Do you persue after a relationship ends?

Have any of you Scorps, after being in a relationship that ended badly (i.e. verbal abuse, bad fighting, and/or infedelity) and yet you continue to obsess over or persue the person you broke up with? Have any of you ever stalked a former lover who jilted you? I wouldn't think this is a Scorp trait by any means, but I'm having trouble with one doing just that. Seems to be holding on to the past like a bull dog. It's not a revenge thing either

I should add that it is not ME they are trying to "re-relate" to, it's my current lover.
They had a very stormy relationship, and unfortunately work at the same place.

Being a Virgo myself, I am getting pretty fed up with phone calls and drive bys, but it's all been totally legal..just annoying. I don't want to have to get mean.

No I don't especially if it is over by way of me ending it.

If they know what's good for them they would turn and walk away and never look back until I tell them to.

Seriously, when me and my son father broke up after 1 year I obsessed until he gave me a chance to explain myself and that was all I needed to get him back. He let me in and convinced him and was determinded to get him back and it lasted for 6 years until the abuse. And know he could never have another chance at haveing the best of best.

Scorps have a tendency to be very obsessive. Even if we never actually went through with stalking it has definitely crossed our minds. But to answer your question. I do not pursue a relationship once it ends. I hate to let a person think they have that much power over me.

well it's a been a year since their break-up and she still calls to wish happy birthday, merry christmas crap like that. Also rides by the house even though she lives on the other side of town. She told us to go and "Live our miserable lives" I wish she would just leave us alone. She calls on the cell phone and blocks her number. It's very irritating to say the least. Thanks for your input

No.

I really can't vouch for the men. Scorp women (myself) when we are done we are normally done... It is very hard for me personally to go back to an old flame. I feel once that time has passed it passed. We do love hard and are serious when in love and will try to make a situation work, but once there is no hope or the other person is no longer interested. We normally book out!

Well put Queen

"Scorp women (myself) when we are done we are normally done"

I think the original question had more to do with the situation when sombody dumps/deserts U. ( however that wud be as rare as a tsunami.. LOL)

How wud U react then ? Wud U cling and yearn ? Can u let go ?

Queenscorp: I always thought that way about scorps: when they're done they're done but as Gaurav says: is it the same when someone tells you (nicely) you can't hang out anymore or be friends because they have someone else in their life? This woman tried hard to "ACT" like a friend to both of us and yet when she told us both to basically f-off, it was more like meant primarily for me. Since she keeps trying to get friendly with my other half again and is totally leaving me out of it. Maybe I'm misreading the meaning, and she is just trying to pour salt in my wounds. Do you think she is just dying for attention? Maybe she doesn't really care at all, and is just playing games, I don't know. I've always had the suspicion that she wants to get another try at control,which she lacked while they were together. Then maybe she's just got a screw or two loose.

Never..when its over...its truly over..no going back..NEVERRRRRR

wish i could say that...but you know whats so interesting? Its so easy to walk away...but extremely hard to stay and make it work...jwalker i think she just want you because she cant have you.

ANTIBLING HAS!!

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Tue Dec 12, 2006 11:42pm ET

LONDON (Reuters) - British police were racing against time on Wednesday to find the killer of five women, all thought to be prostitutes, before another person dies.

Five naked bodies have been found in and around the town of Ipswich, eastern England, in the last 11 days, striking fear into the community that a serial killer is on the loose.

Detectives have identified three of the dead women as prostitutes. Two other sex workers are missing and police fear the worst following the discovery of two more bodies on Tuesday.

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Paula Clennell, 24, has not been seen since Saturday and Annette Nicholls, 29, has been missing for at least a week.

"The natural assumption (is) that these are the two missing women," said Detective Chief Superintendent Stewart Gull.

The bodies were discovered in the Nacton area to the east of Ipswich, close to where the naked body of another of the victims, Anneli Alderton, 24, was found in woodland on Sunday.

In a chilling twist, Clennell spoke to a television crew last week when the murder hunt was underway. Continued...

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Hehe..

He was a bit disappointed he had to pay for 'em... 5 TIMES IN A ROW!!!

😛 😛

yesterday I heard it on the news for the first time!
Jack The Ripper... The return

tell me about it!!

Indeed!!! It makes me so much more complete!! *sigh*

I've been busy lately! I've put this christmas-cd together and all... You can see me in happy feet btw...

(the second one, not the little fatty one)

They said my fur looked perfect for the movie!!

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
nooooooooooooooo
nooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
oooooowwwwwwwwww..... *blushes*

do you get the american version or an "english" version of such movies in England?

Well I just assumed that there could be a difference in spoken language.. different accents, dialects... Cause when we (in Belgium) get to see an animated film, the characters speak Flemish.. not "dutch" 🙂
Like.. the cocky ones speak a dialect from Antwerp, the sneaky characters have a dialect from Ghent.. etc..

It's funny and it's easier to relate to the charcters

No that's a DIIIIIIIIIIRRRRRTY dialect!!!!! No one wants to hear that!!!! 😄

that's not even good enough to be used in a movie!!!

nope

DO you want to hear it?
It's a carnival-song...

http://intoilsjters.syn3.net/int% 20oilsjters.html

well, it's MC Hammer's song of course but..

*my goooooood*

ANTI I WANT PUPPYYYYYYY!!!

hehe 😛

So you admit you have a weakness for puppies 😛

*the astrofairy flies along... and sits down on cancimini's shoulder*

"Of course he has!! When he was a little boy his parents denied him a puppy!!"

Cancimini goes: "oooooooh, how saaaaaaaaaaaad"

Like Nicole Kidman...

cool! 🙂 I'm talking to myself then =D hehe

Message posted by: Gaurav_Aries on 12/15/2006 9:07:28 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.97
Like Nicole Kidman...

Meaning? 🙂

I'm actually not very fond of her 😢

aaaaaaaaaaaaw anti!! your granny should've had one of these..

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

the right one is a macho!

you see what he does with his tail!! hehe

good luck!! 😉