Fixed signs with scorpios

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by VanillaShake on Tuesday, January 27, 2015 and has 13 replies.
I don't know if any of the rest of you are like this but I've dated probably more than my fair share and now I'm getting older and ready been ready to plant my feet with one man. As I sit back and think on old relationships and their signs I seem to notice the strongest and most lasting even yearning for those ex's came from fixed signs. Took me 6 years to get over a Leo I was madly in love with and still there will always been that love There. I read about that Scorpios can tend to find unfixed signs not up to standards. We tend to have pretty high expectations. I am highly fixed in my chart, my ex Leo is as well and so is my current aqua boo who I know if we split it would be just like my Leo and I would probably not be able to move on with someone else for a long time.
Any other Scorpios find this to be the case? I tend to have hardly any cares besides a love as a person towards the cancer, Virgo, etc. Ex's. I always end up arguing with those about what they could be doing to improve or spending time building up the cancers self esteem and motivation. With my fixed signs I find that generally I'm impressed and they give me courage seeing their strength to conquer New aspects of my life.
well there is the square or opposite aspect so it's not suppose to be easy by theory..
my luminaries are fixed I either get a long with them well or we butt heads
For some reason I adore the challenges in the fixed relationships. Its never boring and the intensity fills me up. I don't like failing at anything I do. Easy isn't in me I guess
Impulsiv do u have a lot of fixed signs in ur chart as well?
Posted by VanillaShake
I don't know if any of the rest of you are like this but I've dated probably more than my fair share and now I'm getting older and ready been ready to plant my feet with one man. As I sit back and think on old relationships and their signs I seem to notice the strongest and most lasting even yearning for those ex's came from fixed signs. Took me 6 years to get over a Leo I was madly in love with and still there will always been that love There. I read about that Scorpios can tend to find unfixed signs not up to standards. We tend to have pretty high expectations. I am highly fixed in my chart, my ex Leo is as well and so is my current aqua boo who I know if we split it would be just like my Leo and I would probably not be able to move on with someone else for a long time.
Any other Scorpios find this to be the case? I tend to have hardly any cares besides a love as a person towards the cancer, Virgo, etc. Ex's. I always end up arguing with those about what they could be doing to improve or spending time building up the cancers self esteem and motivation. With my fixed signs I find that generally I'm impressed and they give me courage seeing their strength to conquer New aspects of my life.


What are their moon signs... the Aqua and the LEO?
Other fixed signs can be disrespectful.
That is my pet peeve.
We are cool until I think you are crossing the line.
All drama and hell break loose.
This is the same in relationship, don't try me.
However I'm not domineering or controlling, because I check myself
esp taurus, oh they love to try me on the regular.
But those petty bull hoes aint worth the trouble
I am not really sure on my aspects I'm still learning all of this myself.
Me and my lion didn't work out due to life. Just was young and dumb in the beginning and years later things from the past that I had not told him got exposed to him from someone else and ended our love. We still run into each other and there is still the same smiles to each other But we both moved on and now he is engaged.
Leo is an aqua moon and my Aqua man currently is a scorpio moon. Haha all the fixed signs make me laugh. My Aquarius is also a Taurus rising lol
I have also never really met a fixed sign that didn't have groupies (admirers) trailing behind them all the time.
I can't enter a room without being noticed and my cancer and other non-fixed dates didn't necessarily like seeing that. I personally got tired of it ages ago especially when I'm dating someone. I want love not games.
I guess it's kind of sexy seeing that with my Leo and aqua that they have such power like myself that we are like royalty being together. Very powerful. I'm scorpio Sun, moon, rising, Pluto, mercury,and Saturn. I am as scorpio dominant as they come. That might be why I need strength in my partner.
warmwaters - LOL Bull hoes...... honestly can't say that I have dated a Taurus before even tho my current aqua is a Taurus rising..... but I was gonna say that the lions seem to keep their share of the "hoes"..... gotta get their compliments coming at a steady rate! My Lion had plenty of lil one's (say this cause the girls were all short) following him at his heels..... one of them is now engaged to him so I guess it pays to be a complimenting follower if you want a self involved Leo. But that was him..... Hopefully they aren't all like that
@Capricorn moon......... It was a lot of pain on me... he says he was hurt too but he could move on to other ladies and I was unable to give my heart to anyone again for YEARS! He knows better than anyone in this world how deep I feel..... and I know sympathizes ... I honestly don't think our lives could have worked together anyway just due to life style differences.
Thank you I hope me and Aqua love can maintain this..... I unleashed myself on him during a pms episode Sunday and this is only two or so weeks from the 2 weeks he went off and disappeared to "work on himself" ..... till I couldn't wait any longer it was starting to effect my mental health him being gone that long. But I was a good little scorpio that whole time... maintaining my patience and being respectful of his request. Right now I am starting to question whether the scales are tipping in our relationship and I think I'm about to go silent for awhile. During that episode he bounced back at my comments with things that stung me pretty good...... and even though I told him I'd stick with this however long it takes I'm starting to feel that .... what if it's never gonna be a compromise... its always just gonna be me bending..... so I am forcing time to myself to pull back some of my power in this relationship..... and see if he's willing to compromise to maintain this a healthy relationship.
As the powerful signs we are it's always maintenance on balance... those darn power struggles... I need this and you need that.....
I have a lot of cardinal in my chart, so I prefer cardinals (especially Aries and Libra!!!)
I do not think I will date a Taurus (Unless he's an Aries-Taurus cusp?)
Leo, it GREATLY depends on their birth chart. I met some Leo males that I did or did not like. I actually have a crush on one right now, but he's being independent and having fun in a different country at the moment. He's such a sweetie. Maybe in the future smile
Aquarius, my first high school crush but he turned out to be an A-hole LOL I feel like we can work out, but it DEPENDS on their birth chart. We understand each other so well. I just love having deep conversations with them!

It's weird I haven't really interacted with Taurus much to get an idea what they are like.
Leos like you said can vary greatly it seems depending on their charts.......
I've dated another scorpio in my youth but I was the dominant one in that relationship and it just didn't work.....
I need like a super strong male to handle me.... not that I'm crazy or anything but I am just a very independent (juggling my own balls and others in life) and I need a VERY understanding guy that can take on my emotional side and help me keep it from overwhelming both of us. And I guess that's why I am so keen on the fixed signed guys.... and also as others mentioned above I do like a guy that can keep me in my place ..... kinda feels like a sick perversion that I enjoy that... takes quite a man to be able to do that and my current boyfriend has been able to do that... but doesn't seem to be handling my emotions well. :-/