Failed break up - will Scorpio be vengeful?

So you had a talk about issues and nothing changed,and your wondering if it will, No it won`t..If you feel like it is so bad that you need advice chances are it is, but only you can decide for yourself..If you want a relationship that allows a man to control you then by all means stick around..If not, then you know what to do..

Scorpio change cycle works as follows:-

A)Scorpio has been told his/her behavior is inappropriate.

B)The un evolved/manipulative ones will get incredibly angry (might not show it) and try their best/play mind games to convince the person who has pointed out their shortcomings that they are fine, nothing needs to change .It takes a person with immense courage and a strong will to stand up to such manipulation without flinching and firmly tell a Scorpio in his face that he is wrong. Scorpio??s respect people with a spine.

C)If convinced (inherently, won't show it), the Scorpio will stop the manipulation, grow silent and want to be by himself.

Being alone serves a dual purpose:-

1) Hiding for a while because his large ego has been bruised

2) Reflect deeply on his inappropriate behavior, think of it from all possible angles and build a mental strategy to change it.

D)He will spend a fair amount of time trying to change/successfully change .He will avoid the person who pointed out his shortcomings meanwhile.

E)When he meets the person who showed him his place next time, he will refrain from mentioning the time when he was shown his place. He will be nice to that person who pointed out the need to change, respect him/her ,never play manipulative games with them and even demonstrate —changed?? behavior so that he wins their respect.

Bottom line =A scorpio??s behavior changes only when he himself wants to change it. Nothing else can trigger —change??.


Your scorpio knows 2 things
a)You??re using breaking up as a threat to get him to change and are not even semi serious about leaving.
b)You are pliable,not sufficiently strong willed to stand up to him(no offence ,but its true) and he can manipulate you effortlessly.

Hence he will not change.

You can stay or leave.

Also, the relationship doesn't seem optimally healthy because you??re nervous and even afraid of your partners vengeful behavior. Just saying, I might be wrong.

I didn't intend to use it as a threat, I actually did want to break up with him 100% but he insisited I hear him out and spent a whole hour explaining that I misunderstood him at times, so I listened and thought it didn't sound as bad as I thought before. It wasn't a game to me, I was really hurt. He asked me many times throughout the night if I was okay, not the other way around. Funny thing is I'm a Scorpio as well. I didn't give in to many things he asked me to do, like being disrespectful (in my eyes) to my friends or leaving my phone on at night so I don't consider myself easy to persuade. I get the point that I"m not going to get him to change though, he'll have to decide for himself. He has admitted he's very stubborn.

Scorpio with Scorpio🙂

Good to know you held your ground and did not give in.

Doesn't seem like you want to actually break up,you like him far too much and he adores you as well🙂.

It is evident from his actions that he is stubborn,even if he doesn't admit it🙂

Good luck🙂

Thanks 🙂 To be fair, I am 20 and have a lot to learn!