Faith in Scorpio man?

Quick glance at birth charts for those that take that into account....

Me Him
Sun Pisces Scorpio
Moon Aquarius Sagittarius
Mercury Pisces Libra
Venus Aries Sagittarius
Mars Aquarius Scorpio
Jupiter Taurus Taurus
Saturn Leo Leo
Uranus Scorpio Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius Sagittarius
Pluto Libra Libra
Chiron Aries Aries
Ascendant Virgo Aquarius

A little history about me...never been deeply in love with anyone, very fussy, I just don't attract to people easily, perhaps too idealistic, no one has ever touched me on the level I feel I'm capable of, no one pushes my buttons! I'm passionate, deep and spiritual. More or less your typical Pisces! *wink*

So we met on the net, Scorpio and I. We didn't talk long, maybe two hours, and arranged to meet for coffee the next day. One coffee at 3 in the afternoon soon turned into two, we ended up having dinner too! We just didn't want the meet up to end. It was electric from the first moment. The gazing into each others eyes. The chemistry almost tangable!
The first kiss...ahh...we were both like shy school kids...was so funny BUT....from then on...the kisses...absolutely amazing...feels like we're melting into each other and he agreed! *sigh*
We slept together on the 3rd date, too soon on reflection, not enough bonding time I think! Why..because I expected the kissing chemistry to flow into the sex straight away...I expected that melting into each other feeling to be there...but more bonding time and I think it would definately be life altering!
Week 3 he disappeared....he came back, talked about not being a very good partner cos he likes his freedom to do his hobby/sport, didn't know if he wanted a girlfriend, all forward thinking to me cos we were just getting to know each other it was still fairly casual.
Its been 3mths of hot n cold/push n pull. I stay calm, never question, just trust and give space.
He says there's a connection between us...its been 5 wks since I've heard from him now...its my first Scorpio encounter, I'm armed with knowledge...but its testing my trust, faith and core knowing....
Question: Should I have faith in the connection?
Additional info...psychic told me yrs ago i would meet him, strong knowings, crazy signs and weird happenings!

In my humble opinion, if you're in a situation like that and it's not making you happy, I'd walk. It's one thing to want space and to not be serious, bit it's another to up and vanish for over a month.
I'd move on, find someone else, and not include him in your plans and not be surprised if he reappears in a few weeks acting like nothing had happened.

My experience with a scop sun man with sagg venus....it was intense at first, but the hot n cold began....and it hurt. He came back after 6 weeks, for a short time, then left for another 6 weeks, came back...I too ignored it all...he was back for 4 months, with few pull backs, but he couldnt be consistant. Sagg venus needs independence, likes freedoom and takes long time to commit. Ive read its their testing to see if you are committed and will put up with it. They fear rejection and want to make sure you WILL NEVER LEAVE THEM...so they leave you to see how you will endure. BUT....they also respect people who stand up for themselves. For me, I would NEVER accept the hot n cold treatment again. He he comes back, Id straight up tell him you dig him. BUT this back and forth is NOT acceptable. And if he does bail again, make your actions match those words and let him go...

good luck

Posted by Scorp73
In my humble opinion, if you're in a situation like that and it's not making you happy, I'd walk. It's one thing to want space and to not be serious, bit it's another to up and vanish for over a month.
I'd move on, find someone else, and not include him in your plans and not be surprised if he reappears in a few weeks acting like nothing had happened.

Thanks for your thoughts, nice to hear a male scorps view.
Just getting on with it, if he comes back guess I'll play that one by ear, sounds like you think he will...must be a common thing! Don't get it though!

Posted by BigGirlPanties
My experience with a scop sun man with sagg venus....it was intense at first, but the hot n cold began....and it hurt. He came back after 6 weeks, for a short time, then left for another 6 weeks, came back...I too ignored it all...he was back for 4 months, with few pull backs, but he couldnt be consistant. Sagg venus needs independence, likes freedoom and takes long time to commit. Ive read its their testing to see if you are committed and will put up with it. They fear rejection and want to make sure you WILL NEVER LEAVE THEM...so they leave you to see how you will endure. BUT....they also respect people who stand up for themselves. For me, I would NEVER accept the hot n cold treatment again. He he comes back, Id straight up tell him you dig him. BUT this back and forth is NOT acceptable. And if he does bail again, make your actions match those words and let him go...

good luck

Thanks really interesting! Will definately be discussing if he does come back, although an ultimatium won't go down well I suspect, will have to be tactful too!