CapAngel
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Do you do this?
"If we feel as though we are losing our self or control over the situation then we will go to acting detached and withdrawn to get the ball back in our court."
Never feel this way in a relationship, for I never feel like I'm losing myself or control over myself, or a situation. To "act" withdrawn to get a ball back in a court wouldn't occur to me .. if there's an issue, it's approached to get resolution, rather than play any kind of game to gain some sort of control.
"We don't ever want you to get to comfortable and allow you to think that you got us."
My perspective is in complete opposition to this .. I would want the person to know that they have my devotion to them and loyalty, so that we could build trust together.
"Even if we know you do we try our best not to let you know it, at least till we fill that you won't take it for granted."
I guess I've just never experienced this .. when I'm with my partner, I absolutely want them to know where I stand, where we are together as a couple so we can grow. It wouldn't occur to me that I might be taken for granted in a relationship .. that might before we made a commitment, but, not after we've devoted ourselves to each other.
Maybe fearing or worrying about being taken for granted is because trust wasn't built in the first place because of letting the other person NOT know where you stand.
Never feel this way in a relationship, for I never feel like I'm losing myself or control over myself, or a situation. To "act" withdrawn to get a ball back in a court wouldn't occur to me .. if there's an issue, it's approached to get resolution, rather than play any kind of game to gain some sort of control.
"We don't ever want you to get to comfortable and allow you to think that you got us."
My perspective is in complete opposition to this .. I would want the person to know that they have my devotion to them and loyalty, so that we could build trust together.
"Even if we know you do we try our best not to let you know it, at least till we fill that you won't take it for granted."
I guess I've just never experienced this .. when I'm with my partner, I absolutely want them to know where I stand, where we are together as a couple so we can grow. It wouldn't occur to me that I might be taken for granted in a relationship .. that might before we made a commitment, but, not after we've devoted ourselves to each other.
Maybe fearing or worrying about being taken for granted is because trust wasn't built in the first place because of letting the other person NOT know where you stand.
However, to be a complete hypocrite .. I have done this with my husband lately with sex (holding back/taken away).
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"Until we get completly secure (which for some crabs may never accur) we're going to be withdrawn and detached. If we feel as though we are losing our self or control over the situation then we will go to acting detached and withdrawn to get the ball back in our court. We don't ever want you to get to comfortable and allow you to think that you got us. Even if we know you do we try our best not to let you know it, at least till we fill that you won't take it for granted."
Do you do this?