ScorpioChica
@ScorpioChica
13 Years
Comments: 2 · Posts: 326 · Topics: 12
Does anyone think their Venus sign dictates if
Judging upon experience, once two Venus in Scorps unite, it's quite difficult to take any other relationship after that serious.
I don't jump into relationships unless I know I'll be taking it serious.
I'm a stayer, not a strayer.
I'm guessing you and your ex enjoyed the intimacy between one another?
And almost 9 years.. That's tough to break away from in general.
I don't jump into relationships unless I know I'll be taking it serious.
I'm a stayer, not a strayer.
I'm guessing you and your ex enjoyed the intimacy between one another?
And almost 9 years.. That's tough to break away from in general.
Posted by antonarnia
Judging upon experience, once two Venus in Scorps unite, it's quite difficult to take any other relationship after that serious.
I don't jump into relationships unless I know I'll be taking it serious.
I'm a stayer, not a strayer.
I'm guessing you and your ex enjoyed the intimacy between one another?
And almost 9 years.. That's tough to break away from in general.
Yes this was in 2009 & I've dated another guy, a Capricorn with Venus in Aquarius but it didn't work, he's a compulsive liar..
Since I've only recently dabbled in the importance of the Venus sign for compatibility, I've started to connect the dots & have realized I don't mesh well with fire signs in Venus
Posted by xdimplez
i have cancer in venus. i think im going to have some sort of fairy tale romance with every guy i date.
then my virgo in merc. curb stomps little crabby pants and shouts 'aint nobody got time fo dat'.
Lol
Posted by ScorpioChica
Does anyone think their Venus sign dictates if they're gonna stray OR take the relationship serious?
I'm a Scorpio Venus & haven't met anyone I can take serious since I broke up with my ex Virgo of 8 1/2 yrs.
I just did a chart on him & just found out he also has Venus in Scorpio...
aww man that's a long time.. sorry things didn't work out. I'm a Taurus with a Venus in Aries, I don't stray, but I DEF know when its time for me to leave. I give notice well in advance (When I start to feel antsy, too bored, predictable or "settled") but if nothing has been done to improve the situation, or to "spice things up" then I'm OUTTA there. They can't say they weren't warned and/or didn't know WHY I left.
Posted by ScorpioChica
Since I've only recently dabbled in the importance of the Venus sign for compatibility, I've started to connect the dots & have realized I don't mesh well with fire signs in Venusclick to expand
compatibilty doesn't only rely on the "Venus".. you may want to take a closer look at their "Moon (emotions) & Mercury (communication). I sometimes look at their Mars (sexuality & drive), to see if I'll be dealing with a "retaliatory" or aggressive type. So I know my "Limits" with them ahead of time.
Venus is just "Part" of the puzzle in love matters it gives a glimpse of your partner's "Love Language."
Just because your partner's love language may not be understood by you from the beginning, doesn't mean it can't be learned.
My ex Cap's Venus was in Scorpio, and Mine(as mentioned above) is in Aries (a fire Venus)..
We're BOTH Earth signs, but my MOON is in Scorpio, my emotions resonated with HIS Venus. (I didn't mind his jealousy, or stalkerish ways..lol)..He was one of the few men that I loved.
If only he has his STUFF together, I would have married the man, EASILY. But that wont be. I still have love for him though.
So you see?? All is not lost if the Venus' don't EXACTLY match.
Cap Sun/ Cap Venus
The contract is everything. No contract, then we have nothing. If you have not explicitly stated that we are in an exclusive, monogamous relationship, and that you are my boyfriend, then you are nothing to me. I will assume that you are sleeping with anyone and everyone and I will do the same. Sure, I'll still play with you...until I get tired of you or find someone better.
When we have a verbal contract, I'm yours forever OR until you do something that shows me that you're a -fill in the blank: flake, asshole, idiot, etc.
If we have a written contract, then I will be yours forever, accept all your flaws, do anything for you, and do anything to try and fix the relationship if it is broken, at all costs including my personal sanity/happiness, barring some kind of repeated abuse or infidelity. In that case, I will nullify the contract.
The contract is everything. No contract, then we have nothing. If you have not explicitly stated that we are in an exclusive, monogamous relationship, and that you are my boyfriend, then you are nothing to me. I will assume that you are sleeping with anyone and everyone and I will do the same. Sure, I'll still play with you...until I get tired of you or find someone better.
When we have a verbal contract, I'm yours forever OR until you do something that shows me that you're a -fill in the blank: flake, asshole, idiot, etc.
If we have a written contract, then I will be yours forever, accept all your flaws, do anything for you, and do anything to try and fix the relationship if it is broken, at all costs including my personal sanity/happiness, barring some kind of repeated abuse or infidelity. In that case, I will nullify the contract.
My venus is in scorpio. I think it's a very difficult placement for being able to love and then let go when the relationship ends, even if you rationally know it's the right thing to do, i.e., the emotions will linger. I won't commit in a relationship unless I feel it can be serious, and once I commit, there's no straying.
Posted by ScorpioChica
Since I've only recently dabbled in the importance of the Venus sign for compatibility, I've started to connect the dots & have realized I don't mesh well with fire signs in Venus
1+.
The fickle and superficial outlook of fire signs towards relationships(especially commitment) is a huge turn off for me.
Posted by ellessque
libra venus
I always have one foot out until you invite me all the way in. I don't get an invite, I don't stay around.
once I'm in, I'm in. I'm not going anywhere after that.
however, you betray me....I bolt. No looking back, no second chance. I'm out like last years fashion.
+1 I have Venus in Libra and Mars in Scorpio.
Posted by TAURUSbellePosted by ScorpioChica
Does anyone think their Venus sign dictates if they're gonna stray OR take the relationship serious?
I'm a Scorpio Venus & haven't met anyone I can take serious since I broke up with my ex Virgo of 8 1/2 yrs.
I just did a chart on him & just found out he also has Venus in Scorpio...
aww man that's a long time.. sorry things didn't work out. I'm a Taurus with a Venus in Aries, I don't stray, but I DEF know when its time for me to leave. I give notice well in advance (When I start to feel antsy, too bored, predictable or "settled") but if nothing has been done to improve the situation, or to "spice things up" then I'm OUTTA there. They can't say they weren't warned and/or didn't know WHY I left.
Posted by ScorpioChica
Since I've only recently dabbled in the importance of the Venus sign for compatibility, I've started to connect the dots & have realized I don't mesh well with fire signs in Venus
compatibilty doesn't only rely on the "Venus".. you may want to take a closer look at their "Moon (emotions) & Mercury (communication). I sometimes look at their Mars (sexuality & drive), to see if I'll be dealing with a "retaliatory" or aggressive type. So I know my "Limits" with them ahead of time.
Venus is just "Part" of the puzzle in love matters it gives a glimpse of your partner's "Love Language."
Just because your partner's love language may not be understood by you from the beginning, doesn't mean it can't be learned.
My ex Cap's Venus was in Scorpio, and Mine(as mentioned above) is in Aries (a fire Venus)..
We're BOTH Earth signs, but my MOON is in Scorpio, my emotions resonated with HIS Venus. (I didn't mind his jealousy, or stalkerish ways..lol)..He was one of the few men that I loved.
If only he has his STUFF together, I would have married the man, EASILY. But that wont be. I still have love for him though.
So you see?? All is not lost if the Venus' don't EXACTLY match.click to expand
I understand it better now, but I have noticed a pattern with fire/air signs in Venus, I guess I'm better matched to a water sign Venus
Pisces sun/ Aries venus
My sun (or something else?) always changes it's mind on what it wants and my aries venus takes charge and I run away. And then my sun second guesses itself and I go back and then my venus gets bored again. My sun wants to be in a committed relationship with a deep, meaningful connection, but with my venus, it seems to enhance my feelings of wanting to leave whenever I get bored or feel things aren't going to work. A scorp sun, virgo venus was able to catch me for two years. So far, that's the longest. He was all about commitment and was ready to live his life out with me from the beginning, it seemed. I have zero experience with fire or air venuses, but I imagine that might be pretty iffy. Found an aqua with venus in pisces to be really committed, too, though, seemed to be allergic to the word 'marriage' in true aqua fashion. Both guys were dominant in scorpio, though, and I feel that's important to take into consideration, for the loyalty/commitment aspect of it.
My sun (or something else?) always changes it's mind on what it wants and my aries venus takes charge and I run away. And then my sun second guesses itself and I go back and then my venus gets bored again. My sun wants to be in a committed relationship with a deep, meaningful connection, but with my venus, it seems to enhance my feelings of wanting to leave whenever I get bored or feel things aren't going to work. A scorp sun, virgo venus was able to catch me for two years. So far, that's the longest. He was all about commitment and was ready to live his life out with me from the beginning, it seemed. I have zero experience with fire or air venuses, but I imagine that might be pretty iffy. Found an aqua with venus in pisces to be really committed, too, though, seemed to be allergic to the word 'marriage' in true aqua fashion. Both guys were dominant in scorpio, though, and I feel that's important to take into consideration, for the loyalty/commitment aspect of it.
Posted by ScorpvenusPosted by ScorpioChica
Since I've only recently dabbled in the importance of the Venus sign for compatibility, I've started to connect the dots & have realized I don't mesh well with fire signs in Venus
1+.
The fickle and superficial outlook of fire signs towards relationships(especially commitment) is a huge turn off for me.click to expand
I think other elements need to be considered. I have my Venus in Sag and I am no where near superficial or fickle when it comes to relationships--thanks to my Sun sign. I do require a lot of stimulation to keep me interested, but the lack of stimulation from my partner does not mean I will stray from the relationship.
Posted by ScorpioChica
Does anyone think their Venus sign dictates if they're gonna stray OR take the relationship serious?
No. I think it influences what we need to feel connected to another person in a relationship.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by ScorpvenusPosted by ScorpioChica
Since I've only recently dabbled in the importance of the Venus sign for compatibility, I've started to connect the dots & have realized I don't mesh well with fire signs in Venus
1+.
The fickle and superficial outlook of fire signs towards relationships(especially commitment) is a huge turn off for me.
I think other elements need to be considered. I have my Venus in Sag and I am no where near superficial or fickle when it comes to relationships--thanks to my Sun sign. I do require a lot of stimulation to keep me interested, but the lack of stimulation from my partner does not mean I will stray from the relationship.click to expand
I should clarify because it looks like I was contradicting myself here. I need a lot sexual, emotional, physical and mental stimulation to be happy in a relationship. If something (no more than one) is missing, or the relationship lacks the intensity I need it does not necessarily mean I will stray. My partner and I will need to have a long conversation though.
Posted by ScorpioChica
Does anyone think their Venus sign dictates if they're gonna stray OR take the relationship serious?
I'm a Scorpio Venus & haven't met anyone I can take serious since I broke up with my ex Virgo of 8 1/2 yrs.
I just did a chart on him & just found out he also has Venus in Scorpio...
It is a strong indicator you have a scorpio venus and that is a strong venus to stay loyal. But that's not all the way true for scorpio venus you are looking for some one that is totally into you and only you, someone that would jump on a sword for you lol. That's not going to be easy, sign of cheating are many but here are the ones that I see all the time. Moon square or opposite venus mars squared venus and venus conjunct uranus.
Speaking out of personal experience, yes. I am a Sagittarian with Venus in Scorpio. I'm not even remotely close to the textbook definition of Sagittarius in relationships. As I was very different from some of my fellow archers, I searched for answers in my natal chart. Then again, one Sagi I know has Venus in Capricorn with a Taurus Moon, and Scorpio Mars for company - yet, there's no passion at all, let alone the kind that makes a relationship last. To sum it up, the Venus sign might have a bearing on the native's commitment, but other nuanced influences in the chart not visible to the untrained reader could supersede the energy of one planet.
It matters what house it is in more than the sign. For example if you have a Scorpio Venus and it is in the 11th house you will treat you partners more like a friend than a lover.
Posted by virgokingawwww DAMN. My Venus in Aries is in 11th house... does the same rule apply?
It matters what house it is in more than the sign. For example if you have a Scorpio Venus and it is in the 11th house you will treat you partners more like a friend than a lover.
Posted by TAURUSbellePosted by virgokingawwww DAMN. My Venus in Aries is in 11th house... does the same rule apply?
It matters what house it is in more than the sign. For example if you have a Scorpio Venus and it is in the 11th house you will treat you partners more like a friend than a lover.click to expand
Yes you may also meet partners in group setting as well. DON'T WORRY I have it to plus its a good place for getting money as well.
I like dark & dangerous bahaha
Posted by starlover
Venus in in detriment in Scorpio ~ i have it ~ not good, doesnt settle too well and causes problems in r/ships, can be a bit dark and dangerous
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
I have several Scorp friends male & female and love them to death. However I've noticed a pattern. Sometimes they won't
Leonardo - Water: Intuitive(Pisces), Leader/Father-like(Cancer), Militant(Scorpio) Raphael - Fire: Proud(Leo), Ho
The April 2013 Lunar Eclipse in Scorpio: A Pit Stop in the Evolution of Human Consciousness The starry heavens will
The April 2013 Lunar Eclipse in Scorpio: A Pit Stop in the Evolution of Human Consciousness The starry heavens will
So I was rifling through Scorpio forum and they had this Scorp-isms topic posted! Seems like fun! List your favorite is
Share your favorite.
I wrote a Sorry ive been a jerk, can we start over poem for my scorpio. He is the sweetest thing, but I was neglectful
Rapper Future (Nayvadius Wilburn) and R&B singer Ciara Harris ...(BOTH whom are SCORPIOS) recently got matching tattoo
Alright. So as most of you know I came to this board originally for my Scorpio. The infamous one I swear Ive posted
Today when I was walking past him, my friend saw him staring at me from the head to toe. She described the stare as 'rea
Did he delete? :(
Alright guys, I broke the number ONE rule with a scorpio. I lied to him, twice. Needless to say he took it to heart an
I am a scorpio sun, capricorn moon and libra in venus I consider myself extremely loyal in all of my relationships/f
I'm a venus in scorp. I get obsessive impulsive want what I can't have am emotionally intense sometimes. I get jealous
have a move in date. :)
So, I came on here in the middle of March to talk about this Scorpio boss I have. I am a Cancer. I was told to run. lo
1. Pick up on what someone's thinking by just looking at them and their eyes. 2. Feel someone's, one that you are emoti
First... the story: I met a Scorpio chick in the second half of 2011... for me, it was one of those sudden attraction
Are you attracted to people who have your sun-sign as their ascendant (for example, if you are a Scorpio are you particu
So, hopefully most of you know my story with Mr. Scorp. We've known each other for 8+years, in LDR for 6+ yada yada. So
I'm a Scorpio Venus & haven't met anyone I can take serious since I broke up with my ex Virgo of 8 1/2 yrs.
I just did a chart on him & just found out he also has Venus in Scorpio...