Chatz
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Ending a Scorpio Fling
grrrrr at these comments getting cut off.....
Given I was such a big part of his day where we spent hours chatting and then at nights on FB and Skype, etc.
My question is: Is that the end of it? Will he leave me alone? will he behave all weird towards me now? am I now the bad guy so to speak? Have I hurt his pride and me be the one to be on the receiving end of his sting? I hope not because I just didn't know any of the above. The crappy part is I really liked him for being him but I guess he never really showed the real him but nah, I don't want to go back there but would like to be prepared with any advice you guys might be able to give as to how to go about things now. I have read that Scorps hate being dumped and usually have Plan B to Z when Plan A doesn't work.....ive not heard from him since so I imagine he's probably licking his own wounds or maybe, just maybe he's thinking long and hard about his own future and/or what he's actually done (doubtful but I live in hope)
Given I was such a big part of his day where we spent hours chatting and then at nights on FB and Skype, etc.
My question is: Is that the end of it? Will he leave me alone? will he behave all weird towards me now? am I now the bad guy so to speak? Have I hurt his pride and me be the one to be on the receiving end of his sting? I hope not because I just didn't know any of the above. The crappy part is I really liked him for being him but I guess he never really showed the real him but nah, I don't want to go back there but would like to be prepared with any advice you guys might be able to give as to how to go about things now. I have read that Scorps hate being dumped and usually have Plan B to Z when Plan A doesn't work.....ive not heard from him since so I imagine he's probably licking his own wounds or maybe, just maybe he's thinking long and hard about his own future and/or what he's actually done (doubtful but I live in hope)
Fuck him. While I don't actually condone messing around, he owed you that much to be up front about it. Walk away from this while you still can. Better yet, run!
Sorry, I'm confused. Are you saying you WANT to retain some type of involvement with this amoral man? Whatever for?
Posted by Chatz
Now the thing is he did NOT tell me he was in a relationship, in fact the man is engaged to be married and has a 2yo son. I found out that he has been with her for 7 years so of course he didn't have proper time for me, not like we could go on public dates, etc. So when I found this out I told him the above yet I never abused nor insulted him, I didn't even mention that there was somebody else. He understood and said "I totally get where you're coming from and understand that you deserve "more" and obviously I cant give that but yes Im fine with being "just friends", it was fun while it lasted though 🙂"
Im pretty angry that I was turned into "the other woman" without my knowledge, in fact Im livid but he'll never know that and he realizes his secret is safe with me....Ive never in my life purposely got involved with a man who was with somebody else. I feel he's taken it too well, given I was such a
No sympathy at all...nada. Any woman that lays down and spreads to a man she doesn't get to fully know first doesn't get to be angry or question anything. Your story has been through the bullshit detector and failed miserably. Meaning I highly sense you knew all of this and thought you could take another woman's man and a child's father away from them. Backfired..
Posted by Chatz
grrrrr at these comments getting cut off.....
Given I was such a big part of his day where we spent hours chatting and then at nights on FB and Skype, etc.
My question is: Is that the end of it? Will he leave me alone? will he behave all weird towards me now? am I now the bad guy so to speak? Have I hurt his pride and me be the one to be on the receiving end of his sting? I hope not because I just didn't know any of the above. The crappy part is I really liked him for being him but I guess he never really showed the real him but nah, I don't want to go back there but would like to be prepared with any advice you guys might be able to give as to how to go about things now. I have read that Scorps hate being dumped and usually have Plan B to Z when Plan A doesn't work.....ive not heard from him since so I imagine he's probably licking his own wounds or maybe, just maybe he's thinking long and hard about his own future and/or what he's actually done (doubtful but I live in hope)
Stop with the damn hope bullshit please it looks pathetically desperate.
Posted by Chatz
Of course as much as I know about Scorps is that you guys are loyal to those who deserve it, loving, again to those who deserve it and I know you are very seductive, sexual beings and his eyes (never really looked into them until he started talking with me) and OMG I am finding it hard to not be under his spell. I don't know what it was that I did to attract him but he's coming on full force.
Now what? I don't even know what I did lol. I enjoy the banter we have and even the innuendos that he springs on me but I don't want a fling, Im not interested in a meaningless office romance either.....I guess what Im asking is do Scorpios normally engage in this sort of thing at work if they have no intention of wanting more?
I bumped your last thread..
If you didn't know (I know you did) you should have found out before jumping into bed with him.. Fix your story and get back to us.
If you didn't know (I know you did) you should have found out before jumping into bed with him.. Fix your story and get back to us.
You feel bad for a guy who was using you to cheat with—?
Guess you like chewing other people's gum. Some people are into it.
Guess you like chewing other people's gum. Some people are into it.
Posted by Sag89
You feel bad for a guy who was using you to cheat with—?
Guess you like chewing other people's gum. Some people are into it.
I actually do that lol
Posted by ryu8
I actually do that lol
hahaha me and my ex would share chewing gum that we already chewed.
scorpio men have a gift of treating every woman like they are the only women.
dont worry about his feelings because he doesnt give 2 shits about yours.
dont worry about his feelings because he doesnt give 2 shits about yours.
Posted by DMV
scorpio men have a gift of treating every woman like they are the only women.
dont worry about his feelings because he doesnt give 2 shits about yours.
werd
Sag boys do it too 😢
Posted by Chatz
.....ive not heard from him since so I imagine he's probably licking his own wounds or maybe, just maybe he's thinking long and hard about....what he's actually done
Or none of the above. He's probably just living his life with his family without a second thought about it. As he said:
Posted by Chatz
..."Im fine with being "just friends", it was fun while it lasted though 🙂"
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Translations: Peace out....Whew, she made this much easier than I thought. Sweet.
Posted by DMV
scorpio men have a gift of treating every woman like they are the only women.
dont worry about his feelings because he doesnt give 2 shits about yours.
That's the thing, he never treated her like she was the only one.
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