valkyriea
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emotional balancing act with aries
Have faith valkyriea, I am an Aries dating a Scorpio who is so put together as you all seem to be, and I understand that emotions run deep with you Scorpios.
Aries have emotions, and we can deny them well to survive, but everything in a relationship is felt somewhat equally just in different ways. I feel like such a wreck next to my Scorpio when it comes to controlling my emotions, and wish it was easier in relationships to feel secure in everyday stuff and new things that arise.
Don't be afraid to talk it out, or say at least I miss you, I want us to try harder, or whatever can be said that will let you remain so balanced.
We are rather honest creatures and usually mindful of the feelings of those we care for, so don't be afraid to talk it out or ask the Aries questions to get the answers you need to feel better about any topic.
It just might be the step toward counteracting your feelings and the way you feel you present yourself to others.
If you have any tips on how to keep in tune with a Scorpio, I am all ears, you guys are amazing people.
Aries have emotions, and we can deny them well to survive, but everything in a relationship is felt somewhat equally just in different ways. I feel like such a wreck next to my Scorpio when it comes to controlling my emotions, and wish it was easier in relationships to feel secure in everyday stuff and new things that arise.
Don't be afraid to talk it out, or say at least I miss you, I want us to try harder, or whatever can be said that will let you remain so balanced.
We are rather honest creatures and usually mindful of the feelings of those we care for, so don't be afraid to talk it out or ask the Aries questions to get the answers you need to feel better about any topic.
It just might be the step toward counteracting your feelings and the way you feel you present yourself to others.
If you have any tips on how to keep in tune with a Scorpio, I am all ears, you guys are amazing people.
Hi, thanks so much for the replies, heroic_guy and OvSp. But, I'm afraid, I've broken up with him. Feel terrible now, but I had to let him go, because I was causing just so much heartache for him, I couldn't help myself at all...the last few days, he just turned cold...and stopped caring. It broke my heart to little pieces but I knew it was time to let go. At least, that was what my mind told me...Will be posting over at the Aries board for advice so if any of you can help, it will be very welcome...
heroic_guy, just remain the sweetheart that you are 🙂 I love my Aries for his strength, his radiant smile, and all that light that he brought into my life. It shone so brightly and radiantly just for me...No matter what you do, don't stop loving her, and don't stop showing that to her in every possible way you can, no matter how long you've been together or how comfortable you may have gotten. As long as she feels your strong love for her, and she reciprocates it, she WILL embrace and appreciate the emotions that you are showing. I wish I could help more but...I'm unable to help even myself, so please accept my well wishes for now =)
heroic_guy, just remain the sweetheart that you are 🙂 I love my Aries for his strength, his radiant smile, and all that light that he brought into my life. It shone so brightly and radiantly just for me...No matter what you do, don't stop loving her, and don't stop showing that to her in every possible way you can, no matter how long you've been together or how comfortable you may have gotten. As long as she feels your strong love for her, and she reciprocates it, she WILL embrace and appreciate the emotions that you are showing. I wish I could help more but...I'm unable to help even myself, so please accept my well wishes for now =)
it must be different for an aries gal, cause my ex, has no spine while she is very social and outgoing she lets people walk all over her.
she doesn't confront people very often about anything and my brother who is an aries is the same way, they seem to just bury it inside of them.
she doesn't confront people very often about anything and my brother who is an aries is the same way, they seem to just bury it inside of them.
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