Help for my scorpio friend?
This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by RomanticGhostLoaf on Tuesday, September 27, 2016 and has 1 replies.
Hi all,
I'd love some advice on how to help my scorpio friend, I feel a bit lost with it. Her moon's in virgo and her mercury and venus are in scorpio, I don't know her rising.
She's had a really, really difficult year - dumped by both a long-term and a short term boyfriend, she's been forced to move house twice and her health is not good (she suffers from a lifelong illness), nor are her finances.
Now she's interested in an aries guy, libra moon and venus in aries. He's quite recently out of a 6-year relationship, but him and my friend kissed at a party recently. I keep telling her to take things slowwwwly, and I have even used astrology to try and explain this to her (she thinks astrology is total bullsh*t). Thing is, she gets incredibly obsessive. She's already messaged him twice (they kissed on saturday night), despite me advising her not to (and her agreeing it's sensible advice). She really likes him.
I don't want to add to her pile of misery by being a total party pooper, but I really think she should take it super chill with this guy if she wants anything to come of it (and I think there could be something if she is willing to be patient). I'm worried because she really has had such a hard year and I worry she wouldn't cope with another blow. Then again, I realise she's an adult and that I can't do much more than just give my opinion and a shoulder to cry on, but GAH. I know scorpios are super resilient and strong though, so maybe I shouldn't worry so much? Any input would be greatly appreciated.
I'd love some advice on how to help my scorpio friend, I feel a bit lost with it. Her moon's in virgo and her mercury and venus are in scorpio, I don't know her rising.
She's had a really, really difficult year - dumped by both a long-term and a short term boyfriend, she's been forced to move house twice and her health is not good (she suffers from a lifelong illness), nor are her finances.
Now she's interested in an aries guy, libra moon and venus in aries. He's quite recently out of a 6-year relationship, but him and my friend kissed at a party recently. I keep telling her to take things slowwwwly, and I have even used astrology to try and explain this to her (she thinks astrology is total bullsh*t). Thing is, she gets incredibly obsessive. She's already messaged him twice (they kissed on saturday night), despite me advising her not to (and her agreeing it's sensible advice). She really likes him.
I don't want to add to her pile of misery by being a total party pooper, but I really think she should take it super chill with this guy if she wants anything to come of it (and I think there could be something if she is willing to be patient). I'm worried because she really has had such a hard year and I worry she wouldn't cope with another blow. Then again, I realise she's an adult and that I can't do much more than just give my opinion and a shoulder to cry on, but GAH. I know scorpios are super resilient and strong though, so maybe I shouldn't worry so much? Any input would be greatly appreciated.
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