Have you ever cheated on your partner?

Question for EVERYONE!!!!!

Have you ever cheated?

Why do you think you cheated?

Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?

Do you still cheat now?

Have you ever cheated?
Yes twice, i regret the first one

Why do you think you cheated?
well the first time i was 15 and emotionally wacked, it was ending for a million reasons and i ended up kissing a boi at a party and it scarred me for life.

the second time was with a overly possesive, controling and domineering man. i guess u can cal it cheating, but i already considered the relationship long over. the only reason u can say it was cheating is because i never declared anything, but i wasnt talking to my ex for like over a week or two so?

Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?

honestly, if a person cheats, they cheat. nothing more to say about it. not saying once a cheater always a cheater, that would be closed minded. yes i agree u should end the relationship b4 cheating, but honestly sometimes u can end it, but they dont and if they keep pursuiting u then thats something diff. i dont think im a cheater, cuz i wouldnt cheat on the person im with now. he gives me the love and respect i deserve, but everyone has there reasons so to automatically make an opinion without discussing the issue woulod be closed minded. i knew a guy who cheated on a majority of his gfs, he got with my best friend and i told him i'd kill hi if he did anything. they go married 2 weeks ago, never cheated.

Do you still cheat now?

i would never cheat on the man that i loved, his heart and his respect is valued far above my own, if i was gonna leave i'd leave and never look back. why hurt him when i can just walk away?

I tried to cheat on my pisces when I was like 23 or so...drove to the guy house and could get out the car and drove back home.

I believe most people cheat because they are missing something at home with there significant other, or they cheat because they can get away with it.

I believe that a person can change eventually but I would not put to much into it.

I could never cheat...I would leave the person before I cheat on them.

"I tried to cheat on my pisces when I was like 23 or so...drove to the guy house and could get out the car and drove back home."

LMAO...o gosh.

I've never "cheated".
But there is nothing more hilarious/stupid/painful than being dumped for cheating when you were totally innocent.

My ex (pisces) had this huge soap opera made up that I was cheating on him with my best guy friend [he liked me], we did flirt so I can give him that. But the storyline was all wrong. So out of whack that I didn't even try to prove myself, I denied a couple of times and then he threatened to break up with me and what do you know.

Only to be asked back 10 hours later.

O goodness =D Eventually I got back with him....6 months later and he still thought I cheated on him LMAO.

>>Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?

Woops...sorry didn't answer all the questions. I am currently observing this statement right now in my life and from other people's situations... no one has proved that statement to be false.

Something I find really curious about the responses is that everyone interpreted the word "cheating" in the masculine sense, completely disregarding the female interpretation of love.

Example:

1. Man thinks his woman might be cheating .. immediately he thinks physical and that his woman fucked somebody.

2. Woman thinks her man might be cheating ... immediately she thinks that her man loves another woman.


If a woman found out her man might be cheating .. the first words out of her mouth is, "Do you love her" ... love her? wtf? He probably didn't even know her name.

If a man held another woman in his arms, stroked her hair and told her she was beautiful .. this my female friends IS cheating, whether he fucks her or not because to love a woman means to love her EMOTIONALLY .. not physically.

Two situations ...

1. Your man fucks another woman .. this might be forgiven, maybe he was drunk, he's sorry, he'll never do it again. Perhaps, it won't be forgotten and perhaps the relationship might change .. however, a woman won't necessarily leave her man because he got a random blow job from some skank.

2. You find out your man told another woman she was beautiful while he pulled her close to his neck ......... HE'S FUCKING HISTORY. No excuses, no forgiving, absolutely gets tossed to the curb without a second thought.



Definitely a man's world out here ... even when women think in terms of love and cheating, they think in the masculine sense instead of the feminine, for the term "cheating" was done so by all the female responsers.

No wonder women struggle to find Mr. Right ... she's thinking as he would as a male, instead of how she should, which is female.

Women are bound to the male interpretations of love .. so long as this continues, there will never be a Mr. Right, because you ladies are female, not male.

define cheating...

bleh, just saw pangels post. i agree 100%

on more than one occasion I've had some a $ $ hole find a loop hole reason to how their actions couldn't be defined as cheating, even though they clearly were.

Have you ever cheated? Yep

Why do you think you cheated? Spite. she slept with her ex and rubbed it in my face, so i slept with mine the same day right before makeup sex... it was beautiful. 🙂

Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways? Everyone is looking out for themselves, so ultimately, they are going to do what is in their best interest. someone will always be hurt for this simple reason.

A and B are in a relationship. A loves B, but B loves C. A resents C and B hates A for it. B doesn't sleep with C but talks to C way too often. A gets jealous and A and B break up. its not the first time and it wont be the last.

is it A's fault? maybe

is it B's fault? possibly

the relationship simply didn't work out. something was missing and they went seeking to have that need fulfilled. whether it be sex, attention, affection, excitement, etc.

zoo u definately hit that one on the head. i mean who's to say who's fault it was. honestly does it really matter what you did b4 'we' got into a relationship? NO! like honestly are we walking around with relationship resumes and saying 'eh well, it seems here u had a bit of a lasp... what happened?'. like no thats not the case, what ur relationship is with one person, will not be with another. met one cancer boy, loved him to death and still enjoy his company. met another and hated him and cant wait to see him chock on a poison apple! logically it wouldn't make sense to accuse someone of something if u don't know the situation b4, and even still what if they learned from it? what urdecision was at the time does not mean it'll be the same the second time around. therefore once a cheat, not always a cheat.

"like honestly are we walking around with relationship resumes and saying 'eh well, it seems here u had a bit of a lasp... what happened?"

LOL!!

oh god! i cant stop laughing!!! :'D

"hated him and cant wait to see him chock on a poison apple"


:: sighs ::

Once a cheat, always a cheat .. once a liar, always a liar ..


The wind just keeps blowing and blowing .. and not much else is anyone aware of.

So long as we are just responding through emotional spikes, instead of using our brains .. we will always be cheats and liars and wishing people to choke to death.

For every ill-will that is wished upon another .. a random person might be dying because of it. Perhaps, this is the answer to mystic's question about why bad things happen to good people.

We put this energy out there to float along the energy grid and some poor sod gets it.

again... points to my last entry in this blog.... it doesnt make sense to judge someone to harshly. granted i used to be completely like that when i was like... 8 yrs old. i had my life set, i wanna gonna marry the first person i ever loved, if a man ever cheated i'd leave, i would never cheat, and i'd only have sex if i loved someone.

obviously none that has worked. theres so many middle grounds, how can u be so short sighted on the subject? granted maybe cheating isnt right, but shit happens. i cant blame my b4 100% if she messed with some chick when he was drunk, cuz i kno how he drinks.... but i'd have a little more respect for him considering he actually told me. i rather hear the truth than hear a lie.

P-Angle that is right. But to me I think even talking sexy with another woman is cheating. If you fuck her your done. If you talk to her and lie to me about it your done. If you pull her close to you and call her beautiful your ass is definitly grass. If you have feelings for her your done. I have cheated so now I am worse about it. But if you love me and I love you then it wont happen period.......

I always say fi you don't want it to happen then dont put yourself in the situation to happen..........

DIDO, Nothing else to say

P-Angel's post pretty much said it all.

i love you p-angel ;D you're truly a ray of sunshine.

I couldn't have said it better myself angel!

cheating is cheating.

i'm not short sighted on the topic, it simply is what it is.