Do you prefer mysterious or being open and honest
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by saweetz1988 on Thursday, June 13, 2013 and has 17 replies.
so my questions are mostly to scorpios men... When you are already in love with a woman...ok so say you been waiting for her for 3 years..now you got her etc.. do you like her to keep her mysterious or do you like her to be open and honest about everything that she does.. i know scorpions like a bit of mystery but they also like honesty and like to know everything.. there's a contrast here. I'm a very open/honest/talkative person so i share pretty much everything. I don't want my man to get bored..so if that means withholding some information is important to keep the challenge going..i will be happy to ! I can though be funny etc.. but i feel that since he's got me he's been a bit more... cool...not so much " missing you " kind of messages..so i'm just curious if i am making him bored ..or is he acting cooler because he wants to be in the one in control in the relationship !
" By the way, the best way to hook him is to treat him with disdain: he needs to be kept painfully interested - that's why he is so attracted to airy women, those who are as cool as cucumber and sometimes as cold as ice."
is that even true ! i'm supposed to be as cold as ice ? wow that is sooooo not me !
is that even true ! i'm supposed to be as cold as ice ? wow that is sooooo not me !
Posted by ellessque
*not a scorpio man*
I prefer open and honest.
**what a relieve ** i can never change who i am..he asked me how my day was..so .i told him how my day was... ! I don't lie so me being mysterious is pretty much impossible. ..i think if you are a not so mysterious person and try to be mysterious..leaving out information..or not telling the truth so the other person gets suspicious is unhealthy to me. i guess i'm doing good so far..just simply being myself !
Posted by twinklebluetoes
I'm not a Scorpio man but personally I prefer open and honest. Mystery is attractive at first, but it just means that when they open up later they could be a completely different person that I thought and they might not be someone I'd actually want to date at all. Open and honest isn't at heart fluttering or whatever nonsense, but at least you know what they are.
I think Scorpio prefers honest and open from my friends and ex, but I could be wrong. Hopefully some will answer soon!
i also think they prefer you to be honest and open...esp if its something long term and serious ? As a taurus... i am very easy to read.. not that we are boring..we do have a life..we just don't withhold information.. my friend told me to play hard to get a bit ! ..:S mehhh not my style ...
Open and honest, no doubt
A little mystery at first. Then be Open & Honest.
Depends on what your keeping quiet about.
Oh, this was directed to men? Sorry, I just read the title.....*shrug*
As you were.
As you were.
Posted by ellessque
taurus, you couldn't NOT be open and honest if you tried.
just relax and enjoy the experience
it's not very fun being a Taurus .. You scorpions can read me too well !!!
Posted by IntriguedScorp
Going by the Scorp men I know, they like the mystery of the look/the unspoken but not so much about you keeping things hidden from them What things you ask? Oh just everything.I'm just implying on general conversations . He does ask me how my day is,what I did etc. but I will give him full information (as we tarus like to share it ) without him asking .. I just don't wanna bore the man that's all lol ! Actually I remember once when I was thinking of something and he was like " what are you thinking " and I'm just Ike ... Unmm nothing ? Sometimes when Taurus doesn't speak .its because it's better not to
Thank you all for your input ! Seems like Open and Honest it is !!! His best friend and my friend talk a lot .. Well she's the one who got us together in the first place.. So how do you scorpions feel knowing that your partner could be talking to your best friend ... About you? Even If it's in a good way... I think he gets extremely paranoid .. Nothing much I can do about it unless I stop being friend with the girl .. Which is probably impossible .. You scorpions are so addictive ! You do have these complex nature of yours that me(taurus) can't seem to understand .. Moody yes but when you are in a good mood ! The whole world turns pink ! It's so sweet but when you are in a bad mood.. The world turns into black.. It's so complex but yet so interesting I don't think I wi ever get bored with a Scorpio man ! He brings massive smile on my face (sax arson) and yet he also brings me tears ( wihdrawn) n not wanting to share those dark moment with me and suffer it alone ! ...
I don't think I wi ever get bored with a Scorpio man ! He brings massive smile on my face (sax arson) and yet he also brings me tears ( wihdrawn) n not wanting to share those dark moment with me and suffer it alone ! ...Posted by Stinger Baby
i can be mysterious while being open and honest. mysteriousness doesnt have to mean dishonesty.
Thats what I'm trying to get at .. How do you be mysterious and open at the same time ..is that even possible ?....................?
Sarcasm *
Posted by NeurotoxinPosted by saweetz1988Posted by Stinger Baby
i can be mysterious while being open and honest. mysteriousness doesnt have to mean dishonesty.
Thats what I'm trying to get at .. How do you be mysterious and open at the same time ..is that even possible ?....................?
It's a delicate balance. Learn what pushes his buttons in good ways and bad ways. You can be coy, playful, and a little mysterious with those things that make him happy. But do not try that with the things that annoy him. That will only end bad.click to expand
I totally see your point. They are sensitive by nature . I am playful n like to make people laugh. I need to slowly learn what I can joke bout and what I can't . Tried joking bout his phone twice . Didn't go down to well :p another incident " of you loose .. You can spend a day looking for a new man " .. Me " I don't event need to spend a day " .. Snapped ! :p I gave it back to him . I think,, not sure how he took it though ..wasn't angry or anything .. :p
I like her to be open and honest. I instinctively investigate mystery being that I have a need to know but a woman who purposely hide things for whatever reason is unattractive to me. There's a difference between someone hiding things on purpose and someone who's nature expands beyond what you can perceive with a glance, leaving you with a need to know more and more each time. Keeping you interested.
Posted by Rays Heart
I like her to be open and honest. I instinctively investigate mystery being that I have a need to know but a woman who purposely hide things for whatever reason is unattractive to me. There's a difference between someone hiding things on purpose and someone who's nature expands beyond what you can perceive with a glance, leaving you with a need to know more and more each time. Keeping you interested.
my nature is not what you just described. Fixed earth sign *sogn* let's hope my venus in Gemini help me keep things exciting lo. ......l
Posted by saweetz1988Posted by Rays Heart
I like her to be open and honest. I instinctively investigate mystery being that I have a need to know but a woman who purposely hide things for whatever reason is unattractive to me. There's a difference between someone hiding things on purpose and someone who's nature expands beyond what you can perceive with a glance, leaving you with a need to know more and more each time. Keeping you interested.
my nature is not what you just described. Fixed earth sign *sogn* let's hope my venus in Gemini help me keep things exciting lo. ......lclick to expand
What makes you say that?
You have to know what he perceives to know what goes beyond it. I'm a Scorp and find plenty earth signs interesting.
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