Okay, before I begin, let me give you a backstory astrologically and generally. I am a Scorpio female with a Gemini moon, rising, Sag, mercury, Scorpio Venus and Virgo Mars. The Scorpio guy, let's call him "Satan" is a Scorpio sun, Virgo moon, Scorpio Mercury, Virgo Venus, Scorpio Mars. We initially met online, however from the same city and I accidentally met him looking for someone else at the time. Long story short, we had a brief encounter, but then after him experiencing a break-up with his 5-year girlfriend which occurred...about 5 months later he contacts me. Well, to be frank, his endeavor was to simply find a booty call. I shot him down if not immediately, letting him know that I am not interested. Yet, somehow he ended up confiding in me with everything he had recently gone through and we developed a very platonic relationship as I was at the time seeing somebody (stupid CRAZY Taurus), haha. Between April- August we become decently close friends, however, we have still not met in person and by this point, I had ended things with Mr.Crazy. Boy, let me tell you was he PERSISTENT! He went from wanting a booty-call to asking me out on a date which I, again, declined. He would call often and text me ALL of the time. Until one day, I was in my home town, I had an acid trip and was feeling deprived of affection and had decided to randomly ask him to come up. Believe it or not, he did. It was a 5-hour train ride for him and he showed up. Mind you, this was the first time we were meeting in person and I had already invited a multitude of friends to stay with me, so I figured it would be safe. He was very shy in person but we seemed to of connected easily, I was honestly simply looking for someone to screw and since I more or less knew him (from all of our conversations, he seemed to fit the role). He stayed in Toronto for 3 days, and each day we grew closer. He was very kind, paid for everything that being food and transportation. He definitely fits the Scorpio stereotype, we did have sex. I initiated it, foreplay was excellent and long. He has these piercing eyes, he likes to stare, felt almost as though he was staring deep into my soul. He would kiss my hand and right off the bat show heaps of affection. After he left, for the first day I did not hear from him, I am naturally a very communicative person, so I calmly asked where he and I stood. Instantaneously, he apologized for not getting back to me the day before, made up some crazy excuse and then admitted to developing feelings for me however he did not want to. I told that I was not looking for anything however because I liked him as well, I was considering taking it extremely slow, like going for coffee and getting to know one another on a platonic level but in person this time. He agreed, he started suggesting many plans, like asking to spend time with me on my birthday or taking me out for food. After that conversation, I stopped initiating, sat back and simply waited for him to contact me. Which, he did and rather so often. He always commented on how attracted he was to me, intellectually and physically. He told me that any other interests he may have had have been eradicated from his mind. He also said that he had photos of me saved on his phone and made it clear that they were only mine (personally, I find this to be a little weird). He would text me A LOT throughout the day, sometimes he would ask to text me instead messaging me on Facebook, I wouldn't and he would still end up being the first to text regardless. But then, one night he decided to ask me if I was interested in a "friends with benefits" "relationship", I shot that down if not immediately. And I quote" Hah! Keep dreaming, no thanks. Go find yourself another booty call". I honestly thought that I would NEVER hear from him again because that my usual experience with rejected men. Lo and behold, he disappears for 24 hours and then comes back, messaging me hearts at 4-5 in the morning! Telling me that he cannot sleep. I am rather confused? After that conversation, he invited me to go skydiving with him and his friend in the next couple of weeks. It has has been 2 days since that conversation and I have not heard from him. I am taking a nonchalant approach and letting him be, I do not like to chase, have great confidence in myself and expect nothing from this individual but I am so darn curious to understand his behavior. I have some theories and will give you some extra background information. Regarding the 5 year relationship, his ex-cheated on him with his cousin in a portal poddy. He then sought out revenge and cheated on her, she ended the relationship. He told me that he does not believe in love, is very cynical and "nihilistic". However, months before he told me that he may of let his "soulmate"...some girl he met at an event slip through his hands....I suspect a needy personality? Are Scorpio men often this needy? I feel as though he is going through a battle between his head and heart. Please get back to me, I am curious to know what is going on in this individuals heart and if this is a good idea to keep him around?
