Do you have two sides

Hey !
I wanted to ask all the scorpio (or maybe what I'm going to talk about is for scorpio women only) if you are two sides ?
Actually I have two and it "disturbed" me a lot : I have this responsible side who want to succeed in school, who don't smoke, drink or do drug or want to have money to have a good paid job blabla. I this side always think about the consequences so I limit my intensity I think !
But the other side is more intense and very "destructive" ! Like in this side I just don't care I do smoke a lot (drug), I don't really care about school because I don't want to have a typical life : I really want to discover the world, investigate or don't ask me too much questions "is this appropriate"; I want to live my life in order to don't have any regrets !

But I don't really see in scorpio descriptions things like this ! But my responsible side is stronger and more "superficial" than the other, and I don't find a balance between both so I'm always or black or white !
Do you have differents side ? 🙂

I think all the water women have a duality going on.
It's the nature of water.
We take the shape of our environment.

I recently discovered this about myself and it made a lot of sense.
It's a relief actually.

Posted by cheekyfaerie
Can a Scorp moon and ascendant play? Cause I can relate a lot. I'm all or nothing so it can feel pretty bipolar at times. To everyone else, I'm an even keel. Personality wise, I'm gonna be the same person every time you see me, but there's always a conflict going on underneath.

I think so !
Omg this is exactly the case : a conflict going on underneath !

Posted by LunarMaiden
I think all the water women have a duality going on.
It's the nature of water.
We take the shape of our environment.

I recently discovered this about myself and it made a lot of sense.
It's a relief actually.

And do you find a balance between them both ?

The devil and the saint .... the girly-girl and the tomboy .... the good girl and the bad girl ....

I think these are the makings of a well-rounded individual and just need to be integrated with one another. Enjoy that you have extremes, know that means you are capable of many more things than someone who only lives in one color, or one speed.

I learned to embrace this about me and found balance by acknowledging it and learning to harness it. Kind of like the Chariot in the tarot deck.

Scorpio women have two sides the one they walk around with everyday what the general public sees. The other side you see is when they invite you to see that other side which is totally different than the public side. You see the true person when you see the emotions the anger the relaxed Scorpio.

Posted by FixedWater
The devil and the saint .... the girly-girl and the tomboy .... the good girl and the bad girl ....

I think these are the makings of a well-rounded individual

Yes but no one does it better than Scorpio...complete gentleman/lady in public....the actual devil to their enemies....

I always conduct myself with Grace yet I allow a small bit of edge show in my style.
I would not want to be confused for a 47 year old frump (I am terrified of sweater sets! Ahhhh! Lol).

I agree gray, no one does it better than a Scorp ... 🙂

femme ... the good girl winning can get a little dull so may I suggest taking a Scorpio bestie out with you to monitor when the Devil has had enough and needs to go home ... hehe

... or a crabby crab soul sister would be great too if she didn't live so far away! hehe


F&B, I did the same thing btw. I wonder if it is just a natural part of Scorp evolution or does it have something to do with the Cancer moon?
How can we harness our extremes if we aren't familiar with them? What better way to get familiar with them than having to face them?

That is shadow work, and in my experience OP, it is a step in the process to awareness. You get to know, learn about, accept, love and integrate those traits that are unique to Scorpio and you. All of the good, the bad, and the ugly 🙂

Lol @ boon coon, what a great nickname femme! As much as I would love to blame her for being the bad influence, my recall won't allow me to. Ahhhh good times! Love my Friends!

Moonie, when ARE you driving that horse and buggy down here! It will take less than the 30 days we calculated now because the snow is all gone!

Posted by Stihl46
Scorpio women have two sides the one they walk around with everyday what the general public sees. The other side you see is when they invite you to see that other side which is totally different than the public side. You see the true person when you see the emotions the anger the relaxed Scorpio.

YES THIS ^^

oh yes very much so.i'm a scorpio with gemini rising too so sh.it can go from hot to cold real fast. i'm a nice person who genuinely cares for others but ppl know not to misunderstand my kindness for weakness cause i WILL go 0 to 100 reallllll quick . Word to drake a fellow scorp

Ok I try to find a balance between these sides but I don't succeed in..
And I remark that a loooooot of people see me very .... wise, very reasonable, like you know the "young girl always on a dress with a perfect make up, nails perfectly done, feminine"
BUT IT4S NOT TRUE REALLY NOT ! and I don't like the way people see me because I'm not like this, Ohhh no lol
For example, after my finals I'm gonna do business school, but I don't really want to and it's my white side which choose to do this, because I always think of the consequences, but it avoid me to do things : because astonishingly, I love the risk, I love dangerous things, I NEED to """break the rules""", I feel ALIVE when I do this
But I know full well that I can't constantly live in my dark side otherwise I will be a toxico-bitch-inmyworld, but I actually live in my white side ALL THE TIME and I feel imprison of myself..

everyone has two sides, regardless of sign. in my theory, i think it's the eternal struggle between walking a straight path and falling into temptation. i have two sides, but i try not to live double lives, you know, doing both good and bad equally. i try to be a straight forward person and i succeed for the most part, but the struggle can be real sometimes lol. it's important to find balance because if we dont, we can end of going off the far deep end leading to perpetual darkness.