finally told him everything : )

Posted by Vixen2
"Im not moving back in with him cuz he wants to take things slow and see if this can be worked out or not. my best friend said i can live at his house when i get back."

that sounds like future potential trouble...don't you have anyone else you can stay with...perhaps?

Posted by scorply
Good luck hun.

Posted by pisceanloves
Oh thank goodness. Yes yes please keep us updated

Posted by Hemispheres
Jesus christ.. If you make another thread I'm gonn turn into the Dr.Kavorkian of abortions.

Posted by Scenic
Lol and then when you find out the baby is officially the gemini's your going to go back to him. Or the scorp will leave you once he finds out it's not his. In the mean time, we'll get the lovely experience of reading a Harry Potter length novel of threads from you.
Can't wait. Super excited.

Posted by TaurusGal92
will a scorpio forgive me?

Posted by Sagittarius16b
I was just about to post this in the other topic and saw this new one. This is what i wanted t say

Posted by TaurusGal92
will a scorpio forgive me?

Yes. If he loves you, hE will.. But prepare for a tough life, f he does. Also, if you hadn't " made the mistake " , you wouldn't.have known it would be a mistake. You didn't like his friend yet he kept on bringing him over. Not sure if you are pregnant or not and specially if you are you need be independent for a month and no sex. You need make scorpio ask you back. Tell him.you leave it up to him and this was a big mistake which you regret and feel horrible, .which seems be exactly how you feel. I am not aure if you should be discussing ypur swx worh his friend tja is veey offensive but moat important ia r aee ah at problems you had that brought down to rhis happening .of course...his friend is a douxhe. You made a mistake u come.to regret but this is how life is. Since i just read yku realy pregnanr you need prioritise the and hope it s rhe right father.

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Posted by Scenic
Lol and then when you find out the baby is officially the gemini's your going to go back to him. Or the scorp will leave you once he finds out it's not his. In the mean time, we'll get the lovely experience of reading a Harry Potter length novel of threads from you.
Can't wait. Super excited.

im not back together with my ex and im not with the gemini either

and all i wanted was to be free from this burden of lies and thats what happened and im fortunate i have my ex's support.... thats all i could have ever asked for.

if the baby is the geminis then oh well. i realized everything happens for a reason so if im pregnant now then im just gonna go with what god wants for me and have this baby. not gonna run from this.

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Posted by Scenic
Lol and then when you find out the baby is officially the gemini's your going to go back to him. Or the scorp will leave you once he finds out it's not his. In the mean time, we'll get the lovely experience of reading a Harry Potter length novel of threads from you.
Can't wait. Super excited.

im not back together with my ex and im not with the gemini either

and all i wanted was to be free from this burden of lies and thats what happened and im fortunate i have my ex's support.... thats all i could have ever asked for.

if the baby is the geminis then oh well. i realized everything happens for a reason so if im pregnant now then im just gonna go with what god wants for me and have this baby. not gonna run from this.

Right, even though you said previously that you don't want this baby. God won't help pay your bills or take care of your child while it's crying nonstop in the middle of the night. You'll both live peachy lives, I can tell.

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Posted by exxtasyx
I'm so happy for you girl.

Posted by Sagittarius16b
Hope you can read through typos. If you really pregnant you need prioritise and be aware your hormones will be very imbalanced and baby is a priority ( unless you decide t not have it).

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Posted by Scenic
Lol and then when you find out the baby is officially the gemini's your going to go back to him. Or the scorp will leave you once he finds out it's not his. In the mean time, we'll get the lovely experience of reading a Harry Potter length novel of threads from you.
Can't wait. Super excited.

im not back together with my ex and im not with the gemini either

and all i wanted was to be free from this burden of lies and thats what happened and im fortunate i have my ex's support.... thats all i could have ever asked for.

if the baby is the geminis then oh well. i realized everything happens for a reason so if im pregnant now then im just gonna go with what god wants for me and have this baby. not gonna run from this.

Right, even though you said previously that you don't want this baby. God won't help pay your bills or take care of your child while it's crying nonstop in the middle of the night. You'll both live peachy lives, I can tell.

the money was never the problem.... it was the situation i was in. but thank god everything turned out to be ok. i learned a huge lesson from this. its so important to trust the person u gave so much to with even the darkest secrets because u just never know. and they deserve to know the truth. i was so scared.

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Posted by Scenic
Lol and then when you find out the baby is officially the gemini's your going to go back to him. Or the scorp will leave you once he finds out it's not his. In the mean time, we'll get the lovely experience of reading a Harry Potter length novel of threads from you.
Can't wait. Super excited.

im not back together with my ex and im not with the gemini either

and all i wanted was to be free from this burden of lies and thats what happened and im fortunate i have my ex's support.... thats all i could have ever asked for.

if the baby is the geminis then oh well. i realized everything happens for a reason so if im pregnant now then im just gonna go with what god wants for me and have this baby. not gonna run from this.

Right, even though you said previously that you don't want this baby. God won't help pay your bills or take care of your child while it's crying nonstop in the middle of the night. You'll both live peachy lives, I can tell.

the money was never the problem.... it was the situation i was in. but thank god everything turned out to be ok. i learned a huge lesson from this. its so important to trust the person u gave so much to with even the darkest secrets because u just never know. and they deserve to know the truth. i was so scared.

It turned out okay? What...??? Nothing has even happened yet. Come back again when the child is in middle school and then tell us everything turned out okay. Not having your ex's support would be nothing compared to the hardships that await you

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Posted by Scenic
Alright, well when you come back saying the scorp abandoned you and the true father won't even pay child support I'll be sure to remind you that "everything happens for a reason".

Posted by champranger
Good luck OP

Posted by LuckyLibra979
I done seen it all on here this year alone. Ppl on here dying even though the doctors say they are OK, thots sleeping with their s/o friend, P-angel, possible multiple accounts by dxpers, we won't speak on the other relationship issues.



I'm going to reddit

Posted by TaurusGal92
hi guys. just wanna thank everyone on here who gave me good advice and constructive advice.... i really appreciate it. : ) im so grateful cuz i finally had the courage to tell my ex bf everything via phone. it was really really sad and we had a very long convo but he was so happy to hear my voice cuz the last time i saw him i kinda left asap and then got my mom to get my things and hes been trying to reach me ever since. we havent been apart from eachother for this long for over the 4 years we've been together so it took a toll on him.

i told him everything that happened between me and his friend and we both cryed on the phone. : ( i dont wanna get into personal things that was said because i really respect his privacy, hes a very private person, but he figured something happened between us cause he said he knew me and the way i left i wasnt telling him everything and something was not right. hes more mad at the gemini then me cuz he knows we've had problems in our relationship and he feels like the gemini took advantage of that. we are NOT back on but he wants to work on things and see where things go so im flying home tomorrow and we'll see eachother then and discuss things.... he thinks the baby is his but i was so honest with him and i told him im not sure if it is.... were gonna take paternity tests when im eligible for it (8-13 weeks) and see what happens.

im not moving back in with him cuz he wants to take things slow and see if this can be worked out or not. my best friend said i can live at his house when i get back. the gemini is very mad now cuz i broke things off with him cuz im not ready for a relationship right now. i jumped into things 2 quickly without working things out with other ppl in my life. dont know whats gonna happen w/ all this but maybe ill keep u guys posted.

thank u : )

Posted by LuckyLibra979
I done seen it all on here this year alone. Ppl on here dying even though the doctors say they are OK, thots sleeping with their s/o friend, P-angel, possible multiple accounts by dxpers, we won't speak on the other relationship issues.



I'm going to reddit

Posted by TaurusGal92
hi guys. just wanna thank everyone on here who gave me good advice and constructive advice.... i really appreciate it. : ) im so grateful cuz i finally had the courage to tell my ex bf everything via phone. it was really really sad and we had a very long convo but he was so happy to hear my voice cuz the last time i saw him i kinda left asap and then got my mom to get my things and hes been trying to reach me ever since. we havent been apart from eachother for this long for over the 4 years we've been together so it took a toll on him.

i told him everything that happened between me and his friend and we both cryed on the phone. : ( i dont wanna get into personal things that was said because i really respect his privacy, hes a very private person, but he figured something happened between us cause he said he knew me and the way i left i wasnt telling him everything and something was not right. hes more mad at the gemini then me cuz he knows we've had problems in our relationship and he feels like the gemini took advantage of that. we are NOT back on but he wants to work on things and see where things go so im flying home tomorrow and we'll see eachother then and discuss things.... he thinks the baby is his but i was so honest with him and i told him im not sure if it is.... were gonna take paternity tests when im eligible for it (8-13 weeks) and see what happens.

im not moving back in with him cuz he wants to take things slow and see if this can be worked out or not. my best friend said i can live at his house when i get back. the gemini is very mad now cuz i broke things off with him cuz im not ready for a relationship right now. i jumped into things 2 quickly without working things out with other ppl in my life. dont know whats gonna happen w/ all this but maybe ill keep u guys posted.

thank u : )

Posted by TaurusGal92
hi guys. just wanna thank everyone on here who gave me good advice and constructive advice.... i really appreciate it. : ) im so grateful cuz i finally had the courage to tell my ex bf everything via phone. it was really really sad and we had a very long convo but he was so happy to hear my voice cuz the last time i saw him i kinda left asap and then got my mom to get my things and hes been trying to reach me ever since. we havent been apart from eachother for this long for over the 4 years we've been together so it took a toll on him.

i told him everything that happened between me and his friend and we both cryed on the phone. : ( i dont wanna get into personal things that was said because i really respect his privacy, hes a very private person, but he figured something happened between us cause he said he knew me and the way i left i wasnt telling him everything and something was not right. hes more mad at the gemini then me cuz he knows we've had problems in our relationship and he feels like the gemini took advantage of that. we are NOT back on but he wants to work on things and see where things go so im flying home tomorrow and we'll see eachother then and discuss things.... he thinks the baby is his but i was so honest with him and i told him im not sure if it is.... were gonna take paternity tests when im eligible for it (8-13 weeks) and see what happens.

im not moving back in with him cuz he wants to take things slow and see if this can be worked out or not. my best friend said i can live at his house when i get back. the gemini is very mad now cuz i broke things off with him cuz im not ready for a relationship right now. i jumped into things 2 quickly without working things out with other ppl in my life. dont know whats gonna happen w/ all this but maybe ill keep u guys posted.

thank u : )

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Posted by TaurusGal92
hi guys. just wanna thank everyone on here who gave me good advice and constructive advice.... i really appreciate it. : ) im so grateful cuz i finally had the courage to tell my ex bf everything via phone. it was really really sad and we had a very long convo but he was so happy to hear my voice cuz the last time i saw him i kinda left asap and then got my mom to get my things and hes been trying to reach me ever since. we havent been apart from eachother for this long for over the 4 years we've been together so it took a toll on him.

i told him everything that happened between me and his friend and we both cryed on the phone. : ( i dont wanna get into personal things that was said because i really respect his privacy, hes a very private person, but he figured something happened between us cause he said he knew me and the way i left i wasnt telling him everything and something was not right. hes more mad at the gemini then me cuz he knows we've had problems in our relationship and he feels like the gemini took advantage of that. we are NOT back on but he wants to work on things and see where things go so im flying home tomorrow and we'll see eachother then and discuss things.... he thinks the baby is his but i was so honest with him and i told him im not sure if it is.... were gonna take paternity tests when im eligible for it (8-13 weeks) and see what happens.

im not moving back in with him cuz he wants to take things slow and see if this can be worked out or not. my best friend said i can live at his house when i get back. the gemini is very mad now cuz i broke things off with him cuz im not ready for a relationship right now. i jumped into things 2 quickly without working things out with other ppl in my life. dont know whats gonna happen w/ all this but maybe ill keep u guys posted.

thank u : )

i cried. not sure why.

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Posted by iCloud9
is it in your plan to go back to gem if the test tells that he is the father? i just hope at that time you are not going to switch back to the "crazy scorp ex" mindset. again, i said i'm not sure why i cried.

Posted by Alieness
I wonder if the Scorpio is on "the vengeance is mine" mode.

Posted by TaurusGal92

Posted by iCloud9
is it in your plan to go back to gem if the test tells that he is the father? i just hope at that time you are not going to switch back to the "crazy scorp ex" mindset. again, i said i'm not sure why i cried.

no i only called him that because i was trying to lie to myself that i hate him now cuz i didnt think we had a chance of working things out :/

but im not with my ex. or te gemini anymore. just taking it day by day. : )

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is it in your plan to go back to gem if the test tells that he is the father? i just hope at that time you are not going to switch back to the "crazy scorp ex" mindset. again, i said i'm not sure why i cried.

no i only called him that because i was trying to lie to myself that i hate him now cuz i didnt think we had a chance of working things out :/

but im not with my ex. or te gemini anymore. just taking it day by day. : )

i can see your plan is to take a step back yet keep both doors open with both scorp and gem until you know for sure who the father is . i'm not judging you just so that you know. you are doing what many would do in your shoes. i however are really hoping that gem is the father like you wished so scorp will let you go and move on with his life. you said it yourself that you are in love with gem not scorp. he obviously had lost your heart or never have it in the first place to keep your loyalty. don't lie to yourself. ask yourself how long can you guarantee your loyalty to scorp if your heart is not with him and be bound to him only because of the baby and the guilt you feel towards him. a year? two? how about 10+ years of longing for other men who your heart and body desire to touch? don't you think it's a painful road ahead for both of you if you stay together?

i'm having a hard time sympathizing with the gemini moon.

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Posted by MagicMona
i'd have went full OJ Simpson without the glove, Kato, and the white bronco chase. no one would ever find either of you.