different than ours....we are opposites.
speaking for myself....I don't need to express my possession of someone in public. I don't need to display "we are together".
Taurus possessiveness is more "LOOK! THIS IS MINE!"
Scorpio possessiveness is more "I NEED TO PROTECT THIS BECAUSE IT'S IMPORTANT TO ME." *gathers everyone into her inner circle and shoots death glares at everyone else*
In public....when with my partner...I'm always observing my surroundings for any possible uncomfortable or unsafe situations. I know that's weird...but there was a thread awhile back from rabbit where he did some of the same. We are looking for exit points in case of emergencies....we are quietly side eyeing those around us that don't 'feel right'.
It's less "I HAVE TO SHOW EVERYONE YOU ARE MINE!"....and more "DO NOT DARE EVEN THINK ABOUT HURTING WHAT IS CLOSE TO ME BECAUSE I'LL SNIP OFF YOUR TOES WITH A RUSTY NAIL CLIPPER"
😛click to expand
Actually, this is how I feel about everyone I consider my people. Even if it's just a friend, if I see someone I think is a jerk trying to make a pass at her, I will glare at him in such a way as to make them uncomfortable and fuck off. It's like in the Fast and The Furious when Dom says, "If you break her heart, I'll break your neck". I won't tolerate any bullshit done to those I hold dear because I consider that an attack on me.
In regards to romantic relationships though, this possessiveness is the way I personally feel because I'm willingly giving myself to the other person so I feel that I am to them what they are to me, which means I belong to them/am theirs. It's unfair for people to be up in arms saying tha
Posted by 2N3R
This makes me happy. But I wonder about those of you who said that you don't..... Is there any particular reason for that? Besides if you're reaching out to grab other areas(reference to Phoenix 😆 by the way, if she is as I suspect and this results in something, I'm grabbing that rear regardless of how she feels unlesa she actually says something against it)
😄 it's usually subtle things between the two of us. He will fix my collar and brush his knuckles over my nipple or I will stop to talk to him, but lean in to whisper in his ear and turn side ways so I can rub my hip against his slong and we just stare at each other when we do this. The only time I actually put my hand on him is when we are standing side by side. If he's wearing a long coat I will slip my hand in his back pocket, but it looks like I just have my hand around his waist while he has his arm around my shoulder.
Woah, it cut off. What I said was that it's unfair for people to be up in arms saying that we treat them like objects. They seem to imply we think they're sex toys and our bitches when at least for me, that's not what I think at all. If it makes people feel better to not have me all over them, they just need to say the word. As long as I am able to do it on occasion in a place where they don't feel uncomfortable, I can detach myself because not everyone is me.
Posted by 2N3R
This makes me happy. But I wonder about those of you who said that you don't..... Is there any particular reason for that? Besides if you're reaching out to grab other areas(reference to Phoenix 😆 by the way, if she is as I suspect and this results in something, I'm grabbing that rear regardless of how she feels unlesa she actually says something against it)
Cold clammy hands turn me off. I hate holding hands if that's the case.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by 2N3R
Woah, it cut off. What I said was that it's unfair for people to be up in arms saying that we treat them like objects. They seem to imply we think they're sex toys and our bitches when at least for me, that's not what I think at all. If it makes people feel better to not have me all over them, they just need to say the word. As long as I am able to do it on occasion in a place where they don't feel uncomfortable, I can detach myself because not everyone is me.
you asked me to explain my perception on possessiveness and what the differences were and now you are getting defensive.
I wasn't judging you.
*shrugs*click to expand
You misunderstand me; when I wrote that particular comment, I was speaking about people in general.
Scorpios. Just in case, this is the Scorpio forum. I'm telling you this because I've posted stuff in threads only to realize that it's in a sign specific forum and feel I've done something wrong. 😆
Posted by 2N3R
In regards to romantic relationships though, this possessiveness is the way I personally feel because I'm willingly giving myself to the other person so I feel that I am to them what they are to me, which means I belong to them/am theirs. It's unfair for people to be up in arms saying tha
Do you view this in the reverse? Meaning does the person also belong to you?
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by 2N3R
In regards to romantic relationships though, this possessiveness is the way I personally feel because I'm willingly giving myself to the other person so I feel that I am to them what they are to me, which means I belong to them/am theirs. It's unfair for people to be up in arms saying tha
Do you view this in the reverse? Meaning does the person also belong to you?click to expand
In a sense, yes. If she wants to leave, then she's free to go, I won't stop her, but if she wants to keep me, she has to give herself entirely to me because I am giving myself to her and to no other. I can't impose anything on anyone if I don't apply that to myself as well. I don't expect her to give up things like work, her friends, hobbies, alone time and ways of being for me because she's an individual and those things are not for me to decide, but I feel insulted and disrespected when someone else is trying to ruin our relationship. I could give examples where I explain that more easily, but won't just in case someone here knows about my present circumstances and also because this has nothing to do with the actual thread anyway. 😆
Anyway, regarding the hand holding, I just want to touch her!! 😆
Posted by 2N3RPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by 2N3R
In regards to romantic relationships though, this possessiveness is the way I personally feel because I'm willingly giving myself to the other person so I feel that I am to them what they are to me, which means I belong to them/am theirs. It's unfair for people to be up in arms saying tha
Do you view this in the reverse? Meaning does the person also belong to you?
In a sense, yes.click to expand
Well, I think the word "belong" is what gives people the impression Bulls like to possess people as objects.
I understand your explanation quite well, I think that is where Scorps and Bulls are similar, but the focus and the way we go about expressing our desire to connect with another is what separates us.
Anyway, more focus on hand holding 😄.
Posted by TwirlingStrawberryPosted by 2N3R
Anyway, regarding the hand holding, I just want to touch her!! 😆click to expand
LOL
could you be anymore adorable?
This just makes me blush and reminds me of the first time I tried speaking to her; I turned completely pink/red and had a hard time looking her in the eye when I was talking. Some people decided everybody just had to know there was color in my face as if it weren't enough of a Stop sign to be noticed. Why do you people do this to me?! *though I don't know if she is, but I have reason to assume)
😆
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