scorpdiva
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Heading for trouble
I have attempt to try that but it never works I always ending meeting somebody but maybe that is what I need to just be alone, I was alone for about a year until I met the first Sagg so it is possible.....
Posted by DazedScorp
I don't know what it is, but it seems like all the scorps are feeling unwanted as of lately. Im feeling the same way about my aries right now, and I'm on the fence about what to do. I'm starting to feel really bad about looking for attention else where.
I think it's going to come down to me just ending it because I don't think she will change, and I don't want to hurt her by cheating because I love her too much. I'm going to have a talk with her this week about it. If she chooses to not want to hear what I have to say, then I think that makes my choice a little easier. If they're not willing to make some type of effort to even listen to your concerns, no matter how small they may be, they won't be willing to make an effort when the relationship hits a major rough patch.
No communication = No relationship
I couldn't agree more no commumication then what type of relationship do we have but he will simply pull away and not communicate at all. That is my issue also I am not a cheater in the physical sense but I have been having long conversation with this person so that could make me a cheater mentally.
@scorpdiva,
didnt you get to a point where you wanted sag#1 to propose to you? like a couple weeks ago.
didnt you get to a point where you wanted sag#1 to propose to you? like a couple weeks ago.
Posted by DMV
@scorpdiva,
didnt you get to a point where you wanted sag#1 to propose to you? like a couple weeks ago.
Posted by ellessque
@scorpdiva
the best thing to do is to be honest with sag #1. you don't have to go into as breaking up but do tell him how you are feeling and that there is another person of interest. put the ball in his court.
i have to agree with the venus scorp/moon libra sag. you may find this a better match.
out of respect for sag #1....lay it all out there. If you do feel love for him then you should be able to express your feelings openly. if not, is it really love? or just those feelings of love that catch up to us sometimes?
This is what I am going to have to do it is just getting the opportunity to talk with him seriously I notice he run away or avoids the conversation if he feels he has to express his self too much or if it is simply an uncomfortable situatiion for him. I am not trying to use astrology as an excuse to just be friends with him but I am thinking with that venus in Sagg is that ever gonna to change.
At the risk of sounding shallow, there is no ring on your finger...so I would continue to talk and eventually meet Sag#2 and see where it goes..no need to say anything to Sag#1 yet. It might turn out that this new guy is not as great as he seems. Sometimes, another man makes you see how good you have it.
@scorpdiva,
saggis preach honesty and thats what should happen. tell sag#1 that you want to date other people and see what he says. he probably ignored you because he felt like you were blowing steam and trying to exert control once again.
saggis preach honesty and thats what should happen. tell sag#1 that you want to date other people and see what he says. he probably ignored you because he felt like you were blowing steam and trying to exert control once again.
Posted by TheLadySagittarius
At the risk of sounding shallow, there is no ring on your finger...so I would continue to talk and eventually meet Sag#2 and see where it goes..no need to say anything to Sag#1 yet. It might turn out that this new guy is not as great as he seems. Sometimes, another man makes you see how good you have it.
i read no shallowness.
Posted by TheLadySagittarius
At the risk of sounding shallow, there is no ring on your finger...so I would continue to talk and eventually meet Sag#2 and see where it goes..no need to say anything to Sag#1 yet. It might turn out that this new guy is not as great as he seems. Sometimes, another man makes you see how good you have it.
My words exactly......
@Exo that's the bad thing I am suppose to be dating the first Sagg but I feel single and alone and that's why the second sagg was able to get to my head.
I understand what everyone is saying really and also I just had a long conversation with Sagg #2 and we plan on meeting this weekend so we will see, we are meeting in a group setting so we will see.
I understand what everyone is saying really and also I just had a long conversation with Sagg #2 and we plan on meeting this weekend so we will see, we are meeting in a group setting so we will see.
Posted by scorpdiva
@Exo that's the bad thing I am suppose to be dating the first Sagg but I feel single and alone and that's why the second sagg was able to get to my head.
I understand what everyone is saying really and also I just had a long conversation with Sagg #2 and we plan on meeting this weekend so we will see, we are meeting in a group setting so we will see.
did you tell sag#1 that you feel single and alone. venus in sag can take some time to commit. you really have to go with the flow with this aspect. but scorps (especially scorp women) dont go with the flow; you set the flow and expect others will go with it. not the case with all saggis.
just admit to sag#1 that your bored, your not wasting your time anymore, and its over.
Posted by DMVPosted by scorpdiva
@Exo that's the bad thing I am suppose to be dating the first Sagg but I feel single and alone and that's why the second sagg was able to get to my head.
I understand what everyone is saying really and also I just had a long conversation with Sagg #2 and we plan on meeting this weekend so we will see, we are meeting in a group setting so we will see.
did you tell sag#1 that you feel single and alone. venus in sag can take some time to commit. you really have to go with the flow with this aspect. but scorps (especially scorp women) dont go with the flow; you set the flow and expect others will go with it. not the case with all saggis.
just admit to sag#1 that your bored, your not wasting your time anymore, and its over.click to expand
I think I will, wish me luck....... Do you think it would be fine if I text him this I know if I am like let's talk he will avoid me.
lol, do scorps ever tell people bad news to their faces?
if thats the amount of respect that you have for him, sure text him.
if thats the amount of respect that you have for him, sure text him.
smh @scorpios.
shaking my head
I don't think its that scorpio are lonely. I finding that many people aren't aware how deep scorpios love... We come off a little strong. and we expect our mates to feel and act the same. But no one can match the intensity of a scorpio... I'm learning that too. We need alot of attention, thats our problem not our mates. so we beat ourselves up because we feel we're not getting enough attention.. but the truth of the matter is we'll never get enough. we tend to love unlike any other sign and expect our mates to trumph it.... almost to the point it comes off as demanding...
Posted by exoskeletonPosted by DMVPosted by scorpdiva
@Exo that's the bad thing I am suppose to be dating the first Sagg but I feel single and alone and that's why the second sagg was able to get to my head.
I understand what everyone is saying really and also I just had a long conversation with Sagg #2 and we plan on meeting this weekend so we will see, we are meeting in a group setting so we will see.
did you tell sag#1 that you feel single and alone. venus in sag can take some time to commit. you really have to go with the flow with this aspect. but scorps (especially scorp women) dont go with the flow; you set the flow and expect others will go with it. not the case with all saggis.
just admit to sag#1 that your bored, your not wasting your time anymore, and its over.
i just realized how conflicted i am with scorp sun and sag venus, lol.click to expand
how so?
Posted by exoskeletonPosted by ellessque
I prefer email.
my people LOVE when they get a text that says "You have mail". 😛
this made me laugh. 🙂 i do the same shit. everyone hates it, but i'd rather get everything i have to say out at once.click to expand
is that really it? it seemed like my scorp would only grow a set of balls when he was on text/email. face to face, he was like a big bowl of mush.
Posted by texastee
I don't think its that scorpio are lonely. I finding that many people aren't aware how deep scorpios love... We come off a little strong. and we expect our mates to feel and act the same. But no one can match the intensity of a scorpio... I'm learning that too. We need alot of attention, thats our problem not our mates. so we beat ourselves up because we feel we're not getting enough attention.. but the truth of the matter is we'll never get enough. we tend to love unlike any other sign and expect our mates to trumph it.... almost to the point it comes off as demanding...
i kinda disagree. i dont think my scorp could match my intensity.
Yes, it is.
Because if we see your facial expression, your eyes, your body language we will start to backpeddle and you will never get the full story out of us.
I like email because I can pour it all out. Then after I send it I reread it 107 times. Sometimes regretting I sent it and sometimes making sure it's going to be interpreted correctly (that's probably merc in sag though)
Truth.
So True I do this all the time...........
Because if we see your facial expression, your eyes, your body language we will start to backpeddle and you will never get the full story out of us.
I like email because I can pour it all out. Then after I send it I reread it 107 times. Sometimes regretting I sent it and sometimes making sure it's going to be interpreted correctly (that's probably merc in sag though)
Truth.
So True I do this all the time...........
hmm, let me tell you have the REST of the world see that non-verbal communication.
cowardly.
cowardly.
Posted by ellessquePosted by texastee
I don't think its that scorpio are lonely. I finding that many people aren't aware how deep scorpios love... We come off a little strong. and we expect our mates to feel and act the same. But no one can match the intensity of a scorpio... I'm learning that too. We need alot of attention, thats our problem not our mates. so we beat ourselves up because we feel we're not getting enough attention.. but the truth of the matter is we'll never get enough. we tend to love unlike any other sign and expect our mates to trumph it.... almost to the point it comes off as demanding...
I agree with this.
I especially agree with....
We come off a little strong
-yep, and sometimes that scares people away
expect our mates to feel and act the same
-yep, and we go to the extreme to give them a chance to reciprocate, if they don't or they play around with our passion we snatch it back quickly and the road back to it is bumpy
But no one can match the intensity
-yep, but if they try just as intense as we do we write them off as being clingy and smothering. double standard
we tend to love unlike any other sign and expect our mates to trumph it
-yep, and we are very arrogant about itclick to expand
with the intensity. i truly felt like i really matched his intensity and he couldnt handle it. whenever my scorp would hover over me, i wrote it off as clingy behavior. whenever i would hover over him, he would write it off as clingy behavior.
its like you get what youve been dreaming for all your life and then you dont want it.
Posted by ellessque
"its like you get what youve been dreaming for all your life and then you dont want it."
Yep. I agree with you. I've been there and have done that. I don't know why we do it.
Cowardly? Perhaps it can be seen that way but we truly don't like hurting people. If I SEE I'm hurting you I will change my tune and tell you what you want to hear if it's an uncomfortable situation.
would your new tune be the truth? or just what the other person wants to hear?
Posted by DazedScorp
I don't know what it is, but it seems like all the scorps are feeling unwanted as of lately. Im feeling the same way about my aries right now, and I'm on the fence about what to do. I'm starting to feel really bad about looking for attention else where.
I think it's going to come down to me just ending it because I don't think she will change, and I don't want to hurt her by cheating because I love her too much. I'm going to have a talk with her this week about it. If she chooses to not want to hear what I have to say, then I think that makes my choice a little easier. If they're not willing to make some type of effort to even listen to your concerns, no matter how small they may be, they won't be willing to make an effort when the relationship hits a major rough patch.
No communication = No relationship
WOW I have not been on this site in forever.
I have been dating a Pisces for a minute and he makes me feel very wanted and satisfied all the time. He gets me and knows just want to do to make me happy. He picks up on my shyness and will tell me in a minute if he feels/sense something is not right with me.
My only issue was our communication, but when I told him that "our communication sucks" he made the adjustment quick and things have been good since.
So I don't think this statement applies to all scropios because I am very happy and I feel very wanted not only by my pisces but by my ex who keeps calling and other people that just wants to get to know me, but I am with my pisces and I am happy. :-)so no one will get my time but my pisces.
Scorpdiva
If a man have this much control over your head and is making you feel single then why stress what to do. Just take a step back and let him miss you, do you but don't feel a void by being with another man to make yourself feel better/wanted or needed.
If a man have this much control over your head and is making you feel single then why stress what to do. Just take a step back and let him miss you, do you but don't feel a void by being with another man to make yourself feel better/wanted or needed.
Posted by Scorpionlady
Scorpdiva
If a man have this much control over your head and is making you feel single then why stress what to do. Just take a step back and let him miss you, do you but don't feel a void by being with another man to make yourself feel better/wanted or needed.
do scorpios = step back?
Posted by ellessquePosted by DMVPosted by ellessque
"its like you get what youve been dreaming for all your life and then you dont want it."
Yep. I agree with you. I've been there and have done that. I don't know why we do it.
Cowardly? Perhaps it can be seen that way but we truly don't like hurting people. If I SEE I'm hurting you I will change my tune and tell you what you want to hear if it's an uncomfortable situation.
would your new tune be the truth? or just what the other person wants to hear?
that is such a tough question.
if i was breaking your heart....what you want to hear.
if i was telling you that your shirt is shit ugly and don't match your shoes.....it would be truth.click to expand
lol
hmmmm
Well an update for you all, Sagg #1 I did text him saying that I think we need to be friends before I even went last weekend to meet Sagg #2. When I told Sagg #1 he just replied do what you feel, keep in mind I did try to call him first but no answer so I had no choice but to text and also it was much eaiser to text. So I meet up with Sagg #2 Saturday we all went out him, me and some other friends we went to his place afters and played the (I Never Game) and yes shots were involved more for him then me ofcourse since I am not really a drinker. So we got up to hug and he wanted to show me aroung his new place and we ended up in the bathroom and I ended up on the sink it was defintely hot and steamy a lot of sexual attraction between us two. So me and my sis who was with me we stayed at his place till 6am and no sleeping took place but that afternoon which it was Sunday by now Sagg # 1 texts me like I Love you But, Just But.......
So I couldn't help it so I text him back and we starting talking and I just let it all out, I told him I have been trying to show you how I feel and I get nothing back from you, I told him you don't even try. He replied true I can try harder but he said when I do wrong he would like me to own up to it, so needless to say we are back on speaking terms but I don't think he is really going to change so I am still talking to Sagg #2 and I think he wants to be SERIOUS but with both I kinda just want to take it day by day. I Kinda feel bad but then again why should I, I am a single women just talking to them both and when I know it's serious with either one I will let the one who didn't make it know that they are a friend and nothing more.......
So I couldn't help it so I text him back and we starting talking and I just let it all out, I told him I have been trying to show you how I feel and I get nothing back from you, I told him you don't even try. He replied true I can try harder but he said when I do wrong he would like me to own up to it, so needless to say we are back on speaking terms but I don't think he is really going to change so I am still talking to Sagg #2 and I think he wants to be SERIOUS but with both I kinda just want to take it day by day. I Kinda feel bad but then again why should I, I am a single women just talking to them both and when I know it's serious with either one I will let the one who didn't make it know that they are a friend and nothing more.......
@ OP
I think you should become a prostitute.
Sex is a sure thing.
No need to overthink a relationship that only lasts an hour.
You get to supplement your income.
I think you should become a prostitute.
Sex is a sure thing.
No need to overthink a relationship that only lasts an hour.
You get to supplement your income.
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