Friends with Benefits
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by houstonpeach74 on Wednesday, September 6, 2006 and has 9 replies.
I know the answer for men in general, but can Scorpio men keep the emotional and the physical aspects of sex separate or will/do they eventually get too wrapped up and develop feelings or attachment to the female?
This reminds me, my virgo friend just hooked up with a scorp... been together for a month and he already tattooed her name on his arm!
LOL...that's funny.
Scorpio men, what's your take?
Scorpio men, what's your take?
well, i've noticed there are two types of scorpio men:
a) the players, whose emotional lives revolve around burying everything inside and having as much fun as possible, and
b) the romantics, who (as opposed to the player) use their scorpio power for more stable relationships.
i'm very much the romantic type of scorpio man, although if the opportunity arose to have casual sex with a girl i'd most likely take it, not because i'm jeopardizing my values but because by doing something i know will $ #!@ me up in the head, i know i'm strong enough to find a greater meaning in the ensuing conflict and come out a better scorp.
so for me, it's impossible to have "casual", "no strings attached" sex.
a) the players, whose emotional lives revolve around burying everything inside and having as much fun as possible, and
b) the romantics, who (as opposed to the player) use their scorpio power for more stable relationships.
i'm very much the romantic type of scorpio man, although if the opportunity arose to have casual sex with a girl i'd most likely take it, not because i'm jeopardizing my values but because by doing something i know will $ #!@ me up in the head, i know i'm strong enough to find a greater meaning in the ensuing conflict and come out a better scorp.
so for me, it's impossible to have "casual", "no strings attached" sex.
Just wondering. AprilBaby made a comment on another thread that he was using work as a reason for not making time and that it really meant he wasn't into me. SHe's right. If someone was into you, they WOULD make time, no matter how busy or hectic your work schedule is.
Sooooo.....I proposed casual sex/casual relationship with him and he seems to be biting it. I asked him if he could separate the emotional aspect of it from the physical and he said he THOUGHT he could...I mean, he's a man...aren't all mean purely physical mostly?
He made it sound in one of his responses that he could try it and try not to get jealous if i wanted to see other people, blah blah blah.
I'm not going to have a casual relationship with him, just wanted to know his reaction.
Sooooo.....I proposed casual sex/casual relationship with him and he seems to be biting it. I asked him if he could separate the emotional aspect of it from the physical and he said he THOUGHT he could...I mean, he's a man...aren't all mean purely physical mostly?
He made it sound in one of his responses that he could try it and try not to get jealous if i wanted to see other people, blah blah blah.
I'm not going to have a casual relationship with him, just wanted to know his reaction.
**shudder**
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Casual sex..
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Casual sex..
What? HP Girl you are all messed up! Was this before or after you found out he lied about his birthday? I am hoping it was before because if it was after you should forget it. OR are you trying to use your "whip appeal" to hook his ass?
it was before...look at the time of the original posts for each subject.
Oh okay...How are you feeling HP?
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