Don't let go.

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juwanapla
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My step mother. Actually I call her my father's wife. She is a bitch! She has been with by dad since I was 2. She verbally abused me all my life. She turned my father against me by telling him lies upon lies. He eventually stopped talking to me about 8 years ago. I can't even defend myself against her because he completely cut me off.

I can't wait until the day she is on her deathbed! I'm going to dump hot tar in her hair and put itching powder in her hospital bed. Then I'll sit back and try to think about ways to make her last hours miserable!!!!!!!
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I don't really linger with situations -- I have way too much going on to think about what has happened. All I can do is move forward and realize that human being aren't perfect and we ALL make mistakes -- sometimes the same ones 😉 However, make trust level varies with people based on the way I was treated in the past.

I hang around those I trust more then those I don't. I can be polite to anyone, but that's about as far as it goes.
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juwanapla
@juwanapla
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My daughter is a scorp and very much like me (she is 13). We got into a tiff this summer and she cut me off for 6 weeks. She lives with her father, so it's not like she HAD to look at me every day. Anyway, she would not answer my phone calls or texts. I eventually picked her up one day and sat her down for an adult talk. I told her she was so much like me that I could practically read her mind. I also told her, like me, when she feels like she is wronged that if she can't forgive and forget she's at least got to get over it.