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Experience with Pisces Men
Posted by BikerCh1ck
The fish will approach you if he feels that wants to leave the experience to be with you. Like a fish will go and hide to a cave. It has no feeling of time but goes with its own clock. It is very dreamy and it suitable to people with debth and emotional maturity.
The fish usually tends to stay with people that can provide stability such as virgos. They can then relax and be themselves.
They have fantastic imagination and are good lovers. They see with the eyes of the soul.
The best strategy to keep the fish is to be nice and not scare it.
Make sure that you are a woman that respects herself because the fish will sense it.
I had 2 short term relationships with fishes and 1 crush with an aries/pisces guy.
Yea I want to be nice, but this guy kinda has a little arrogant side to him.... It makes me want to teach him a lesson 😉
Ha!
Posted by BikerCh1ck
(btw can you please have a look at my post: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships/was-he-only-being-polite-4164151/ your opinion will be appreciated ^_^ )
Will do.
Ugh! Me and my pride. I do not like to feel as though someone is trying to..... be... manipulative... or slick.
I think he might be a little intimidated by the age difference as well. Although it is not huge, (not to toot my horn AT ALL), I know he has not dated a woman like me before. So, I think it MIGHT intrigue him and intimidate him as well.
Its just something about an appearingly (is that a word? ha!) arrogant man, that just makes me want to bring them back down to size. Lol
I think he might be a little intimidated by the age difference as well. Although it is not huge, (not to toot my horn AT ALL), I know he has not dated a woman like me before. So, I think it MIGHT intrigue him and intimidate him as well.
Its just something about an appearingly (is that a word? ha!) arrogant man, that just makes me want to bring them back down to size. Lol
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Water signs work the same way. That's why you think he could be manipulative. But think about this. When you have been accused of being manipulative in the past have you thought you were being manipulative?
It takes maturity which you have.
Just a thought.
True... But these men are crazy! LOL. I kid.. I kid..
Posted by tiziani
Personally I think IS is right. If you think a Pisces is being slippery now in the opening pleasantries, you could be direct and take off the gloves then you'll really see the slippery side of them. They take a lot of things to heart and it doesn't take much communication gone wrong for them to move the goalposts and get on the defensive.
Either way if things are going well, just enjoy it. Scary thing about relationships is when we enjoy them, we're reminded there are no rules really. Communication and make them up together as you go along.
Ohh for heaven's sake...
Why cant it just be easy. Lol. I like it easy. Easy and laid back. Ha!
Posted by natural25
Ugh! Me and my pride. I do not like to feel as though someone is trying to..... be... manipulative... or slick.
I think he might be a little intimidated by the age difference as well. Although it is not huge, (not to toot my horn AT ALL), I know he has not dated a woman like me before. So, I think it MIGHT intrigue him and intimidate him as well.
Its just something about an appearingly (is that a word? ha!) arrogant man, that just makes me want to bring them back down to size. Lol
Lol, i am the same way. I think pisces guys have a way off coming off like that to us scorps. I think it's interesting what IrrScorp said, never thought if it that way. You may be on to something.
In my experience though it caused some, probably unnecessary, clash between the pisces and I. Ultimately I didn't have the patience for it. Now that you are aware of it and receiving advice here, probably best to use it in a positive way 🙂
Posted by natural25Posted by tiziani
Personally I think IS is right. If you think a Pisces is being slippery now in the opening pleasantries, you could be direct and take off the gloves then you'll really see the slippery side of them. They take a lot of things to heart and it doesn't take much communication gone wrong for them to move the goalposts and get on the defensive.
Either way if things are going well, just enjoy it. Scary thing about relationships is when we enjoy them, we're reminded there are no rules really. Communication and make them up together as you go along.
Ohh for heaven's sake...
Why cant it just be easy. Lol. I like it easy. Easy and laid back. Ha!click to expand
Lol are u sure u are not my twin?? I have a hunch pisces men are not really 'easy' to deal with. But u know what they say about things that come easy lol :p
You know.... I think I am also going by my last relationship. An Aqua who cherished the ground I walked on, almost from the very BEGINNING. I am used to that approach. Lol. Men who actively and intently pursue me and at least ACT as though you are the end all be all...
His little bout with arrogance last night... was not indicative of intently pursuing me... Grrr...
His little bout with arrogance last night... was not indicative of intently pursuing me... Grrr...
Posted by aNEWdayPosted by natural25Posted by tiziani
Personally I think IS is right. If you think a Pisces is being slippery now in the opening pleasantries, you could be direct and take off the gloves then you'll really see the slippery side of them. They take a lot of things to heart and it doesn't take much communication gone wrong for them to move the goalposts and get on the defensive.
Either way if things are going well, just enjoy it. Scary thing about relationships is when we enjoy them, we're reminded there are no rules really. Communication and make them up together as you go along.
Ohh for heaven's sake...
Why cant it just be easy. Lol. I like it easy. Easy and laid back. Ha!
Lol are u sure u are not my twin?? I have a hunch pisces men are not really 'easy' to deal with. But u know what they say about things that come easy lol :pclick to expand
Lol.
I am tired! I just want someone to come in and sweep me off my feet. Ha!
Posted by tiziani
Well you know one of the best things about Pisces is if you tell them what pleases you, they WILL do it 🙂
And yet.... something holds me back from disclosing such information so soon..
Posted by natural25
You know.... I think I am also going by my last relationship. An Aqua who cherished the ground I walked on, almost from the very BEGINNING. I am used to that approach. Lol. Men who actively and intently pursue me and at least ACT as though you are the end all be all...
His little bout with arrogance last night... was not indicative of intently pursuing me... Grrr...
thats the libra moon in you.
he's not going to be a doting pisces if there are others doting over you.
This is entirely too murch.... And yes..I mean MURCH! Lol.
It just wrecks of disrespect, the more I think about it...
It just wrecks of disrespect, the more I think about it...
No Skills or techniques to share, but I will say the one I encountered was very passionate, tall, dark *sigh* and stealthy.
I recall he was very sensitive and not the best communicators when he felt hurt (similar to the rest of us water signs--go figure). When he felt slighted he wouldn't say anything, he just withdrew and did that passive aggressive bs thng that irks the hell out of me. Even when I asked outright —did I do something to offend you—. I had to ask the same question two different times in two different ways before I got the truth. My BFF does that as well and I had to pinch her the other day (literally) and say "look, I wasn't trying to slight you. Honestly. I'm sorry I offended you." after she denied being upset at least two times.
Use your Scorpy senses and be sure to pick up any emotional distance and nip that in the butt immediately before it grows teeth, because once they??ve come to a conclusion about something that has happened they get into a funk.
Oh yeah, they hold a grudge like a motha' (similar to other water signs--go figure 😛)
I recall he was very sensitive and not the best communicators when he felt hurt (similar to the rest of us water signs--go figure). When he felt slighted he wouldn't say anything, he just withdrew and did that passive aggressive bs thng that irks the hell out of me. Even when I asked outright —did I do something to offend you—. I had to ask the same question two different times in two different ways before I got the truth. My BFF does that as well and I had to pinch her the other day (literally) and say "look, I wasn't trying to slight you. Honestly. I'm sorry I offended you." after she denied being upset at least two times.
Use your Scorpy senses and be sure to pick up any emotional distance and nip that in the butt immediately before it grows teeth, because once they??ve come to a conclusion about something that has happened they get into a funk.
Oh yeah, they hold a grudge like a motha' (similar to other water signs--go figure 😛)
Posted by JenLovePosted by natural25
You know.... I think I am also going by my last relationship. An Aqua who cherished the ground I walked on, almost from the very BEGINNING. I am used to that approach. Lol. Men who actively and intently pursue me and at least ACT as though you are the end all be all...
His little bout with arrogance last night... was not indicative of intently pursuing me... Grrr...
I was in a similar situation with my 2nd bf. He treated me like an absolute queen so I got really use to that and I thought that other guys would treat me the same and that's definitely not always the case. Don't fool yourself into thinking that every guy is going to value you the way another one did and that they're all going to be genuine.
You just met this guy over the weekend. I've also already seen some of your other posts about him and I personally think you need to slow down a bit. No matter what this guy's sign is, he's still a person you don't really know yet. I know sometimes when you don't date for a while you become eager to work things out when you meet someone new who really intrigues you, usually that's how you set yourself up for disappointment. Get to know him better and try to control your emotions so that they don't cloud your judgment too much to the point where you can't see his true colors.click to expand
You are ABSOLUTELY 100% right! Thank you!
Time to turn it down a notch...
Posted by PhoenixRising
No Skills or techniques to share, but I will say the one I encountered was very passionate, tall, dark *sigh* and stealthy.
I recall he was very sensitive and not the best communicators when he felt hurt (similar to the rest of us water signs--go figure). When he felt slighted he wouldn't say anything, he just withdrew and did that passive aggressive bs thng that irks the hell out of me. Even when I asked outright —did I do something to offend you—. I had to ask the same question two different times in two different ways before I got the truth. My BFF does that as well and I had to pinch her the other day (literally) and say "look, I wasn't trying to slight you. Honestly. I'm sorry I offended you." after she denied being upset at least two times.
Use your Scorpy senses and be sure to pick up any emotional distance and nip that in the butt immediately before it grows teeth, because once they??ve come to a conclusion about something that has happened they get into a funk.
Oh yeah, they hold a grudge like a motha' (similar to other water signs--go figure 😛)
Lol @ stealthy! I love it!
Yea... I think I have gotten caught up in the moment and forgotten what my Scorp powers are capable of. I am about to nip a lot of things in the butt!
Posted by ConfusedScorpio
I met two Pisces men who were polar opposites.
I met Pisces #1 back when I was 19. He was the sweetest guy. However, he was a big dreamer and had a problem with reality and today's society. He was good looking, smart but a bit critical. He was a huge romantic which was really sweet. A bit clingy but I didn't mind. He would call me all the time and was very attentive and caring.
We'd spend hours talking without getting bored. We clicked instantly (on an intellectual level).
I ended our friendship/relationship because of the distance and I don't regret it.
I met Pisces #2 now I'm in my mid-twenties. This second Pisces is a nightmare! I seriously think he is a d*uche. He's self-absorbed, self-righteous, sarcastic to the point of arrogant, cold as a brick, hard to read. Yet, I'm so attracted to him, I just can't shake him off my mind no matter how hard I try. The first time I saw him, I was instantly drawn to him like crazy and so was he. But then he went cold after that. A dreamer with no real job who lives in his own little bubble. He sucks at communication big time. But God, he's so cute, his little angel face and those eyes and so hot at the same time because he's quite manly, it's disturbing.
Too bad he was just stringing me along.
Well datum!
Lets hope he is a happy medium of the two. At least, I know he has a career. LOL!
*dayum
Yea... We shall see says the blind man.
Thank you all for sharing your thoughts and experiences.
I now have my marching orders, and that is to chill the eff out. Taking a step back and we'll see what happens! 🙂
Thank you all for sharing your thoughts and experiences.
I now have my marching orders, and that is to chill the eff out. Taking a step back and we'll see what happens! 🙂
Im gnna be blunt.
You're being a nincompoop.
So can it be too much too soon? I suppose. But if you are already going to take a big step back and start giving mixed signals then its going to mess it all up. Because then he is going to mirror you and give mixed signals and it will set the pace for the rest of the relationship being a teeter totter.
You're being a nincompoop.
So can it be too much too soon? I suppose. But if you are already going to take a big step back and start giving mixed signals then its going to mess it all up. Because then he is going to mirror you and give mixed signals and it will set the pace for the rest of the relationship being a teeter totter.
Posted by MidniteStar
I don't know what it is about Pisces, but anymore I just clash with them. I have this Pisces friend who is very arrogant and he just rubs me the wrong way. There have been many times where I just had to hang up the phone on him because I was afraid I was going to say something I would regret. He'd always text me later saying "you're upset aren't you?" No duh, ya think?
I just recently started talking to this new Pisces who is quite a bit older than me. We were talking about our careers and such and I told him how I wanted to go to graduate school to further my degree in Psychology and how Psychology was my passion etc. He says "Let me challenge you, do you think a Psychology degree has value today?" I don't know why, but that comment just made me so mad. It's almost like my interests, hopes, dreams and passions wasn't good enough. Almost as if he was better than me. I held my cool though because most likely I took it the wrong way. But it's little things like that with Pisces which get me riled up! I don't think we really understand each other.
But they are so damn dreamy though! So it's like none of that other stuff matters. Have fun with your new guy! 🙂
I wish that were my problem. My first boyfriend of six years is a PIsces..but I dont use him as a point of reference because we were so young and my best friend of 16 years is a Pisces. I seem to just click with them, with very little effort. There in lies the issue with this guy. We clicked a little too well. Ha.
Posted by AfternoonDelights22
Im gnna be blunt.
You're being a nincompoop.
So can it be too much too soon? I suppose. But if you are already going to take a big step back and start giving mixed signals then its going to mess it all up. Because then he is going to mirror you and give mixed signals and it will set the pace for the rest of the relationship being a teeter totter.
Lol @ nincompoop!
Well, thats a first. I am not saying I am never going to call him again. Lo. I am just going to stop exerting SO much mental energy on him as of right now. After all, we just met. He doesn't deserve so much of my mental attention and vice versa.
I am simply going to chill out and allow things to happen and not read into everything and be so.... Scopio-ish. Lol 😉
So says the 18 year old.... 🙂
I was not curious as to WHY he appeared arrogant. I was stating my frustration behind my perception of his arrogance. As I have stated in my last few comments, I am good. I have it under control.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Have good night!
I was not curious as to WHY he appeared arrogant. I was stating my frustration behind my perception of his arrogance. As I have stated in my last few comments, I am good. I have it under control.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Have good night!
Posted by conflictedfish
If there is one thing I have concluded during my year study of astrology is that there is one sign that can give a scorpio a run for its money on intuition and that is pisces. You can not play games with him, he will either pretend to be oblivious or he will do what I would do, and call you on it. Think about it cancers have a shell, scorpios have a stinger and pisces? we have nothing but intuition.. Gets a bit more practice wouldn't you think?
Honey, I am not questioning his intuition. As I have said, I have already made a decision regarding how I plan to proceed based on what is best for me and what I feel most comfortable with.
I am not sure what more to say....
Attitude? No attitude here. I am perfectly fine.
However, it seems as though you might have something to prove coming on my thread with your aggression, when I already stated in previous pages that I am going to take several huge steps away from the situation.
I don't know you and vice versa. Why on earth would I have an attitude with you.
However, it seems as though you might have something to prove coming on my thread with your aggression, when I already stated in previous pages that I am going to take several huge steps away from the situation.
I don't know you and vice versa. Why on earth would I have an attitude with you.
There is a difference between expressing a feeling and seeking counsel on said feeling. The original intent of my thread was to simply hear from others of their experience dating Pisces men. Simple.
As with most threads on the board, it grew legs and the discussion transitioned to a single comment that he made which I found to be arrogant. I do/did not find him to be arrogant overall. I was discussing one comment, not his overall demeanor towards me.
As I said, I have already decided on the best course of action to take and I am comfortable with my decision. In addition, we have already spoken tonight and we are A-OK, sans arrogance.
So, I do appreciate your feedback as this is a public forum, but I DO have it under control. Hence, my stating so hours ago.
I will make sure to brush up on my English when I begin my second year in my Phd program this coming fall, per your suggestion.
Btw, I do not argue on DXP. I just don't. It's a waste of energy. Nor, do I believe in breeding negativity and aggression. With that said, I do truly hope you have a good night and I appreciate you taking the time to read my post.
As with most threads on the board, it grew legs and the discussion transitioned to a single comment that he made which I found to be arrogant. I do/did not find him to be arrogant overall. I was discussing one comment, not his overall demeanor towards me.
As I said, I have already decided on the best course of action to take and I am comfortable with my decision. In addition, we have already spoken tonight and we are A-OK, sans arrogance.
So, I do appreciate your feedback as this is a public forum, but I DO have it under control. Hence, my stating so hours ago.
I will make sure to brush up on my English when I begin my second year in my Phd program this coming fall, per your suggestion.
Btw, I do not argue on DXP. I just don't. It's a waste of energy. Nor, do I believe in breeding negativity and aggression. With that said, I do truly hope you have a good night and I appreciate you taking the time to read my post.
Posted by natural25Posted by AfternoonDelights22
Im gnna be blunt.
You're being a nincompoop.
So can it be too much too soon? I suppose. But if you are already going to take a big step back and start giving mixed signals then its going to mess it all up. Because then he is going to mirror you and give mixed signals and it will set the pace for the rest of the relationship being a teeter totter.
Lol @ nincompoop!
Well, thats a first. I am not saying I am never going to call him again. Lo. I am just going to stop exerting SO much mental energy on him as of right now. After all, we just met. He doesn't deserve so much of my mental attention and vice versa.
I am simply going to chill out and allow things to happen and not read into everything and be so.... Scopio-ish. Lol 😉click to expand
Lol, hes going to be on dxp wondering whats up with this scorpio chick...
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