Do you scorp guys like it when emotions are shared

Im dating a scorp male and I was wondering If I should show him my emotions, or wait. We've been dating for a couple months.
Im not going tot ell him I love him or anything, but there are some things that we need to go over about myself.

How do Scorpio guys react when someone close opens up to them?

from what i've experienced, scorps love it when you get real with them. they're natural psychologists anyway, so whatever's unsaid is already guessed at...so it's confirmation, really.

they're a water sign. emotions are like foreplay. are you an aqua? you sound like one 🙂

Im actually a leo/taurus ascendant.

My personal feelings have been getting in the way, and I have been putting off telling him about some of the personal issues im going through at this moment. I gave him a sneak pek into my mind once, and while it seemed like he took it very well, he didn't say much. He was more comforting with his body language than hs words.



These are very serious issues, and that is why I dont know if I should tell him. I was injured awhile ago, and while I was recovering I went through some very life changing mental processes. One part of me wants someone to hold me, the other part wants to be stubborn and cling to my pride.

Posted by LoveAndDrugs
I gave him a sneak pek into my mind once, and while it seemed like he took it very well, he didn't say much. He was more comforting with his body language than hs words.

keep in mind that's a man thing, actions mean more.

Posted by LoveAndDrugs
Im actually a leo/taurus ascendant.

These are very serious issues, and that is why I dont know if I should tell him. I was injured awhile ago, and while I was recovering I went through some very life changing mental processes. One part of me wants someone to hold me, the other part wants to be stubborn and cling to my pride.

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i did get a 'fixed' vibe from you, probably why i thought you were an aqua 😛

how do you feel about this man? because if you're serious about him, stubborness has no place in your situation. having these barriers...question if he's the right person for you. if he is, being emotionally exposed will feel natural. it's only an obstacle if you allow it to be, in your head.

i'm not saying bombard him with your entire life story, but if there are things in your past which affect you they will in turn affect him, so he should know. you can show him all sides of yourself and a person who loves/is right for you will only respond positively to that.

Posted by caesarkreshen


I don't think you should air your personal issues.

I'd say if you are gonna open up to anyone, you should make sure you're not going to be a burden to them and you should make sure that it doesn't seem like you're trying to manipulate them by telling them what they might think they want to hear.

If you stay away from those two things, open up all you want.

Im not trying to manipulate him. I have to do whats best for me, and I feel as if he only knows a little about who I really am, manly because he doesnt ask. The last thing /i would ever do is tell him what he wants to hear. We have a pretty open relationship when it comes to communication.

But telling him about this is very difficult for me. I dont like to talk about my feelings much, and have always been able to handle myself. Telling him about this [with all of the details] is like me making an emotional commitment to him. Im not sure if I like that because im not a fan of being vulnerable.

Posted by FireDragonScorpio
L&😱 i know exactly what you mean. i also have issues which i will need to address early on if i start seeing someone seriously and so i know how important it is to you that the information is treated with respect, understanding and a huge level of trust. i don't know when the time is right for that as i never seem to be able to guage what response it will get but it's the response part that is important to me as i am sensing it is with you. i mean you don't want them to ridicule you or just brush aside your feelings when they are that important to the point of defining who you are and a lot of the behaviour they might otherwise misunderstand.

i would just advise you to wait for when it feels right for you. not when the moment is right with him but when you know you can not only say what you have to say but be open to discuss it afterwards too.....and that is the part that requires trust and understanding.

the one advantage of being in this situation is that you can find out very early on in a relationship if it's going to work or not. how that conversation goes will really set the foundation for what comes after.

i wish you the best with that 🙂

I think it would work It would just be a sad sight to see him withdraw himself.