Extremely Enigmatic Scorpio
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Mr.Scorpio on Thursday, April 13, 2006 and has 16 replies.
Hello everyone, im sorta new to this but have read alot of the messages presented by other Scorpios. Im also a Scorpio, born on Oct.23 1985 which makes my moon sign Pisces, mercury in Scorpio, Saturn in Scorpio and Pluto in Scorpio along with Venus in Libra. also it was the first year when Pluto entered Scorpio in 1985, lol...but anyways i got a problem of my own which i wanted to discuss on this message board. now i dont know if other scorpios experience this or not but its sort of strange... well my first problem is habit of changing personalities in diff. situations....its like i was born with this ability to play the personality of another person, any person....i've been doing it since i was a kid...its like i can literatly get into anyones personality from the smallest detail and play there part. its like this unique form of acting...its sort of weird to explain. it may be a multiple personality disorder but I can become my true self when i feel comfortable with my surroundings...but what scares me is that I dont think theres anyone out there that truly understands me anymore...its like i've gotten so deep into protecting my true nature, being extemely hurt in the past, that I've put on this major shield of personalities so no one could ever hurt me again...but its like im living in a world by myself now, all alone and dark....its like I even have a hard time understanding myself now...but anyways just curious if anyone has experienced somthing similar to that..
Well hello Mr Scorpio..allow me to take you under my wing...lol..I am like a chameleon..I can adapt to any personality/situation/problem blah blah blah..your not alone..come join the scorpio club..Wait and everyone will help you..cos we are all nice like that!..right..must dash back to work..my coffee awaits!
Apparantly a troubled past is a trademark of a scorpio..thats why nobody fks with us in the future!..lol
Apparantly a troubled past is a trademark of a scorpio..thats why nobody fks with us in the future!..lol
Hello Mr.Scorpio
You have pointed out that an ability to tune in into others wavelenght is bad thing. I think you should see it from both sides. From one side you are right, people might have troubles in understanding who you really are which even might become trouble for yourself to understand who you are. This is kind of bad sides of this situation. But there is other side of medallion. It gives you tremendous understanding of how mechanisms of human nature do work. Once you "consciously" realise the mechanisms of human nature, you will find yourself. But the ability to understand others will remain with you, which is the most powerful trait of all human beings.
You have pointed out that an ability to tune in into others wavelenght is bad thing. I think you should see it from both sides. From one side you are right, people might have troubles in understanding who you really are which even might become trouble for yourself to understand who you are. This is kind of bad sides of this situation. But there is other side of medallion. It gives you tremendous understanding of how mechanisms of human nature do work. Once you "consciously" realise the mechanisms of human nature, you will find yourself. But the ability to understand others will remain with you, which is the most powerful trait of all human beings.
Are you saying you are 'Acting'? You are not showing who you really are until you are completely comfortable?
HHMM... I think I can relate.
HHMM... I think I can relate.
He uses it as a protection.
I think what haffo is trying to say is being able to tune into others and play the part they are you can find out more about that person. It's ok to have the ability to understand others. The great thing about this is you can relate, but not have to open up everything about yourself.
That's where I was trying to get at. It's ok to protect your feelings. It gives you time to find out if the person you are trying to relate to is worth opening up to. If they are worth your time.
juwanapla
I personally think it has different meaning than understanding a particular person.
You see, human race emotional development is in very beginning level and people are too different from each other. There is even hardly something "common" with two, three people. This is the biggest problem of human race today. Some people do really capable to understand these things very clearly, but since there are so many differences, this makes them scare away from it. They just use this ability to "adapt" to them to not feel lonely or whicked until they find out whats wrong is going on.
I personally have this ability and if I will act according to it, then I will decide that I should listen 1-2 people out of 1000. What then? It's complete lonliness which no human being can stand. Therefore, I this is a protective quality of him.
I personally think it has different meaning than understanding a particular person.
You see, human race emotional development is in very beginning level and people are too different from each other. There is even hardly something "common" with two, three people. This is the biggest problem of human race today. Some people do really capable to understand these things very clearly, but since there are so many differences, this makes them scare away from it. They just use this ability to "adapt" to them to not feel lonely or whicked until they find out whats wrong is going on.
I personally have this ability and if I will act according to it, then I will decide that I should listen 1-2 people out of 1000. What then? It's complete lonliness which no human being can stand. Therefore, I this is a protective quality of him.
"hat's where I was trying to get at. It's ok to protect your feelings. It gives you time to find out if the person you are trying to relate to is worth opening up to. If they are worth your time."
It's general thing rather than personal.
It's general thing rather than personal.
"It's general thing rather than personal."
True. I found I would try to fit in by acting and doing what the others in my group would do. This is when I was younger. My late teens early twenties. I never really opened up to them, just tried to fit in. The more I matured, the more I realized people liked me better for being me.
I quote, from missmorals I believe, "Those that mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind"
True. I found I would try to fit in by acting and doing what the others in my group would do. This is when I was younger. My late teens early twenties. I never really opened up to them, just tried to fit in. The more I matured, the more I realized people liked me better for being me.
I quote, from missmorals I believe, "Those that mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind"
juwanapla
Do you see how you need to reprogram yourself after certain age? Why should we be programmed in one certain way (schools) and then reprogram ourselves in other more appropriate way? This is kind of frusturates me alot. I find this as some organisations try to manipulate us in certain way to create great slaves from us rather than free thinking and self confident people. This costs many years to people to realise that.
Do you see how you need to reprogram yourself after certain age? Why should we be programmed in one certain way (schools) and then reprogram ourselves in other more appropriate way? This is kind of frusturates me alot. I find this as some organisations try to manipulate us in certain way to create great slaves from us rather than free thinking and self confident people. This costs many years to people to realise that.
That just depends on how open people are to change. We all go through different stages in aging. Different 'transformations'. It depends on the individual and what kind of person they want to be. Do you want to follow the crowd and be like everyone else, or do you want to be you and unique?
What I say does not change your uniquenes. Once you learn univeral rules of human nature, you follow your own way.
Also, you can't follow % 100 for yourself. You live in a crowd and you depend on crowd. If you think anything against crowd, no matter even if its your own wish, you can't realise it. It's not possible. Human being is not fully free to act the way he wants. If you disagree, then I advise you to go and live in jungle alone out of civilisation and without any tools of it. Then you will realise what I mean.
What does that mean? full moon in scorpio..and? what shall we do about it..are we meant to be doing something?
Hey everyone thanks alot for the super quick responses....really helped out...you guys are actually right, instead of feeling bad about the fact that no body really understands me anymore, its rather a Gift because I am control whether I want to reveal myself or not and how much I want to reveal myself. I guess it has everything to do with the incredible insight that Scorpios have. For me its sort of like, when someone speaks to me for just a few minutes, i can see the reason there speaking to me, like there true intensions and motivations. And its true how they say Scorpios build a circle around them and only the trustworthy get inside, while the rest just keep seeing someone else's personality, who they think is me but its completely a diff. person. So what I usually do is test people in diff ways, mainly verbally, or test there patience, and if they screw up, they'll never enter the circle no matter how close the person maybe. At this point in my life, theres no one in my circle....im all alone...but im just preparing it for the one special scorpio girl that will come into mylife, then seal the doors and remain a mystery forever. I guess thats where the passion part comes in....if there only one person in your circle, imagine how much passion u can provide? Passion may be the good part, but theres also a side effect to this, the bad part about the circle, known as supressed feelings and that is my new topic. thanks
Mr.Scorpio
Mr.Scorpio
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